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All right!
Now since we all equated this show to real world story , I need to ramble.
Yes, for love marriage we need permissions from elders. That's alao a team work. Also it's true that there are harsh words many times from both the families.
But my point is between the boy and the girl.
There are always red flags for both Girls and Boys to notice in their prospective special friend and their family.
The three being Priority, Change in priority when situations demand & Sensitivity to ones actions.
In the current track there are many including Me who felt that Naina was objectively and practically in Forever Me & My Family mode, justifying all her unilateral decisions and harsh behaviour as Sameer's good.
Many of us were hopeful that at least Writers will show Naina that she is really thoughtful of her decisions that were taken not considering Sameer's side at all.
Now since we all equated this show to real world story , I need to ramble.
Yes, for love marriage we need permissions from elders. That's alao a team work. Also it's true that there are harsh words many times from both the families.
But my point is between the boy and the girl.
There are always red flags for both Girls and Boys to notice in their prospective special friend and their family.
The three being Priority, Change in priority when situations demand & Sensitivity to ones actions.
In the current track there are many including Me who felt that Naina was objectively and practically in Forever Me & My Family mode, justifying all her unilateral decisions and harsh behaviour as Sameer's good.
Many of us were hopeful that at least Writers will show Naina that she is really thoughtful of her decisions that were taken not considering Sameer's side at all.
She was rude and hurtful to him (oh ! For his good) We all hoped she will at least be shown a little worried about it and the insecurities she has instilled in Sameer by her actions.
But Look at the Dialogues given by Naina:
1. Pyar Kia Hai to Mehnat to Karna Padega
(Madam Ji, Ladka BABA ban hi gaya tha leaving everything when you were getting engaged!)
2. Pyar ka Asli Maza, Jhagde Ke Baad Hota Hai!
(Really, it was just a fight? It was a full blown separation from your end Madam Naina, where you were engaged and about to be married to another man snubbing the boy who was constantly trying to get through you any way - even accept friendship! To ab aap kis maje ki baat kar rahi hain?)
3. Nnaina to Sameer: "Kuch Hua Hai Kya?"
(😆 Kuch nahin hua Madam Ji! Bas fans ki hawa tight ho gyi hai seeing the writers behaving like they were either high while writing your dialogues or may be they want to show you as completely different to what you were projected before as caring, sensitive and loving)
Sameer was also equally shown to act highly dumb. "Dumbmeer".
Sameer was also equally shown to act highly dumb. "Dumbmeer".
So, powerful was Naina's one eye wink tat Sameer has selective Amnesia. Tomorrow Naina will wink both eyes (in a real world scenario and ditch Dumbmeer as double eyed wink will be even more powerful)
The fear that Munna expressed would have been perfect had Sameer himself directly asked this to Naina.
It might work in tele world. But in the real world it is a clear cut signal that the girl and her family are going to take the boy and his family granted. They will also expect the boy's family to understand and adjust with all their decisions. Where there is no sensitivity towards for the actions that has been committed towards the boy, which has not only affected him but everyone in the boy's family.
It might work in tele world. But in the real world it is a clear cut signal that the girl and her family are going to take the boy and his family granted. They will also expect the boy's family to understand and adjust with all their decisions. Where there is no sensitivity towards for the actions that has been committed towards the boy, which has not only affected him but everyone in the boy's family.
(In Sameer's case, it was not only him who was affected or planning to leave everything. His family and friends were also equally tensed and affected.
In real world, this is a sure shot way for the boy to be agonised by the girl and in-laws.
I am all for love. I am also for all women empowerment. I also realise that majority of viewers are women. But does that mean, same as it is being shown in a tele, in real life boys/males should have no practicality and family pride.
I know my lines in this comment may be in minority in the forum but I am sure if all the males in the forum read and comment, they would say I am not saying anything wrong.
What do you feel, irrespective of you are a male or a female.
In real world, this is a sure shot way for the boy to be agonised by the girl and in-laws.
I am all for love. I am also for all women empowerment. I also realise that majority of viewers are women. But does that mean, same as it is being shown in a tele, in real life boys/males should have no practicality and family pride.
I know my lines in this comment may be in minority in the forum but I am sure if all the males in the forum read and comment, they would say I am not saying anything wrong.
What do you feel, irrespective of you are a male or a female.
(Please consider I am just referring to the current track and how should a real life Sameer should react in real life if his Naina behaves like the Naina in this show)
Also, how would you react if Sameer had done the same with Naina? Would you at the time commented for Naina to understand Sameer and his decision is for her good with no explanation required?
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