Makers forgot the juzzbat of trauma!!!

The most worrying juzzbat is of trauma & it is so real & strong to haunt people for considerable amount of their life. It is strong enough to push people from best to worst, from sane to insane, from happy to sad, from strongest to weakest, from strong-willed to suicide.

Originally posted by: arshi_asya

The most worrying juzzbat is of trauma & it is so real & strong to haunt people for considerable amount of their life. It is strong enough to push people from best to worst, from sane to insane, from happy to sad, from strongest to weakest, from strong-willed to suicide.

This show has a crucial plot to focus on Trauma, people face when they escape horrible situations, past, near-death encounters, rapes & what not. There are nightmares, scars, fear, isolation & what not. It doesn't go just like that. It takes a lot of time. Even today, the mere thought of me being in a deadly accident 5 years ago freaks me out, while it took a lot of time back then to lock it in some corner of my mind.

But this show wants to focus on all shitty juzzbat of the divine couple while the most crucial of them will be ignored gladly, the juzzbat of trauma which happens to bind this couple more than anything else.

But, till date this show has not focused on that most crucial aspect which could have made this show a lot better than what it is.

What exactly is the problem in showing trauma for sometime rather than this superficial romance the very next moment with all that setup?

Mauli is shown to be in traumatic phase without issues but Nandini who just faced a deadly situation is all fine. I mean how can someone even do it is beyond my comprehension of a human behavior.

Nandini is unreal, Kunal is unreal. Period. Their behavior with Mauli is real but the way they behave with each other is not. The ground for this relationship should have been bond over trauma & not these cheesy lines & cooking.

Despite worst of situations, these two never bother to talk about the traumatic phase, I mean relationship is about that emotional intimacy, emotional bond & not just physical with gifts & hugs & dates.

This relationship is not real, it is no where to close to what a real relationship looks like when people with trauma come together.

Amidst the complete blunder this show is when it comes to EMA, this is the major blunder, the complete absence of dealing with Trauma on leads' part. Only person shown to be dealing with trauma is Mauli at this point in quite believable way, so as to say.

Its very unrealistic that nandini is ok just sometime after such a dangerous situation.Kunan relationship is also unrealistic it is all about cooking, going for date,gifts.I find it very difficult to understand them.

I've been saying this since day one. Maybe it's one of the reasons why I feel so protective of Nandani is because going through the shit she did does things to people. It messes you up and you do act out, self-sabotage, and have unrealistic expectations out of relationships. There are real consequences of someone or something messing with your psyche for such a long time. Damn this show could have done so many things for people going through trauma, the rape culture in India, marriages in general, and most importantly friendships. Mauli's reactions are so believable and human and Nandani literally doesn't even think.
The show literally took the worst route possible and it makes me so angry!!!