Baapu Sehat Ke Liye Tu To Haanikarak Hai

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Posted: 6 years ago
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Are people seriously saying that Mauli should let that man bond with her daughter ?? Seriously ??? 😲

He never wanted Mishti to come to this earth , he never wanted or cared or loved Mishti . He never bothered about the well being or health of his pregnant wife and unborn. He never wanted to shoulder any responsibilities and he never regretted for all these. Regret to dur ki baat , he didn't even realize that he ever did any thing wrong !

Had Mauli not let him go with her lies , he would've forever resented Mishti's presence and hated her for being the cause of his separation with Nandini.

Even now he won't give a damn about Mishti and would leave her in a second if Pari has serious objection to Mishti's presence in his life. He'd not take a second to choose Pari over Mishti any day over any time.

I am NOT blaming Mishti for wanting to bond with her father , because she's unaware of the murky past . For a child who's grown up receiving so much unconditional love and pampering from the only father figure that she ever knew _ Ishaan , of course she'd think agar Papa Jaisa itna pyar de sakta hai to Papa kitna pyar dega ?? Moreover she knows Pari is Kunal ki jaan so that might make her suffer under the delusion that he'll treat her just the same as Pari LIttle did she know how wrong she is !

But Mauli , who knows this man and what he's capable of doing , why would she EVER let this man come to her daughter's life and destroy her happiness and self confidence ??

A mother's first job is to keep her child safe and secure , protect her/ him from all possible harms and for Mishti , nothing can be more potentially harmful and detrimental than Kunal.

After knowing all these how could she allow this man to find an opportunity to enter their lives , destroy what she and Ishaan worked hard for all these years - a happy , wholesome , complete family , so that he and his divine daughter can fulfill their complete family ke khwab ?? So that he can use Mishti as a tool to benefit his chance to rekindle his connections with Dida and Radhika so that Pari can have every thing ??

If I'd been in Mishti's place , I'd have revealed the entire truth to the court and asked them to put a restraining order on Kunal so that he can never contact Mishti let alone spend time with her . This man is sociopath level narcissist and these kind of people don't even think twice before using anyone , even a little 6 year old innocent child , to progress their motives .

Can Mauli just get married to Ishaan and go some where far away where even the harmful shadow of Kunal won't fall on her little angel ?? Once she reaches 13-14 , reveal every detail of the past to her and then equipped with information and facts , she can decide for herself . Of course it's obvious what'd be her decision . NO normal child would like to have a man like Kunal in her life as a father figure . She was unwanted for Kunal and Kunal will become unwanted for her .

This Baapu is completely Haanikarak for Mishti . Keep this nanhe balika away from him .
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Posted: 6 years ago
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what makes you say that just becos of that disgusting past...kunal-mishti have not started to bond yet...so we really can't judge to that...let them bond first than we know how it is going...even if kunal bond its always going to be kunal-mishti-pari bonding...he is a father of 2 daughters...he will definitely want both sisters to bond...all fathers want that...even in real life half siblings...step siblings do bond together...what is wrong in that...i don't see any wrong in that...

like i say mishti needs both fathers love...ishaan n kunal...ishaan is going to be her father forever...kunal in a week will only meet mishti twice or thrice for few hours...than send her home...adjust with the situation...why destroy a kid childhood digging all the past...if she wants both fathers love...let it be...

I don't believe in digging into the past and destroy mishti's childhood...whatever happened in the past is b/w kunal and mauli...6 yrs is long and now kids are involved...both are small kids...why destroy their childhood with nasty past...

if mishti doesn't want to bond with her real father thats a different story...but if she wants to...noone can stop it...
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages

what makes you say that just becos of that disgusting past...kunal-mishti have not started to bond yet...so we really can't judge to that...let them bond first than we know how it is going...even if kunal bond its always going to be kunal-mishti-pari bonding...he is a father of 2 daughters...he will definitely want both sisters to bond...all fathers want that...even in real life half siblings...step siblings do bond together...what is wrong in that...i don't see any wrong in that...

like i say mishti needs both fathers love...ishaan n kunal...ishaan is going to be her father forever...kunal in a week will only meet mishti twice or thrice for few hours...than send her home...adjust with the situation...why destroy a kid childhood digging all the past...if she wants both fathers love...let it be...

I don't believe in digging into the past and destroy mishti's childhood...whatever happened in the past is b/w kunal and mauli...6 yrs is long and now kids are involved...both are small kids...why destroy their childhood with nasty past...

if mishti doesn't want to bond with her real father thats a different story...but if she wants to...noone can stop it...


Just because of the disgusting past ???? What makes you think it's all in the past ?? What makes you think he has changed ?? That he's not the exact same selfish down to the dark core ?? That he's not capable of doing every thing that he did once again ?? Unless you know some thing that I don't ?? 🤔
@BOLD , I don't understand why you even wrote this part.😕 I didn't write a single word in my post about sibling bonding or me having any problem with it. 😆 It's Kunal who's harmful for Mishti , not Pari . Though of course Pari is also born with her parent's selfish and self centered core , but she's a 4 year old.
@Red , once again I didn't say any thing about digging in the past in front of Mishti 😕, so I'm cluless where it came from. I said let her know every thing when she's in her teenage and can handle all these complications.

There's no point saying it's all in the past , since it's obvious that Kunal hasn't changed at all , going by his reaction after finding out Mishti's truth .
Suppose you come to know a man was sent to jail on the charge of pedophile activities 6 years back , will you let any child under your care be near him unless and until you get solid proof that the man has undergone a change of heart ?? Probably not even then.

