The bargaining stage - Page 4

Originally posted by: Hadz

You are not alone, I found the episode to be par excellence. Read between the lines, he said everything today! Aditya should be Psychiatrist not Captain Hooda! But seriously what did he do wrong. It was hardly a prank- he didn't act dead na?! He wanted a reaction from her and he got it. He's not really been in love, with Pooja it was friends that married so that meant love. Not real love!

Aditya knows No different, his BP pyaar is allowed. However i understand Zoya's doubts. Like Aditya said, a human can't stop loving in fear of deception. A human can't stop living in fear of death. Thats it right there, what does Zoya actually fear? Deception or Love? She makes sense, but her mind is playing games with her. His constant reminders are best to continue because like a child with a dummy, Aditya is her pacifier! Only he gets her and vice versa!

He needed a reaction from her but at what expense? I understand he is an idiot and couldn't think logically in that state but Adi is always does things impulsively without thinking who he is going to hurt in the process. That really needs to change about him because in future when they have real issues all this will ruin their marriage.
But yesss I loved what he said to Zoya. He really understands Zoya more than anyone because they have gone through the same pain. The fears he felt he knows she feels it too.

Originally posted by: Hunnie1

Great Post Adhira! !

Well its THEIR Bargaining which will ultimately lead to In Love Phase.

Zoya is running scared of the L word *Love* and Adi knows it that she is unwilling to acknowledge it because of her past betrayal. He knows that she will never come out in the open about her feelings so he trying to needle her *fake death* so that she blurts out something. Now this part was hated the most. He only wanted to prove his point that inspite of it being Her Engagement she wanted to be by him and will she do it EveryTime even after being married to Arshad. He only wanted to prove to her that its HIM who matters to him the most even if she doesn't acknowledge.

JenShad Nailed It Today.

Adi has backed off and now its Zoya who has to Lead The Show with Him.

he got everything right expect the technique in which he told wasn't right. Even Zoya knows by now that Adi is correct in his words but every time he conveys it with a lie. Last time his confession was backed up by a lie and today zoya's realization was backed by a prank again. Zoya anyway is not sure about trust and Adi just keeps confirming. But what he said to Zoya will affect her now she will think back to those words once he backs away. Jenshad were something else today!!

Originally posted by: shabla

Adhira a big hug girl🤗you brought my sanity back...otherwise I thought I am only one who felt the episode was not bad...and the last part between adiya is definitely a must watch...the way he explained why zoya is afraid to accept his love makes perfect sense...that scene is highly important in this track for us to connect with zoya...and yes adithya has broken the trust between him and zoya...he paid the price also for it...he lost his love..now it is no more in his hands to get her back...now decision is with zoya...its zoya's call finally...but why will zoya leave a trust worthy person like arshad for a dhokebaaz like adithya...thats what I want to see now...love and trust both should prevail together for any relation to survive...will AdiYa achieve it...lets see...

hug back shabla! Like shurthi I had expected a much worst episode where Adi will do something from where he can't come back. But it wasn't bad. Something big had to happen for Aditya to finally take a step back otherwise he would forced her more and she would have married arshad. Now it is up to Zoya, let's see after knowing she is wrong if she will go through with it.

I read the update first, and felt really angry on Aditya, thinking how he could do one more prank and add to Zoya's lost trust, but frankly after I watched the episode I was more annoyed with Arshad than anyone.

I enjoyed yesterday's e thoroughly! Huge applauds to the whole team 👍🏼👏

Originally posted by: Subha_2601

Today I didn't see anything wrong in Zoya's action. In fact, it was Adi who forced to take such a step with his stupid prank.

When Zoya trusts someone, she trusts that person blindly. We saw her blind trust for Yash. Now Adi is proving that her trust for him too is blind. It's Adi's actions that force her to do what she doesn't want to do. She had refused to marry Arshad, told this bluntly to Waseem as well as Arshad but when Adi broke her trust, she was forced to bring Arshad in her life. She could have still avoided the marriage but Zoya is punishing herself by doing this for trusting Adi. Like I had written in Shruti's topic few days back, she is killing herself everyday because her love for Adi is more bepannah than her love for Yash. She's not marrying Arshad to move on. She's marrying him to punish herself, to torture herself everyday, to die a thousand deaths everyday.

