This is why i can relate to Aditya and Pooja

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Marital counselling is not as widespread in India yet. It's catching on very slowly. But mind you, even that is 'outside help'.

Btw, if 99% of women are bitches, then why should Pooja be any different? She's a normal human being, not a Goddess. 😆

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enlightenme

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Originally posted by: krystal_watz
Marital counselling is not as widespread in India yet. It's catching on very slowly. But mind you, even that is 'outside help'.
Btw, if 99% of women are bitches, then why should Pooja be any different? She's a normal human being, not a Goddess. 😆

But there Shakshi was speaking as if her daughter was a goddess who sacrificed her career and her child for Aditya as if he was some kid to be taken care of.

Mind you the 1% you are talking about are women not some goddess.

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SStephy

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Posted: 7 years ago

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The way I see it, there was a pre-affair phase and the affair phase in Aditya-Pooja marriage. When it comes to the affair phase, the only person who is wrong was Pooja. Adi is not at all at fault there and none of his flaws can be held as a reason for Pooja straying away from the marriage.

But in the pre-affair phase, all wasn't perfect. Their marriage broke inwardly at this phase. And here both Adi and Pooja were at fault. Pooja's lack of communication and not being more assertive about her needs was her mistake. But Adi too was wrong for not being more perceptive towards Pooja.. and kind of being dismissive about what Pooja said when she did say something. He was too much into his own world, and his own likes and dislikes. And this was a fault in Adi, which he needed to realize for his own growth.

And from what I understand, this is what the CVs are trying to convey when they are pointing at Adi's mistakes. That Adi too was wrong (yes, Pooja too had her mistakes) purely in the pre-affair phase. I mean if the affair never happened, and if we see everything about Aditya-Pooja marriage that was told from Pooja's POV, then she too had a valid point.

PS: I don't support EMA. When it comes to the affair, I consider Poosh solely responsible and wrong for it.