did zoya intentionally insulted anjana and her friends?

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rrosy

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Posted: 7 years ago

Today I am very very happy at aditya supporting zoya. I really admired the beauty of Jennifer. Her dance reminded me Sridevi. Keeping story aside, I enjoyed her dance and expressions while watching the dance part in mute.

Still I couldn't enjoy the episode as much as I should. It looked completely illogical to me.Did I miss any thing?

It appeared Zoya is not that spiked to act so weird, dance and talk like that. I didnot see any message to act like that. Then why did she behaved like that? Did she intentionally insulted everyone and kept her reputation and entire family reputation at stake?

We all hate Anjana and want Aditya to support zoya at any cost. Still as far as story is concerned, Aditya doesnot know about anjana.. So his behavior looked some what not right to me. Since Arshad's episode, it appears aditya completely takes his parents and family granted. not at all sensitive to their feelings. In one way he is blackmailing every time to leave the house and go away. On the other hand he is showing extra sensitive and tolerance to Wasim..

Eventhough Aditya told sorry, it didn't appear that he is really feeling sorry for whatever happened. The way he blamed her mom quoting wasim's case looks completely insensitive to me. If he know about anjana that make sense. but now without solid proof, just to support wife blaming mother looks insensitive to me ( of course unless I see tomorrow's episode I cannot say this completely). If it happens with me, I will slap my son and ask him to leave house with his wife immediately..

3. Of course there are many threads why Zoya breaking her first vachan and not showing trust in aditya and share the sms details with him is still a question.

This is purely my opinion. don't bash me

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Aazeen02

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Posted: 7 years ago

I think he wasn't blaming Anjana really.

He just made them taste their own medicine...

What he meant to explain is that, just by what is looking factual, might not be the truth'.

Just like factually it might look like Anjana spiked her drink, but she must not have done so really...

I understand, he explained in a very harsh manner, he must not talk to his parents like that...

But the thing is, the family members have each other, Zoya has nobody but him. Harsh dwindled between being her father to being her husband's father in no time... I am sure had Harsh supported Zoya in that incidence, Adi would have presented himself in a gentler manner.

Adi is bound by his promise to be beside Zoya in good and bad, no matter what. If he stops supporting her, where do you think should she go? If both the houses don't accept her, and if he also stops supporting her, for whom did she leave her life behind?

Do you understand his dillema?

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Kkafunda

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: rrosy
Today I am very very happy at aditya supporting zoya. I really admired the beauty of Jennifer. Her dance reminded me Sridevi. Keeping story aside, I enjoyed her dance and expressions while watching the dance part in mute.

Still I couldn't enjoy the episode as much as I should. It looked completely illogical to me.Did I miss any thing?

1.
It appeared Zoya is not that spiked to act so weird, dance and talk like that. I didnot see any message to act like that. Then why did she behaved like that? Did she intentionally insulted everyone and kept her reputation and entire family reputation at stake?

2.
We all hate Anjana and want Aditya to support zoya at any cost. Still as far as story is concerned, Aditya doesnot know about anjana.. So his behavior looked some what not right to me. Since Arshad's episode, it appears aditya completely takes his parents and family granted. not at all sensitive to their feelings. In one way he is blackmailing every time to leave the house and go away. On the other hand he is showing extra sensitive and tolerance to Wasim..

Eventhough Aditya told sorry, it didn't appear that he is really feeling sorry for whatever happened. The way he blamed her mom quoting wasim's case looks completely insensitive to me. If he know about anjana that make sense. but now without solid proof, just to support wife blaming mother looks insensitive to me ( of course unless I see tomorrow's episode I cannot say this completely). If it happens with me, I will slap my son and ask him to leave house with his wife immediately..

3. Of course there are many threads why Zoya breaking her first vachan and not showing trust in aditya and share the sms details with him is still a question.

This is purely my opinion. don't bash me

Hmm, yeah I see your side of it. I myself am a parent of 2 young kids. Still, I believe that he was not wrong in talking that way. She didn't stop her friends from taking that stupid video, her fake tears were obvious, she did try to blackmail him emotionally.

Parents are precious but they should be countered when they are wrong. I have immense love and respect for my parents, but I am open with my feelings and opinions when I feel they are wrong. This is perceived as wrong by some Indian families and i respect, but don't completely agree with that.

Did I make any sense?😲. I don't think he is taking them for granted.

I don't mean that your opinion is wrong; just wanted to express how I feel about it.

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rrosy

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: Kkafunda

Hmm, yeah I see your side of it. I myself am a parent of 2 young kids. Still, I believe that he was not wrong in talking that way. She didn't stop her friends from taking that stupid video, her fake tears were obvious, she did try to blackmail him emotionally.
Parents are precious but they should be countered when they are wrong. I have immense love and respect for my parents, but I am open with my feelings and opinions when I feel they are wrong. This is perceived as wrong by some Indian families and i respect, but don't completely agree with that.
Did I make any sense?😲. I don't think he is taking them for granted.
I don't mean that your opinion is wrong; just wanted to express how I feel about it.

Love, affection and respect should be mutual. I am supporting my son for love marriage giving value for his judgement and choice even though I didn't personally like that girl. That doesn't mean with emotional dependency and fear of loosing kids, we have to bear even if they insult us and doesn't care for us.

I understand all kids or all parents behave in same way. My 2 kids are quite different. But their character and personality should be consistent.

The main thing that is irking me is Adi's inconsistant behaviour with his parents and wasim. Even I didnot like the way he says he did all mistakes and Zoya didnot do any mistake.

CVs didnot justify Zoya's behaviour during paak rista track, arshad track. I dont want any similar kind of extreme, irrational behaviour from zoya.

The major problem is we all love aditya and zoya so much that we want them to be perfect..:)