But still in yesterday's episode, Adi's words affected her and while getting ready for the engagement, she was thinking of him. She asked for him first, looking at the door and was waiting for him, gave her phone to Noor because she probably wanted Adi to turn up, talk to her again and she may have broken the engagement. It seemed to me like she was waiting for Adi so that she can break the engagement but little did she expect that Adi will play with her feelings once again.

When she got the phone call, she didn't care for anyone, neither Arshad nor Waseem. She clearly told Waseem that Adi needs her so she needs to go to him. She crossed the threshold and left only to be fooled by Adi. She wanted him to break the engagement but by speaking the truth and not lying again. His prank once again broke her trust and she decided to punish herself once again by getting engaged to Arshad. Actually she was punishing herself more than Adi.

But Zoya madam, one thing u need to remember is what method u used to bring Adi back into ur life. U thought like Adi and spread lies to bring him back. Now Adi is being himself and is trying his best to bring u back into his life so u have to either accept him the way he is or change him. His actions are wrong but his intentions are never wrong.

Mr. Aditya, was this the only way to break her engagement specially what happened between both of u few days back? I have bashed u enough in Mandy's and Shruti's threads. Now I don't have anymore frustration left in me to bash u in this thread too. 😆

Sorry! Have been wanting to reply quicker but have been busy since morning. Your last line cracked me up subha 🤣
Loved your reply! You actually voiced a lot of things I had thought about but didn't remember to put. Adi and Zoya have both pushed each other to this day. Every action has an equal and forceful reaction. That's what has been happening in this entire chaos since adi's confession. Even after getting to the breaking point both of them are not budging from their respective decisions and in the process torturing each other. Zoya although had justified reason to stick with arshad. It must taken a lot out of her to actually consider adi's words before the engagement. She was right there at the brim of acknowledging it but adi's action blew in her face. Why wouldn't she consider as a fate's signal that she is choosing the wrong guy again?
About the punishment part even I have been thinking along the same line actually. It does look like Zoya is punishing herself for trusting people blindly. It's as if she feels that deserves to be in a loveless marriage for all the love and trust she has given people.
Haha you remembered the disappearance prank too? I remember making a post about this few weeks back and had hoped that it will be zoya's prank which will be reminded to her and she will realize. But I guess cvs have forgotten that one 😆 Really wish someone points it out to her though.

Originally posted by: Hend_Refai

I loved tonight episode.

I know Adi was wrong. but I can understand why he did what he did.

Yes he lied but he did it to prevent Zoya from bigger lie.

He betrayed her trust again. But he wanted to prevent her from betraying everyone including herself.

I understand sometimes a woman can marry a man without love. But she must be willing to give him the chance to love. She must be in this relationship with all, Her mind and her soul. But Zoya is commitment to relation and her mind and soul are belong to another man

This is betrayal

Adi can't watch her do that and do nothing

Adi's intention wasn't to hurt Zoya but he is so deep in his stubbornness to prove to her that she is doing wrong he doesn't realize he is making her question the very root of their relationship. Their foundation was trust and taqdeer which she snatched away from Adi and gave it to arshad. Why? Because Adi pushed her to question if taqdeer was actually meant for them. On the other hand Zoya too pushed Adi to this limits today by her confusion and denial.

Originally posted by: Missesha

I read the update first, and felt really angry on Aditya, thinking how he could do one more prank and add to Zoya's lost trust, but frankly after I watched the episode I was more annoyed with Arshad than anyone.

I was clearly failing to understand why is it that Arshad still wants to marry Zoya? Why is he failing to back off? Can he not see what kind of a mess he will get into if he ends up marrying Zoya. Aditya, clearly voiced and has been voicing how their past has tormented them. So I am wondering why is Arshad so deaf ears to Zoya's past / fears, and blind to AdiYa bonding?

