Neha is Calmly Assertive - Page 3

I don't know what to make of Neha tbh - last week I honestly didn't see the cunning and sly aspects people referred to, but I'm now getting the sense that she is playing and she is capable of that - it's just that it's not your usual BB game, and annoying BB doesn't like unique games, or mind games and interesting grey shaded characters. Black and white narrative hi chahiye BB ko.

I, for one, will be very interested in her game, if she stays (and if she is truly playing and I haven't gotten it all wrong 😆). I do agree with a previous poster though, that Neha is image conscious and sometimes behaves as she thinks she should, as opposed to what comes naturally. I'd like to see the natural Neha constantly - maza aata, if only BB wasn't so wedded to cheekham chilli and melodrama.

I am all for support to Neha.

Originally posted by: khamosshhh

She was once saying Surbhi that when she was younger she was aggressive too, but she started realising that she was hurting herself the most n has toned down. She's into yoga n spiritualism n has I suppose managed to attain the calm. It takes great mental strength to remain calm the way she has. At the same time, she has put her views strongly wherever she has felt the need to do so.

I just came to know she is into Meditation and spirituality. She wants to help herself and remain calm.

Originally posted by: Falo0da

I would like Neha a lot better if she were more upfront about who she is as a person. We see hints of a personality from her every now and then but then she goes back to portraying the person she feels like she should be. I'm not saying that she isn't a calm person naturally, not at all, what I am saying is that she's very much capable of nastiness but pretends otherwise.

I feel like what she dubs her inner haiwan is actually the real, unfiltered Neha that she wants to keep at bay due to being image conscious. She wants people to think she's nicer than she really is, which is why she blatantly lied to Shrishti about her words and to Kriti/Roshmi regarding the nominations. Both very shady incidents btw.

That is why I don't buy the whole innocent thing that some people try to sell when it comes to her. Her actions can be very calculated. I'm not saying she's evil incarnate, but the "nice girl with a guilty conscience" thing is very much a facade. I do feel like her offering her balls to Saba and taking her own name for nominations was more of damage control than actual guilt eating at her.

If she lets go of that ridiculous mahanta complex and that "nice girl" front, I think she does have the potential to make the game interesting. If she stays, that is.

Do not know what ppl want. If it is BB they want contestants who fight shout at the top of their voice, create drama, give bad words. If Neha is not like that then she is not genuine. I think she is not diplomatic and she also gave a bad word so definitely she does lose her cool. But doesn't mean that is how she should behave always as for me giving bad words is not right behaviour and honestly I was not happy when she did. But then maybe she was angry and could not control. But obviously I don't want to see her like that. Sometimes feel she is too patient or forgiving but then it could be right. Also if u r bit cautious in public what is wrong. Do we fight outside like we might at home. Understand one thing controlling your anger outbursts is also not easy. In BB house after certain PT u r bound to get angry. U can't be a saint if u r not a calm person. U can control to a certain extent only and for me if u can manage your composure there it means u r actually not a very loud person. She did not shout at Shree and even I did not like that but this might be how she is. Look at Shree he is always creating a scene. Who likes such kind of a person. He is such a difficult person but S BB might love him. Thus they have started these fake nominations to eliminate Neha. If she goes today will consider BB mad.

Infact ppl are liking her so if she goes it would be because of BB not because of ppl and I would then believe aswell that show is scripted. If BB follows this forum then they might understand that Neha has got good support not the way they keep claiming that she is invisible. She is very much visible and we need a balance in the house.

Originally posted by: omika23

I just came to know she is into Meditation and spirituality. She wants to help herself and remain calm.

I think she is beautiful. A person who is trying to control herself and rather than controlling others is more robust. Controlling others / expecting from others is always easy but to control oneself is difficult. I bet she is doing it. I don't mind Neha winning. This season people are well prepared. I don't why people get impressed with commanding people. I always have learned an art of commanding myself is the most challenging thing in the world. But guess what she is doing it.

I like her i think mainly bcz of this.😳 I like almost everyone in this season 😛

I think She is doing great it better saying ur point calmy sarcasticly instead of shouting ur lungs out like surbhi