Originally posted by: .Jane..
This is the first time I have visited this forum and I just had to reply to your post. It's so on point!
I don't know how Kabeer always does something to tick me off. I could never really forgive him for the way he divorced Zara but just as I had moved on from that, here comes the threat of a second talaq. And today established just why despite him being such a nice man otherwise I can never root for him.
She did what he asked, she gave up something so very dear to her - the Sharia Board membership - and he STILL wasn't satisfied. Basically, Zara should do everything he says nahi toh divorce. How convenient, especially after she literally bore her soul to him about how she feels for the talaq situation.
I am happy Zara chose her identity over a marriage which wants to take HER away from her. I get why she loves Kabeer so much but every person has things they can't (and shouldn't) give up and compromise on. He also has his and he made that very clear by divorcing her at the first sign of a disagreement. This man does nothing to fight for their marriage so why should Zara choose him? Kabeer had no right to ask her to make that choice, not when he first divorced her and not today.
Having said that, I don't think he lacks a spine when it comes to standing up against his father. It's just that Shahbaz has been very smart about pushing his buttons and cornering him off late. The only time I feel bad for the character is in such scenes. No one deserves such a pathetic excuse for a father!
Hey there I'm new to this forum too :)
I started watching it from the time when she was unknowingly walking on the railway tracks and Kabir then gets sick.
But I did watch few of the earlier episodes here and there.
But for me the fact that even after he gave her the first talaq, asked her to come and stay with him and give him a chance to fulfill the responsibilities she accused him of not fulfilling really irritated me.
I mean just because he wants to have a clean slate in front of God's eyes by fulfilling all his farz doesn't really compensate for the wrongs he has done!
Zara even after having gone through all the shit still has it in her at the end of the day to be polite and loving while he goes off roaring and insulting.
I absolutely detested his behaviour.
And what sort of a person is he that he's still not made up his mind? After almost 30 days he still can't be stuck in middle. He must be atleast leaning towards one side - either talaq or not!
It's like he'll see the situation on the 30th day and if he is in good mood he may cancel the decision of giving talaq.
True and I don't think Zara should have tried justifying her stance of having chosen her morals and belief over Kabir because both are different and completely unrelated.
And if he gives her divorce then what will she be left with?
He's already taken away her future at the Sharia Board.
Shahbaz is like a whole new person who can be ranted off on another post but yes in short he's sick and pathetic.
I don't know how did he get such a sweet wife!
And that Khalid if he was resigning due to his ill health and handing over to Miraj - why does he still attend every session - yes Miraj is not on board but he doesn't need to be there does he?
In one of his interview relating to an upcoming segment where he takes care of Zara and they have some fun moments he actually tells us (as Kabir) that he wants to show the world what he feels for Zara and that he is fulfilling his responsibilities but what about the aspect of love, affection and respect towards each other?
I honestly don't feel like watching as all that's happening is injustice and now with the accusation of murder it's only going to get more Anti Zara.
And Shahbaz and Hashmi will conspire in some way to ensure that Zara is permanently out of the picture along with her father for them to get the position of Sheher Qazi!
Kabhi Neem Neem Kabhi Shahad Shahad