Coming to Adi, I really thought that enough is enough upon reading the update, but when I saw the episode I had a complete positive perception.

After confession, first Adi explained to Arjun, why he loves Zoya- Fantastic

Then, in Adi - Waseem convo, Adi comes out clear with why he feels so much of love for Zoya - Excellent

In every AdiYa interaction, he has made Zoya melt for him with his proximity and touch - Brilliant. Emotions in Zoya have been evoked.

The hospital drama was the final stroke. He very clearly aired Zoya's fears, that Zoya herself was failing to acknowledge. Bravo!! Its the fear of being hurt again is what is stopping her from loving him. And now Zoya knows, that Aditya knows that too. The truth that no one else knows about her, Adi knows it.

I loved Adi through and through in his confidence and attitude.

Adi is a flawed character as well and his approaches are questionable. But if I put myself in his shoes, I feel he is right. I felt he was not left with other options than what he chose.

He is the only one who is fighting for a bigger cause with a clear conscience - and that cause is Love / Reason to live. All others (Zoya, Waseem, Arshad etc) are just trying to attain petty goals, which are not long lasting.

After this point, Adi has done and said enough. He is probably going to back off, because there is nothing more left to explain to Zoya. From confession, to explanation, to passion, pranks and humiliation, Adi has tried it all. Now its Zoya's turn!

I may be a minority here, but I loved the episode. The only thing I wish for is that now there is a faster pace and closure to this. Any further stretch will break it.

Originally posted by: Missesha

I read the update first, and felt really angry on Aditya, thinking how he could do one more prank and add to Zoya's lost trust, but frankly after I watched the episode I was more annoyed with Arshad than anyone.

I was clearly failing to understand why is it that Arshad still wants to marry Zoya? Why is he failing to back off? Can he not see what kind of a mess he will get into if he ends up marrying Zoya. Aditya, clearly voiced and has been voicing how their past has tormented them. So I am wondering why is Arshad so deaf ears to Zoya's past / fears, and blind to AdiYa bonding?

Coming to Adi, I really thought that enough is enough upon reading the update, but when I saw the episode I had a complete positive perception.

After confession, first Adi explained to Arjun, why he loves Zoya- Fantastic

Then, in Adi - Waseem convo, Adi comes out clear with why he feels so much of love for Zoya - Excellent

In every AdiYa interaction, he has made Zoya melt for him with his proximity and touch - Brilliant. Emotions in Zoya have been evoked.

The hospital drama was the final stroke. He very clearly aired Zoya's fears, that Zoya herself was failing to acknowledge. Bravo!! Its the fear of being hurt again is what is stopping her from loving him. And now Zoya knows, that Aditya knows that too. The truth that no one else knows about her, Adi knows it.

I loved Adi through and through in his confidence and attitude.

Adi is a flawed character as well and his approaches are questionable. But if I put myself in his shoes, I feel he is right. I felt he was not left with other options than what he chose.

He is the only one who is fighting for a bigger cause with a clear conscience - and that cause is Love / Reason to live. All others (Zoya, Waseem, Arshad etc) are just trying to attain petty goals, which are not long lasting.

After this point, Adi has done and said enough. He is probably going to back off, because there is nothing more left to explain to Zoya. From confession, to explanation, to passion, pranks and humiliation, Adi has tried it all. Now its Zoya's turn!

I may be a minority here, but I loved the episode. The only thing I wish for is that now there is a faster pace and closure to this. Any further stretch will break it.

You are not alone I fail to understand arshad as well. I do feel bad for him because at the end of all this he is going to get hurt. Zoya has unnecessarily dragged him into her mess. But why is living in the illusion created by Zoya? It's like he has closed off his thinking abilities and gone into denial that Zoya will eventually love him once married to him. He doesn't notice that when aditya speaks out zoya's thoughts about fear she stays quite doesn't argue back.