Kvb s niceness is his weakness

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tanvismile

@tanvismile

Sparkler

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Posted: 6 years ago

As human beings we have some qualities which become r strength in some situations while they become weaknesses in other situations. Like for example an aggressive person for eg megha is good at tasks and fighting for herself and sometimes goes out of control like spitting and throwing shoes.

Similarly kvb is kind hearted guy who is supportive towards his friends. In relationships he puts them above himself. He is also forgiving . This shows his mental strength. If they fight he will give it back but if they are manipulative he can't give it back. I mean he can see their niceness but can't figure out they r using him. He even once said to camera can't understand who is real or fake. So in a way his niceness becomes his weakness. This happens with people who are genuine . They don't accept it because the person doing it is their friend.

Has anyone heard about shivani and brahmakumari? I don't know kvb has joined it or following it. But I heard shivani s lecture to never lower ur frequency for others. Spread ur frequency to others around u. No matter what the situation is u always be positive. I remember she said if people take u for granted so let it be. Those mean people will also change. I like her all lectures but not this one. If anyone has depression or any other tension feeling stressed please do watch her videos.

This attitude of kvb and Teejay has really helped them to create beautiful life but it doesn't work in Bb.

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Posted: 6 years ago

Yes true. Despite Deepak's alleged backstabbing he came to comfort him and was there for him.

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454573

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Posted: 6 years ago

This is not that simple. KV has showed insecurities and jealousies as well. Fine there is no need to be Dipika or Sreesanth. I understand that. However the fact that he

- joined shameless and disgusting and crass people like surbhi rohit and deepak

- did not condemn them

- laughed with them at miseries of others

- did not show self respect and became a dheet who has no shame even realizing that he is a misfit but continued it just because he disliked dipika and sree

This lack of character showed that this is not a case of a nice person ..

This is not even a case of error in judgement

He has ample time to realize

He was not passive even..he was active in all this and remained quiet

These are bad qualities...

If he were to remain neutral and independent I would have favored him over Dipika and Sree. No brainer

But his active participation in other group without showing any self respect..without getting anything...showed he is a loser in the end. I mean u did all this..such a big change for nothing. Just shows ur insecurity ..

His main problem is he is NOT A LEADER.

HE WILL NOT WIN THIS SHOW!

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Author Sneha

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Posted: 6 years ago

I m really not able to understand when ppl say KV is acting mahaan? I can't see any mahaanta .If being mahaan is Not shouting, abusing then I m happy he isn't mahaan.

I don't know about commoners in BB, but I being a commoner, (my dad is an army officer), hv been taught how to be nice n kind to others, and how to speak things in a way NOT to hurt others . There is a thin line between fakeness and Being Diplomatic .I can relate to KV so much. There is something called chivalry n being gentleman. And we are taught that from childhood.

Yes, sorry to say, but KV is a people pleaser (even I am) . But thats how ppl in our society behave. If we don't get things which we want, we don't snatch it, Or start yelling and abusing .

Lemme give a small example. Yesterday,My bro got 2 pastries , one choc n 1 strawberry. He said he wanted chocolate one, so I took strawberry (chocolate is my fave). Doesn't mean I m being mahaan or sacrificing . Strawberry is also good. Lol .But what I meant is We are not living in jungle and this is NO Darwin theory that only strong can survive . We are used to a different kind of life and are not used to snatching or shouting .

Jab tak KV was a YES- MAN to these Sree-Pika, he was everyone's fav in this forum, but when he became captain and decided to put Sree in Jail, Miss-holier than thou Deepika gave him a cold shoulder and stopped talking to him ! Obviously he is not going to fall on her feet,and he decided to form a third frontier with Srishty. But bad luck again, she got evicted .Of course in BB , u need screenspace ... So u can't stay alone .Surbhi, Deepak n Rohit were good with him and he went in their group.

Btwn, I dislike HC. Can't stand these crass ppl. But that doesn't make KV crass, just bcz he is mingling with them.

Sure , KV is a people pleaser. Yes he does behave goofy, dumb n confused sometimes .That is his nature. Every person has pros n cons .

But Nobody can deny KV has a heart of gold.

I had mentioned the something on similar lines in Hippo's thread.

Not sure why hippp suddenly changed preference , from fave KV to hate KV? Anyways...

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454573

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Posted: 6 years ago

I am not seeing Mr Bohra through Dipika's eyes. No one can see him through Sree'e eyes as both are at war since weeks now.

IT IS NOT ABOUT DIPIKA.

It is about this BIG CHANGE...From one side to becoming PAAPA of surbhi lol

And that too without gaining any benefit. Or lets say without any self respect.

I am genuinely hating his personality...

He is coming out as weak...

I am like that..

