EMA but still regressed show

Even though the show is based on EMA, supposedly modern concept, but still it's regressive..
As a viewer what it teaches us-

1- Don't focus on career, hubby may slip for someone else. Here Mauli is a career woman but shown that she handled home n romance too.. But no, she was not available to satisfy lust of Kunal whn HE WANTED!

2- Cook Savories. U need to cook cuz the way to mans heart is through his stomach. Here Mauli could cook normal it seems but alas, KHEER nahi banayi.

3- Stay saj-dhaj ke then only hubby attracted rahega

4- No point being confident n bold. Hubby likes abla nari, bechaari, shy(not in bed it seems), shaking, shivering, vibrating wifey!

5- BE SELFISH- Nandini was shown tortured by Rajdeep? Did she walk out? She walked out only after she knew that she will be properly cared by Mauli.

6- EMA is good. It's divine. It's blessings from God Goddess. Why think of others when u r so blessed.

7- Saving marriage is WIFE's job even though husband doesn't even showing a bit of interest.

8- Self-respect? No no... Pati is devta, u shd take him back n his mistress too.. (IF it goes DSDT way)

Right everything in this show is regressive.Btw EMA is nothing progressive or modern.