The fact that Mishti wants to bond with her father is realistic and understandable but that doesn't mean it has to be entertained . It's not the parent's job to fulfill every whim and fancy that is born in a child's head but to secure their security and safety, be it mental, physical or emotional.

Going by your logic, Mishti should be allowed to have infinite quantity of ice cream because she is fond of it and given her way , she'd like to have infinite amount.

She should be allowed to run around trying to go to every balloon shop , even if it means she can get run over by a car any time. Simply because she wants to.

Let's not forget the crucial fact , that she's acting based on the information that she knows . If she knew the entire picture , she'd have dumped her father like hot potato . Any sane child do IRL. No reason to think Mishti isn't sane enough.

Till she matures enough to handle that dirt that his father's kaands , she should be kept solidly away from Kunal at any cost . No matter how much she dislikes it.
Edited by Carmilla - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: Mages

what makes you say that just becos of that disgusting past...kunal-mishti have not started to bond yet...so we really can't judge to that...let them bond first than we know how it is going...even if kunal bond its always going to be kunal-mishti-pari bonding...he is a father of 2 daughters...he will definitely want both sisters to bond...all fathers want that...even in real life half siblings...step siblings do bond together...what is wrong in that...i don't see any wrong in that...

like i say mishti needs both fathers love...ishaan n kunal...ishaan is going to be her father forever...kunal in a week will only meet mishti twice or thrice for few hours...than send her home...adjust with the situation...why destroy a kid childhood digging all the past...if she wants both fathers love...let it be...

I don't believe in digging into the past and destroy mishti's childhood...whatever happened in the past is b/w kunal and mauli...6 yrs is long and now kids are involved...both are small kids...why destroy their childhood with nasty past...

if mishti doesn't want to bond with her real father thats a different story...but if she wants to...noone can stop it...


Why the hell everyone keeps on forgetting that miss pari not like sharing her buddy. why the hell will she share her buddy?? And what is it that you guys keep saying that pari and mishti should bond like sisters, no they can never bond like sisters because they are half siblings. One can accept half sibling as part of the family but its almost impossible to accept them as sibling in the case like mauli-kunal-nandini.

Even Arjun Kapoor started his pr drama of getting spotted with his half siblings only after Sridevi is no more.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Originally posted by: ria2794


Why the hell everyone keeps on forgetting that miss pari not like sharing her buddy. why the hell will she share her buddy?? And what is it that you guys keep saying that pari and mishti should bond like sisters, no they can never bond like sisters because they are half siblings. One can accept half sibling as part of the family but its almost impossible to accept them as sibling in the case like mauli-kunal-nandini.

Even Arjun Kapoor started his pr drama of getting spotted with his half siblings only after Sridevi is no more.


If I've had a step sibling , I'd have kept strictly formal distance with him / her . Let alone bonding or any emotional attachment . I can accept a cousin as my sibling but not a step sister whose mother shared my father with my mom. NEVER ! I'd keep away from any such lady and her lot. So yes , there's absolutely no hard and fast rule like step siblings will bond or would like to bond.
Let Mishti and Pari grow up. Let them know every thing . Then only let them decide. There's a reason law doesn't allow an individual to make some decisions about themselves till they reach adulthood and they need the permission / consent of their legal guardians . It's because it's not possible for them to responsibly take such important decisions till they reach a certain maturity.
Edited by Carmilla - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Kunal is like cartoon channel, he's entertaining because of his hypocrisy, but no worth taking seriously. He didn't know about existance of his first child is making him feel miserable, but he knew that his mother and granny exist, what was he doing for them? Giving blank calls? He wanted to give blank calls to Mishty as well? But Mishty doesn't have her own number and mobile... He should wait till Mishty becomes young enough to use phone, take her number and keep giving blank calls. Problem solved.
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Kunal should know, 6 years back he was not capable enough to think rationally, nothing was more important than his lusty juzbat... he was not back because of child, he was back because Nandu said so. He was waiting for Nandu to accept him back. If Nandini had dropped her sacrifice nautanki little early and accepted him back, he would have dumped his pregnant wife one more time forcing joint parenting on her and he would have included his divine Nandini in joint parenting as well who had no relation with child to make Mauli's life more miserable.


When he never cared about 2 old ladies who raised him without any support system, an unborn child wouldn't have made any difference.
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Posted: 6 years ago
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Kunal is a good everything only to his divine love and daughter. The person who left his mom and grandmom at his ex wifes mercy , will care for his padavs mistake? Good joke
Edited by _charu_ - 6 years ago
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Posted: 6 years ago
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This character will never change. His darkness is inbred. I was personally one of those posters who thought he was capable of killing both Mauli and his unborn child just to be with his side chick mistress. I have seen nothing to state otherwise. He is still the same nasty, selfish, entitled pos character, and he will get worse.

This man is capable of anything and the only saving grace for Mauli is the divine mistress is dead. If she wasn't, I have no doubt this man would try to take her child away and raise her on love kheer everyday.

Kunal's rights👏👏they are non-existent. The moment he abandoned his unborn child, he had no right. You see, Kunal is pretty stupid too. What he should be doing is kissing Mauli's a$$ because she as the only legal, present parent has all the say on what happens to her child. The sperm donor has only rights that she says. He became sperm donor when he left and was relieved to think Mauli lied about her pregnancy. He was so relieved, he didn't even look back. He got the out he wanted and he sprinted to the mistress's bed😡

As for half siblings, there is no law they have to develop any bond. Cordial relations are fine. And in this case, it is wise. Mishti WILL be hurt when she finds out the circumstances of Pari's birth.

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