You Deserve Love - Page 2

Originally posted by: Nerdgal

Adhira, I think that the whole fandom is waiting for her to go mad.

Mad for Adi, his love, his presence in her life, etc.

In this show, one can never predict anything.

Aaj acceptance dikhaya, kal naa dikhayenge. Yaa phir uski maut. I am just saying in general.

Its better to sit back and wait and watch. No use breaking our heads over those silly kids.

Anjana is no problem for me. Karti kuch hai par end mein AdiYa ko saath lati hai.

Not like Wasim uncle and Arshad. Pehle se hi I haven't liked them. My instincts aren't bad. And they haven't endeared me in anyway.

Originally posted by: Kiruravi

Beautiful post 😃 . Both are so stubborn in their own decisions. every word adi said was true. This marriage wil ruin 3 lives. I dnt knw whether she thinks in this perspective. Because right now she wants to suppress her feelings for adi nd that alone looks like her priority. So she is not thinking much abt arshad tht how it will be for him when this falls out. But she is totally in a confused state and the situations makes her more confused so i cant blame her. Whenever adi is not around, she is melting fr him nd she couldnt control it but when he is around she completely switches into stubborn mode. Not even his presence is needed , just his name or something related to adi is enuf for her to go into tht mode. Both are hurting each other which is painful😭but this hurt this clash is needed.

I really loved adi's determination nd decision today. His dialo gues were perfect.He answered all our questions. Adi's presence on zo wedding day will surely make her to marry arshad so only his absence her fear of loosing adi can make her to take right decision nd definitely she will go mad nd burst out all her inner feelings everything😳. Anjana wil do this job perfectly. the whole fandom is waiting for her breakdown for adi and iam very sure that we all are gonna get emotional nd cry when it happens. The union of adiya will be iconic for sure😉

Originally posted by: Dragonfly88

Thanks amru:) Yeah even I have a feeling adi might not turn up for the nikah or arshad might see through zoya and back out in the last moment. Sakshi part might come in after their confession.

Originally posted by: shruthiravi

@adhira it is their ego clashing. When she turns away after giving contract both their eyes had tears. But neither is willing to back off. I also feel Zoya believes she doesnt deserve the bepannah pyaar. The love that will consume her because she cant return it. With Arshad she knows he doesnt have any bepannah pyaar for her. It is normal love which whether she reciprocates or not doesnt matter. She can simply shut her emotions and go on in a normal life.

And you are right. She might be able to say Qubool Hai with Aditya in front of her, but not in his absence. Because Zoya knows Aditya and Aditya knows Zoya. That's why Aditya tells he will try and if it doesnt work he will see her marriage and come back. So he knows she is capable of executing her zidd. Similarly Zoya knows if Aditya tells he will plan, he will plan. If he doesnt come means panic will rise in her.

Reason though she tells Aditya is a liar, her heart knows he is truth. So his absence will make her want to know the reason. And she will imagine every goddamn reason for the same which will only increase her panic quotient.

Originally posted by: mango_pudding1

@dragonfly88 - how we feel about ourselves matters so much! when we are riddled with self-esteem and self-loathing, it does not matter how amazing the other person is but you will destroy the relationship with your own two hands because you feel unworthy. and lot of it has to do with whether you believe you are worthy of love, whether you deserve love.

was watching this talk show yesterday and in it, this husband loves his wife. she was chubby when he married her but he loved her. now, she has become fatter and so lashes out constantly at him from her insecurity. she is constantly petrified that he will leave her and abandon her. what was sad was that he was so empathetic to her background that he was in tears -- he really loved her...

so similarly, zoya needs to get from self-hate pit. she has determined that because she was a failure with yash, she is a failure in relationships, cannot assess or make decisions for herself. she is afraid. so aditya is right in that she will hate herself when she is unable to respond to arshad and will take it out on him and make everyone miserable including her. this is not a matter of adjustment or compatibility. it is about how we feel about ourselves and for that we need to believe that yes, we deserve love.

Originally posted by: lalithaaa

hii adeera nice post.zoya can't c the real light(adi)of her life.she was blind folded by her past.she clsed evry door of her heart.she named her unconditional luv towards adi as BF.aditya his name him self is sun.his rays of lvu wil reach evry corner of her heart&ligh up her soul. this is my feeling lets watch.

Originally posted by: Subha_2601

Waseem said yesterday that u took a correct decision in ur life for the first time. He didn't realize how much his words are making Zoya lose her self confidence and become vulnerable. So for him, even her decision to run ZoSh was also wrong even though she was appreciated by the whole world for turning a bankrupt event management company into a successful one with her will and hard work. He starts praising Arshad in front of her to prove to her that she took a correct decision by agreeing to marry a guy of his choice. This is what is making Zoya more stubborn and running away from truth.

After Yash's betrayal, the most important thing that mattered to her was trust and Adi broke her trust. She very well knows Adi. She knows Adi can purposely never hurt anyone. She knows Adi's intention was never to risk Arshad's life. She believes in his words but Waseem's words do not let her trust Adi again and accept her love for him. She's scared of choosing a man she loves even if that man is Aditya. She keeps lying to herself that Adi is only her good friend and she only has concern for him and not love. But she can't say the same with confidence to Adi because whenever she looks into Adi's eyes, she's lost in the love that she sees for herself in his eyes. His words touch her heart but she's slowly turning into the old Zoya who is not ready to accept the reality.

Yes, both are stubborn idiots. Adi is trying to prove that her love is more important than his own self respect. He is ready to let go off his self respect for the sake of his love but he is not realizing he is hurting Zoya more and is making her more stubborn.

I am waiting to see what will happen on the wedding day.

Originally posted by: Maryam2

beautiful post❤️

they both deserve love.. dono ziddi bhi hain😆

finally zoya is confused.. and adi to the rescue😆

Originally posted by: enlightenme

Both Aditya and Zoya are stubborn in their own way. The way Aditya is pushing Zoya it is not helping either. Now, Zoya is unable to get the space required to think through this marriage. With every step Aditya takes towards stopping this marriage, Zoya takes another step towards Arshad her resolve to go get through this marriage gets stronger. Now, for Zoya its more about proving to Aditya that she doesn't love him than to make her dad happy. Like always she will rise upto the challenge and I don't think she will change her decision unless Aditya takes a step back. For Aditya to take a step back he has to be hurt beyond a certain threshold or circumstancial things can hold him back. The moment Zoya realises her friend Aditya is not there with her, her resolve will start crumbling. Aditya might keep himself away for a function like haldi or mehendi if it comes down to that but he will definitely attend the marriage to hear that qubool hai how much ever it hurts him because he is not a spoilt sport.