Why are CVs going so wrong? - Page 2

Originally posted by: Rhimjhimsawan

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">Jumping on the Radhika defense wagon. She has been perfect so far. I like that she has one face for Mauli and another in secret. That's not two faced, that's human. She is a mother who kept her son away from her for years because he left Mauli. She sacrificed a lot and she is allowed to feel conflicted emotions. I know my mother wouldn't disown my brother if he cheated. Sure she would be ashamed but she won't disown him. What Radhika did was extraordinary.</font>

<font face="Verdana, Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif" size="2">And saying they kept Mauli for bread and butter is just pure assumption and probably a false one on top of that. First Kunal didn't leave his mother and Dida, he would never do that. That's just not his character. He left his marriage. If Radhika and Dida wanted they could've kept him and Kunal would've supported him the same way he supported Nandini.
Also the Malhotras don't really seem poor.</font>

When you have one face in front of someone and another one in secret, it means you are two faced because 1+1 = 2
Why can't she tell Mauli that she wants her son back in her life? She doesn't even have to ask or tell Mauli, she can do it because it's her life then she should not act like she is against Kunal like everyone in the room, that's not correct to someone who is still suffering from people cheating on her.

I don't get this, so Kunal did not leave his family? And Mauli wasn't paying for Malhotras, so Kunal might have done that, but Malhotras and Mauli were taking money from Kunal all this while and they were mad at him, now that's too messed up, no?

Malhotras are not rich, they live in an apartment in Mumbai, they are as rich as doctors can be, when Mauli took up more work for Kunal's clinic, I think they made it pretty clear that they don't have 1000 acres of land lying around to build a clinic, they work extra time for it.

Kunal did not leave his family is a joke, because before leap the last time he met her Dida and Radhika was on Karwachauth and he did not even look at them before leaving, then he called on Diwali to wish his mother. He did not show any sign of returning to them, he left India because his family didn't accept Nandini and he couldn't hurt Nandini more. Then he was so unaware about his family that he didn't even know that there is a little girl living with them.
He could have taken care of his family, but why would he, when free ka naukar Mauli is there?
But of course Kunal's character is not like that.. He is perfect son, perfect husband and everything

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

When you have one face in front of someone and another one in secret, it means you are two faced because 1+1 = 2
Why can't she tell Mauli that she wants her son back in her life? She doesn't even have to ask or tell Mauli, she can do it because it's her life then she should not act like she is against Kunal like everyone in the room, that's not correct to someone who is still suffering from people cheating on her.

I don't get this, so Kunal did not leave his family? And Mauli wasn't paying for Malhotras, so Kunal might have done that, but Malhotras and Mauli were taking money from Kunal all this while and they were mad at him, now that's too messed up, no?

Malhotras are not rich, they live in an apartment in Mumbai, they are as rich as doctors can be, when Mauli took up more work for Kunal's clinic, I think they made it pretty clear that they don't have 1000 acres of land lying around to build a clinic, they work extra time for it.

Kunal did not leave his family is a joke, because before leap the last time he met her Dida and Radhika was on Karwachauth and he did not even look at them before leaving, then he called on Diwali to wish his mother. He did not show any sign of returning to them, he left India because his family didn't accept Nandini and he couldn't hurt Nandini more. Then he was so unaware about his family that he didn't even know that there is a little girl living with them.
He could have taken care of his family, but why would he, when free ka naukar Mauli is there?
But of course Kunal's character is not like that.. He is perfect son, perfect husband and everything

None is denying here that Radhika has supported Mauli, none is even saying that she should not love her son, she can do anything she wants to but Radhika herself said that she forgot about Mauli's pain when she met Kunal, what's wrong if we feel that she did forget Mauli's pain? She just said it and also this is what Mauli's life has been -
Nandini was good to Mauli in front of her but slept with Kunal behind her back
Kunal was good with Mauli in front of her but forgot about her when he was with Nandini
Now Radhika is good with Mauli in front of her but forgets her pain (Her words not mine) when she sees Kunal.
Everyone's love is justified, even KuNan's love is justified but why not just tell Mauli?
That's my point, just tell her

