Swati Naina Sameer-The triangle - Page 2

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Naina like every has her flaws and weakness. But I doubt if her mistakes can be compared with that of Swathi's. I don't know why CVs had to make Swathi's character so grey...well too early to judge as the story is still on...

Naina is very confident girl. She has always accepted the fact that she wants to win and top every activity that she takes up. If that's her strength , then her weakness is about her appearance and the family background.

She from her childhood, at home and school is being seen as not so pretty face person. Her fathers lack of affection for her , the taunts she gets from her relatives about this and her father being poor has always affected her...cant help she lives at the mercy of her chacha ji...if he was not there then she is more of an orphan...that's the reality of her life...

But all this changes when Sameer started noticing her as a girl...showering his love , time and attention...

Now coming to school drama...yes she nominated Swathi when she wanted to move out...and she was open enough to approach her when she wanted to get back...Naina uses back door policy only when it cant be achieve through front door ...and that too ONLY WHEN THE ISSUE IS RELATED TO SAMEER.
She has never plotted against Swathi by joining hands with people who don't like Swathi. When Swathi stayed put abt the role in the play she still chose an option that was given to her...would Swathi have done that , if the roles were reversed ?? I doubt...

Swathi has always copied HW from Naina...and she has shared her notes , HWs etc with out a problem...why should she do that ?? Isnt it Swathi's responsibility to complete a notes and HW...it was Swathi who was always depended on Naina and not the other way around...

The ONLY MISTAKE THAT NAINA has done to Swathi is that she hid her relationship with Sameer...but if she had told that to Swathi ...do you think Swathi would have believed and that too when Sameer hadn't confessed his love to her?? When she didn't know what place she held in his life...to some extent her instincts were rt...because Sameer was doing all that to win a bet...rt?? If she had clarity in her role in his life she would have opened up..


About Sameer, Naina had asked Swathi , how she knows that Sameer likes her ...especially when he had thrown that chit?? Her answer was teasing Naina's appearance...have we ever heard Preethi teasing Naina for her appearance...have we heard Naina teasing Swathi any time ?? NOPE

Here again during elections , Naina suggested Swathi's name when she wanted to step down...because she considered Swathi closer than Preethi. She could have suggested Preethi rt ?? She didn't , because somewhere deep in her heart Swathi was like her soul sister...sadly Swathi doesn't share the same feeling...in fact Preethi is much more closer to Naina that Swathi is ...but Naina doesn't seem to understand that ...a reality she might eventually do...

When Naina suggested Swathi's name she could have said NO?? Did she , she didn't ...and then when the rest of the GANG suggested Naina's name again , if you remember Naina reminded the GANG that it was not her , it was Swathi who was standing for the election...at that time when friends suggested Naina's name...why did she not open up...why did she not tell her the truth??

She did complain about Munna...but what has Swathi , as his GF done for Munna ?? He has many a times tried to get her attention and love ...but every time she has blamed or made fun of him...and he has accepted it with out making her feel bad or getting angry at her.

I am not saying Swathi is an evil person but she has her insecurities ...especially because Sameer chose Naina...that's where it all started...till then she never felt threatened...but the reality she needs to learn is Love is beyond the bounds of beauty or appearance. It has a mind of its own...So even if Naina is not the most beautiful person in the world...but for Sameer's eyes Naina is what he defines as beauty...that's NOT NAINA's fault...besides Naina has worked to get that place in his heart...she made efforts to know him, love him , care for him and feel for him...their relationship is not perfect but at least she tries to get it perfect...

The problem with people like Swathi are , they want to achieve things in life but they don't work towards it nor do they voice their thirst to excel. They act as if they want a simple no nonsense life but in reality that is the opposite ...they want the world to hand it to them and they want the best ..Nothing comes easy in life. It has to be earned ...one needs to put effort in winning things in life...

PS : I am not against any character of a story ...my intent is only to highlight the flaws in the character or the grey shade charted out by the writers. I love all the actors and the show...in fact the grey is perfect in Swathi's character because she did well as an actress playing the part written for her.

Originally posted by: WeRockTheWorld

Naina like every has her flaws and weakness. But I doubt if her mistakes can be compared with that of Swathi's. I don't know why CVs had to make Swathi's character so grey...well too early to judge as the story is still on...

Naina is very confident girl. She has always accepted the fact that she wants to win and top every activity that she takes up. If that's her strength , then her weakness is about her appearance and the family background.

She from her childhood, at home and school is being seen as not so pretty face person. Her fathers lack of affection for her , the taunts she gets from her relatives about this and her father being poor has always affected her...cant help she lives at the mercy of her chacha ji...if he was not there then she is more of an orphan...that's the reality of her life...

But all this changes when Sameer started noticing her as a girl...showering his love , time and attention...

Now coming to school drama...yes she nominated Swathi when she wanted to move out...and she was open enough to approach her when she wanted to get back...Naina uses back door policy only when it cant be achieve through front door ...and that too ONLY WHEN THE ISSUE IS RELATED TO SAMEER.
She has never plotted against Swathi by joining hands with people who don't like Swathi. When Swathi stayed put abt the role in the play she still chose an option that was given to her...would Swathi have done that , if the roles were reversed ?? I doubt...