If I invest on someone ...if I made him my favorite..if I gave him 9/10 and then if I see this...IT IS AN INSULT TO ME. lol. When I invest in someone it is an honor for that person...and someone takes my liking for granted then this is what he gets. It has nothing to do with Dipika ...I can say the same that since he is against Dipika you are liking him or some others.

Please dont insult my 160+ certified IQ lol.

Dont insult my 84 year old wisdom

This guy has upset me big time.

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Author Sneha

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Dr.Hippopotamus
I am not seeing Mr Bohra through Dipika's eyes. No one can see him through Sree'e eyes as both are at war since weeks now.

IT IS NOT ABOUT DIPIKA.

It is about this BIG CHANGE...From one side to becoming PAAPA of surbhi lol

And that too without gaining any benefit. Or lets say without any self respect.

I am genuinely hating his personality...

He is coming out as weak...

I am like that..

If I invest on someone ...if I made him my favorite..if I gave him 9/10 and then if I see this...IT IS AN INSULT TO ME. lol. When I invest in someone it is an honor for that person...and someone takes my liking for granted then this is what he gets. It has nothing to do with Dipika ...I can say the same that since he is against Dipika you are liking him or some others.

Please dont insult my 160+ certified IQ lol.

Dont insult my 84 year old wisdom

This guy has upset me big time.

Dear Hippo,

Neither insulting your IQ nor Wisdom 😆

I was a fan of yours😳, still am. Just that after reading your comments about KV , I feel upset.

U make him look like some cheap , low class villian, which HE IS NOT.

The only thing I agree about your post is KV is Not a leader and he won't win the show .True that .Not everyone has leadership qualities. So ?

KV is a man. A true gentleman with a good heart. And U can't deny that 😃

So u can keep supporting Abusive Sree n his spokesperson and Nany Deebika Ji 😆

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Anmol Jain

@intruderfast

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Posted: 6 years ago

Niceness is never a weakness. But stupidity is. KV in this game has made more mistakes than any other contestants.

He was a sure shot in final 2 when he entered.In starting everyone thought it wld be kv vs Dipika in finals.

But now he may not reach there unless something dramatic happens after Teejay visit

BB game is as as much abt mind as it is abt heart.

Bottom line is - Kv came with great expectations and he has not delivered on them

I am not denying he is a good person He may be the best but not good enough to playthis games

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Dedhshana

@Dedhshana

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Posted: 6 years ago

KV is not bitten by the niceness bug. He is actually spineless. If he were nice then he would feel bad for Megha and Jasleen in the way they are bullied by his friends. But he prefers to stay mum. He does'nt wish to burn the bridges with the bullies for the fear of becoming their target. Being selectively nice to some out of fear does not make him nice.

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Author Sneha

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Posted: 6 years ago

Originally posted by: Dedhshana
KV is not bitten by the niceness bug. He is actually spineless. If he were nice then he would feel bad for Megha and Jasleen in the way they are bullied by his friends. But he prefers to stay mum. He does'nt wish to burn the bridges with the bullies for the fear of becoming their target. Being selectively nice to some out of fear does not make him nice.

Going by your theory, it's better to be Abusive , psycho n mean rather than Being Spineless ?😲

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tanvismile

@tanvismile

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Posted: 6 years ago

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Originally posted by: Dr.Hippopotamus
This is not that simple. KV has showed insecurities and jealousies as well. Fine there is no need to be Dipika or Sreesanth. I understand that. However the fact that he

- joined shameless and disgusting and crass people like surbhi rohit and deepak

- did not condemn them

- laughed with them at miseries of others

- did not show self respect and became a dheet who has no shame even realizing that he is a misfit but continued it just because he disliked dipika and sree

This lack of character showed that this is not a case of a nice person ..

This is not even a case of error in judgement

He has ample time to realize

He was not passive even..he was active in all this and remained quiet

These are bad qualities...

If he were to remain neutral and independent I would have favored him over Dipika and Sree. No brainer

But his active participation in other group without showing any self respect..without getting anything...showed he is a loser in the end. I mean u did all this..such a big change for nothing. Just shows ur insecurity ..

His main problem is he is NOT A LEADER.

HE WILL NOT WIN THIS SHOW!

He joined another group but most of time he did tell them they are wrong. He told deepak when he said wrong to jasleen about man women thing then even corrected rohit and even told surbhi to know where to stop. He stood for surbhi when she was called characterless but also went to Shree when he harmed himself. Now he cannot be blamed for each and every act for what his groups members do. They are adults.

For example his group members targetting jasleen. Not necessarily he is going stop them because jasleen infact infront of salman also targets him. So why should he stand and go against them to help jasleen?

Exactly his active participation in group without getting in return that is captaincy is being loser.See as I already said his niceness is also is weakness. Now u choose to call his loser. That's ur call.

I would call someone loser who abuses others calls difference disgusting words who doesn't feel sorry about it.

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