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

None is denying here that Radhika has supported Mauli, none is even saying that she should not love her son, she can do anything she wants to but Radhika herself said that she forgot about Mauli's pain when she met Kunal, what's wrong if we feel that she did forget Mauli's pain? She just said it and also this is what Mauli's life has been -
Nandini was good to Mauli in front of her but slept with Kunal behind her back
Kunal was good with Mauli in front of her but forgot about her when he was with Nandini
Now Radhika is good with Mauli in front of her but forgets her pain (Her words not mine) when she sees Kunal.
Everyone's love is justified, even KuNan's love is justified but why not just tell Mauli?
That's my point, just tell her

I actually think Radhika is amazing, remember Kunal was a Bad husband but he wasn't a bad son. He cheated on Mauli and hurt her which is unforgivable and that hurt radhika and Dida but he didnt want to leave his mom. She out of love and care for her DIL and becuase as a woman she knew what Kunal did to Mauli was wrong ...she threw her son out of her life. In reality very rarely will a mom do that . And she yearns for her child like any mom will and Mauli understands that . MAuli asked her to maintain a relationship with Kunal. And Dida said they will go in living without him. And the saying goes that parents will forgive their children for anything ...because that's the kind of bond a mom has with the child she's given birth to...

@Anahi
Am I the only one who is noticing Radhika's expressions? That scene where Mauli asked her not to tell Kunal about Mishti, she was giving these weird expressions suggesting she is not happy with it but the moment Mauli looked at her, she changed it?
I think Mauli and Radhika have a relationship where they don't need to lie to each other or hide things from each other. This is just one more betrayal for Mauli, where people are lying to her for happiness, let her decide ffs


If she wants Mauli and Ishaan to move out once they are married, she has to be vocal about her feelings to Mauli, that's what I am saying, because they won't really leave two old ladies on their own, Mauli is not like Kunal.

This relationship is between Mauli and Dida, surprisingly Dida is the one who's thinking about Mauli.

Kunal called to reconcile because the issue was so small that it could be talked over on a phone? If he really wanted to reconcile he would have come home. We don't give invitations to close ones on phone thinking they deserve a proper visit and invitation card and Kunal can reconcile over the phone.

Also when I say Kunal left them, I meant this exactly Nandini was a package deal, with Kunal they had to accept Nandini and if they don't he won't come back. That is leaving people for someone, when you say Radhika left him for Mauli, it's is pretty clear that he left them for Nandini. So much so that he didn't even care to know if all is well with them, you know generally people living in away from their family send their friends to them to check on them, but he didn't even do that.

Say if Mauli had left them after 2 months who would have taken care of them? Kunal didn't care to enquire and they didn't know where he lives or how to contact him.

@Anahi 2nd reply
That's what Kunal and Nandini did. They had "weak" moments, they thought how can they do this to Mauli but did it anyway.

Originally posted by: FruitToasty

@Anahi
Am I the only one who is noticing Radhika's expressions? That scene where Mauli asked her not to tell Kunal about Mishti, she was giving these weird expressions suggesting she is not happy with it but the moment Mauli looked at her, she changed it?
I think Mauli and Radhika have a relationship where they don't need to lie to each other or hide things from each other. This is just one more betrayal for Mauli, where people are lying to her for happiness, let her decide ffs


If she wants Mauli and Ishaan to move out once they are married, she has to be vocal about her feelings to Mauli, that's what I am saying, because they won't really leave two old ladies on their own, Mauli is not like Kunal.

This relationship is between Mauli and Dida, surprisingly Dida is the one who's thinking about Mauli.

Kunal called to reconcile because the issue was so small that it could be talked over on a phone? If he really wanted to reconcile he would have come home. We don't give invitations to close ones on phone thinking they deserve a proper visit and invitation card and Kunal can reconcile over the phone.

Also when I say Kunal left them, I meant this exactly Nandini was a package deal, with Kunal they had to accept Nandini and if they don't he won't come back. That is leaving people for someone, when you say Radhika left him for Mauli, it's is pretty clear that he left them for Nandini. So much so that he didn't even care to know if all is well with them, you know generally people living in away from their family send their friends to them to check on them, but he didn't even do that.

Say if Mauli had left them after 2 months who would have taken care of them? Kunal didn't care to enquire and they didn't know where he lives or how to contact him.

@Anahi 2nd reply
That's what Kunal and Nandini did. They had "weak" moments, they thought how can they do this to Mauli but did it anyway.