Swathi has always copied HW from Naina...and she has shared her notes , HWs etc with out a problem...why should she do that ?? Isnt it Swathi's responsibility to complete a notes and HW...it was Swathi who was always depended on Naina and not the other way around...

The ONLY MISTAKE THAT NAINA has done to Swathi is that she hid her relationship with Sameer...but if she had told that to Swathi ...do you think Swathi would have believed and that too when Sameer hadn't confessed his love to her?? When she didn't know what place she held in his life...to some extent her instincts were rt...because Sameer was doing all that to win a bet...rt?? If she had clarity in her role in his life she would have opened up..


About Sameer, Naina had asked Swathi , how she knows that Sameer likes her ...especially when he had thrown that chit?? Her answer was teasing Naina's appearance...have we ever heard Preethi teasing Naina for her appearance...have we heard Naina teasing Swathi any time ?? NOPE

Here again during elections , Naina suggested Swathi's name when she wanted to step down...because she considered Swathi closer than Preethi. She could have suggested Preethi rt ?? She didn't , because somewhere deep in her heart Swathi was like her soul sister...sadly Swathi doesn't share the same feeling...in fact Preethi is much more closer to Naina that Swathi is ...but Naina doesn't seem to understand that ...a reality she might eventually do...

When Naina suggested Swathi's name she could have said NO?? Did she , she didn't ...and then when the rest of the GANG suggested Naina's name again , if you remember Naina reminded the GANG that it was not her , it was Swathi who was standing for the election...at that time when friends suggested Naina's name...why did she not open up...why did she not tell her the truth??

She did complain about Munna...but what has Swathi , as his GF done for Munna ?? He has many a times tried to get her attention and love ...but every time she has blamed or made fun of him...and he has accepted it with out making her feel bad or getting angry at her.

I am not saying Swathi is an evil person but she has her insecurities ...especially because Sameer chose Naina...that's where it all started...till then she never felt threatened...but the reality she needs to learn is Love is beyond the bounds of beauty or appearance. It has a mind of its own...So even if Naina is not the most beautiful person in the world...but for Sameer's eyes Naina is what he defines as beauty...that's NOT NAINA's fault...besides Naina has worked to get that place in his heart...she made efforts to know him, love him , care for him and feel for him...their relationship is not perfect but at least she tries to get it perfect...

The problem with people like Swathi are , they want to achieve things in life but they don't work towards it nor do they voice their thirst to excel. They act as if they want a simple no nonsense life but in reality that is the opposite ...they want the world to hand it to them and they want the best ..Nothing comes easy in life. It has to be earned ...one needs to put effort in winning things in life...

PS : I am not against any character of a story ...my intent is only to highlight the flaws in the character or the grey shade charted out by the writers. I love all the actors and the show...in fact the grey is perfect in Swathi's character because she did well as an actress playing the part written for her.

Originally posted by: sumanpatel6dec

EXACTLY

SORRY I WENT A LIL HARSH

Originally posted by: Dr.Don

Hi R & R,

Just read your post and what a sensible and thought inducing idea.

The change in the Swati's character to the grey shade was abrupt, however, it wont be stretched long enough and soon the friends will be back.

The points 4 and 5 you mentioned are very valid. And it is not going to sit well with many readers or fans. There has been quiet a ruckus in my past 2 posts. But that is the beauty of being in a forum. We get to understand the same scene from a variety of perspective by a variety of people. That inadvertently adds more to the understanding of human psyche. It is indeed a curious thing how the perspectives and opinions vary.

When it comes to human emotions and its discussion, every point is subjective. No point is absolutely wrong or entirely correct.

However, it cannot be denied that the points you have raised are true when all the episodes are considered.

The pattern of Naina's behaviour is indeed timid and submissive in front of people who are aggressive and violent towards her. For example, Members of Agarwal Clan and Sharad. She indeed tries to make up with the person as long as the person is assertive or has the galls to give it back to her. But Naina gets back to the "Me First" mode the moment she gets the upper hand over a person or the person is more submissive like Sameer.

That is what the writers has established in the many episodes since school to college.

In a natural progression as Naina gets more confident & validated about herself, then she will get more balanced in her approach towards the people who are really close to her for example Swati or Sameer.

That is one aspect of Naina's character that writers need to establish further that she is indeed consistently thoughtful towards the people who are genuinely in support of her and close to her.

Nicely written R & R 👏

Originally posted by: rock&roll

Hi Doc,Thanks a ton for your reply .Its true that the friends S & N will be back together soon..This track of Swati's jealousy seems so forced..Almost like the writers realized that they had made a blunder with Naina's redemption track and had not portrayed her in good light..So to make a grey character appear white,they paint another character black.To make Naina's mistakes towards Sameer appear small in comparison,they make Swati commit greater blunders and betrayals..and suddenly Naina's faults look small and sympathy rushes to her...The whole thing seems so contrived and forced.

It is sad that both Naina and Swati's characters have eebn systematically destroyed by the writers.

Anyway.Good to see a post which understood my pov..Not too many replies here concur with my view😊.