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Originally posted by: LoveAnushka
helooo Anushka..😃 welcome to Bepannah and my thoughts... firstly Anushka.. do forgive hammie for being late in annotating your commentSpare me for my thoughts! I am just 16 yrs but something right I know is...I do not agree with this statement,Being a new father will mean where previously he was the centre of his wife's attention. She met all his demands. His , place will be overtaken by a needy new individual in their life. Like other first time fathers, Adi too will feel he would share Pooja's his wife's attention, with the baby. Like other new fathers, Adi too, would have to adjust their life style. Make room for a new member. Like other first time fathers, who knows? Adi too also feared losing out on Pooja's love.. come across being neglected?Fair enough... like I said these thoughts should be treated as generalizations...For me, love doesn't competes but completesso true and couldn't agree more... like your thought of feeling secure.. both new parents have to welcome the blessing.. a new person that both man and wife contributed to its creating.. some young fathers don't know what to expect.. so rightfully at present time, there is more emphasis given to fathers involvement in caring for young infants too.. as much as new mother... Makes a family not takes one away! I simply know that whatever it may be, new time father or anything, something I know from what I have learnt that people shouldn't be insecure or need not be as the arrival of new one is just to make you care, trust and love more thank before. I might be wrong but from a young age every sister, even me, is told, your new sibling is going to be your friend and love isn't going to divide but multiply and in real life it does.... see those values we still swear by and me glad you serve reminders.. of course children ,siblings do pick up the values they are taught... its called as you may be aware parenting... and parenting comes out stronger in cases where children are blessed to be brought by both parents...times are subject to change.. there are also.. I forgot to mention, those first time fathers too who rear a child as a single parent.. In Adi's case. in Friday's episode Pooja admitted that he would make a responsible father.. Anuskha.. that is what I wanted seen... in case Sakhshi and pooja bring up reasons against him for not wanting to be a dad... as it is he was labelled a child! himseflBut yes I agree that Adi seeing a father like Harsh, can not easily put himself into those shoes of fatherhood. And as Sakshi scolded him, which Anjana should have but how could she when her own martial life fell apart. So yes maybe Adi was right somewhere. But Sakshi was also not. She wasnt cruel to be kind. A mother would make you sleep, be transparent to her, be the friend as mother but would scold and slap you too! Even though Pooja was wrong at cheating, but as a mother she can understand the pain to abort a child of your flesh. Pooja is wrong but for me even Aditya is wrong. Flaws are meant to be told by mothers only. Sakshi, I feel, is genuinely a mother for Adi too. Her eyes say that she does love Adi, but she loves Pooja too. And not giving any explaination from both sides, she stated the truth, yes a bit harsh it would seem or was but she said for the better future.Friday's episode... shows more about Pooja's craving for a baby... she had her own agenda... yes both Aditya and Pooja may be at fault... but Adi was faithful a big quality for both husband and wife to have... Poooja broke the bond of faithfulness... and he soo loved Pooja.. sakshi suffered insult by Anjana after Pooja died... I feel she defends her daughters immorality by blaming Adi for every thing...that went wrong with PoojaI don''t know why everyone are seeing Adi as victim but even Pooja, Sakshi, Zoya, Anjana, Harsh was victim, in other ways. So being told the story, there is a story of every character too and everyone are right on their selfs but are wrong on other side of coin. Even forum members see the bad in Pooja and Sakshi, but even Adi was wrong many times then why butcher only Pooja and Sakshi? That is not fair in the race.this is a fair enough comment.. characters have their own strengths and weaknesses.. some more than others.. as we are mere mortals.. however some characters, break rules, traditions, set by the moral code of practice,or the scriptures.. In most global communities marriage is seen as a sacred or legal bond. marital fidelity is an important hinge that a marriage rests upon.. all stemming from love and trust in each other..Maybe we need to see other side of coin as well!absolutely!!😃Sorry if anyone finds my comment offensive. But what I felt to state I just wrote the thoughts running in my mind. But yes there are some points to which I agree and some to which I don't. So sorry if you are offended by my comment.😊😃 not offended at all Anushka!.. listen you needn't have mentioned your age! you watch the show.. that's what matters.. you clearly are into it.. and how you feel.. hammie , surely wants to know about your engaging feed back.. so keep watching Bepannah.. and read my thoughts and share your views... much love and welcome again. .yours hammieLove,Anushka
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