Pooja and Yash

I find it really hard to digest that Zoya and Aditya are being blamed, even in part, for the affair.

They're both idiots to be honest.

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

U say -"I find it really hard to digest that Zoya and Aditya are being blamed, even in part, for the affair."

I say - Nobody is blaming Adi for the affair. Aditya is not at fault for Pooja making the choice to cheat. But it is important for him to acknowledge that there were problems in their marriage - loneliness, resentment etc that played a role in Pooja's ultimate decision.

(Credit: Delena)

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

U say -"I find it really hard to digest that Zoya and Aditya are being blamed, even in part, for the affair."

I say - Nobody is blaming Adi for the affair. Aditya is not at fault for Pooja making the choice to cheat. But it is important for him to acknowledge that there were problems in their marriage - loneliness, resentment etc that played a role in Pooja's ultimate decision.

(Credit: Delena)

Originally posted by: SnehaDoll

U say -"I find it really hard to digest that Zoya and Aditya are being blamed, even in part, for the affair."

I say - Nobody is blaming Adi for the affair. Aditya is not at fault for Pooja making the choice to cheat. But it is important for him to acknowledge that there were problems in their marriage - loneliness, resentment etc that played a role in Pooja's ultimate decision.

(Credit: Delena)

I absolutely agree that Zo and Adi had their faults and that, to a certain extent, these contributed to the failure of their marriages.

And it is very good if they realise these flaws.

But any marriage is between two individuals: Pooja was Adi's friend first and knew him wellshe should have known that however kiddish Adi is, if she told him seriously but not as a joke, he would listen. Aborting her child was not her decision alone to make, and I still don't understand why she went to the doc with Yash. Why was she sleeping with Adi and Yash at the same time?

Similarly, Yash, who had the guts to ask for money from his FIL, should have had it to talk to Zoya about his finances.

All four had issues, but dividing blame equally is naive. I would give 15 percent of the blame to Adiya and 85 percent to Poosh, the way the makers have shown it. Poosh had an affair for two years, during which Pooja, and presumably Yash, continued to sleep with their spouses. This is deliberate betrayal, and maybe other married people would say that the betrayer and betrayed are equally culpable, but as a married woman myself and in my work in the field of counselling , I can say that the only cases where I find it hard to lay the largest portion of the blame on the betrayers is when they have been severely abused by the spouses they betrayed.

So, yes, I'm thrilled this Paak track is over, and I really hope the CVs handle the next one better. I have no comments on the episodeI'm glad you enjoyed it. Each of us is on our own journey of understanding.

Originally posted by: Maryam2

true that👏