Recently, I was going through an article on psychological facts, where I read something interesting about
Being Friends After Break-up : They described about 2 scenarios, when it happens,
1. When the two of them very much in love but some reason they parts ways, they want to attach to each other by any means and best solution is friendship.
2. They were never in love, it was attraction/infatuation.( this scenario is not true for Samiana)
Here, Naina took a overnight drastic decision after Shefjun drama, which was actually a decision taken in huge emotional trauma, when she didn't give any reality check on what it means. It was like she will live with memories of Sam. That is exclusively her and that is her treasure for rest of life. She made peace with that thought. But, reality hit her when taiji brought rishta and roka was done in a blink, without taking her and her savior chachaji's consent. She understood cruel reality of her fate, when she and Preeti got same treatment and life from childhood, Preeti's dream is secured in Anand's hand, her's is not. Her pillar of support was all broken and she now make peace with another truth of her life that she has no right to dream or be happy. She has now totally gave up on her fate. Only thing was with her was her dedication towards education. She became a life less body but her soul was still there in her. Her wish to see Sam was still there, she wanted to explain him, share her situation but reality was something else Sam immediately took 180 degree turn and not only proposed Su, he plated her love to Su in such a degraded manner that she can't believe it. But, accepted that she deserves this treatment from Sam because she hurt him. She could not do justice to Sam. She made peace with the fact that she deserves all this rudeness and insult and hurt from Samundit and Su too. Now, come her last straw, her exclusive memories with Sam was gone, Sam was rebuilding it with Su just in front of her eyes. Now, that day the Cold drinks from the bottle was dropped, her all treasured memories was out of her treasure box and now it belongs to someone else. She is completely void now, her soul, her Sam belongs to someone else and it is by his own choice. Now, she is just a body without heart and soul. Only brain is working so she is leaving and now it is decided by the seniors that no more education for her. The studies her one of the best friend till childhood is leaving her. It is the moment, when Sam took a stand for her respect when Sharad's mother came. She actually could see a floating log in her ocean of misery and tried to hold it, hence the friendship proposal. She wanted to attach with Sam as friend, wanted to built some good memories before they actually part ways physically. Wanted to give a peace of mind to Sam that they will be tied to each other forever by the string of friendship. It is love in subconscious which the brain is giving name of friendship and after Sharad break up when actually free from unwanted tie up, she is happily want to move forward with friendship as still her promise her duty towards her Chachaji's respect, trust is still there. She is still tied up with that. So, each time she is chanting the friendship phrase. Actually, her feeling of subconscious which is love is confirming with her brain that that she and Sam is friends forever.
Now, comes to Sam, the day he saw Naina and Sharad in restaurant he was sure that Naina is doing this as per family wish. She only loves him and she is 100% disconnected with the man who is assuming Naina is his. The moment he understands this he is actually out of Su as it was to make Naina jealous. But, when Naina offer friendship, his love got a home to live with Naina which is called friendship. Friendship is the only tie by which he could tie himself with Naina for lifelong. As friends can part ways due to their responsibilities but there is always a way open to them through which they can return to each other whenever needed or whenever they wish to. As Naina rishta is done by her family Sam accepted the fact the she cannot be his life partner, he wanted to go for another lifelong tie up in name of friendship. But, when Naina's rishta breaks, he without giving a second thought his compromised friendship transformed to love relationship, towards a life together.
So, to conclude, now Naina is going through the phase when it is war between subconscious and conscious. A battle between truth and illusion. the proposal is going to take out from her the log which she was holding to stay connected with Sam in name of friendship , in a moment and she will again going to be alone in her ocean of misery. The bubble is going to burst for both the lover who are living in their own made utopia. Now, lets see how cvs going to handle it.
At the end, we love Samiana and we want them to win. Two of them are so much in love. By the sudden hit of misery they are struggling horribly.
Edited by koyelbasu - 6 years ago