i love him

hello everyone😳
well i have a problem...and it's ofcourse about love😆...

there is a guy in school i do really love. i saw him for the first time in september 2007...
we are not in the same class...but i see him twice (or more) a week on the floors.
ok the problem is that i m shy. we both are registered in something like facebook. i added him but he avoided me. i asked him whats the problem (message ofcourse) and he said he didn't accept me, because he doesn't know me. he said maybe after a while. but i think it's a lie. because he has got many ppl in his friendlist he doesn't know (and i m sure about that). i waited one month and added him again....again didn't accept.
i m so badly in love...
he is a shy guy too...and i m actually feeling really bad for him...he knows a lot of ppl, but doesn't really has got friends.
everytime we have an eyelook my heart is exploding....
he talks to lots of girls, why can't he talk to me? ....i can tell you i m not fat or so...i donno what to do...😔

hope anyone has an idea....
but it's also a nice feeling to tell someone about that....
(my mum and sis try to help me....but still couldn't manage anything)
thanks for reading😊

Mandy

Well maybe u shud try to talk to him in school, become his FRIEND and maybe then he'll accept u on facebooK:D like a lot of ppl have a lot of friends on facebook, such as me, i have over 200 and i do know most of them or some of them i know through other people right
U can b SO sure that he doesnt know all of them:S he probably does:) U shud really get to know him first before any other attempt. 😉

Well after your post here it seems its just a crush not love.First try to clear our your feelings about him

If u really love him then you can start by just a smile or try talking to him

hmm 1st try 2 b frnds wid him.....slowly n gradually....
wne u hav a gdu relation den may b u shud tel him
but dats l8er
1st try n b frnds wid him 😊

Originally posted by: LoveSharad

i asked him whats the problem (message ofcourse) and he said he didn't accept me, because he doesn't know me. he said maybe after a while. but i think it's a lie. because he has got many ppl in his friendlist he doesn't know (and i m sure about that). i waited one month and added him again....again didn't accept.
i m so badly in love...
he is a shy guy too...and i m actually feeling really bad for him...he knows a lot of ppl, but doesn't really has got friends.
....
he talks to lots of girls, why can't he talk to me? ....i can tell you i m not fat or so...i donno what to do...😔

Yup, nothing much you can do, apartfro get to know him and talk to him.

If he is shy, bu talksto lots of girls - He can't be That shy!

Forget Facebook etc for now - As it seems clearhe will not add you and making things up if he has people he dosent know on there.

Don't feel badfor him if he knows lot of people, but has hardly any friends, use that as an advantage and become friendly slowly. Dont pounce on him as he will be like 'wohhhh' and run a mile 🤣

Maybe find out his interests from people he does talk to and people you are also friends with. 😳 make conversation, a hi here or a smile there etc.😳as thats not too hard o armking the first move in that sense, its just being Polite and Friendly..

All the Best

Loveeeeeee SaIra😳

Originally posted by: anon

Yup, nothing much you can do, apartfro get to know him and talk to him.

If he is shy, bu talksto lots of girls - He can't be That shy!

Forget Facebook etc for now - As it seems clearhe will not add you and making things up if he has people he dosent know on there.

Don't feel badfor him if he knows lot of people, but has hardly any friends, use that as an advantage and become friendly slowly. Dont pounce on him as he will be like 'wohhhh' and run a mile 🤣

Maybe find out his interests from people he does talk to and people you are also friends with. 😳 make conversation, a hi here or a smile there etc.😳as thats not too hard o armking the first move in that sense, its just being Polite and Friendly..

All the Best

Loveeeeeee SaIra😳

...thanks so much....i m feeling much better now..
and i think you really helped me in that case...
i need more self-confidence ... so next time i try to give him a smile...yep i'll do that..😳

Originally posted by: LoveSharad

...thanks so much....i m feeling much better now..
and i think you really helped me in that case...
i need more self-confidence ... so next time i try to give him a smile...yep i'll do that..😳

No worriessss...Yeah just be confident in yourself, and one little thing at a time. Smile, then a hi, hello how r u? etc...😳

And if still nothing then this guy is a lost cause...😆 ifhe wont even be just friends.😳

All the best then, and let us know how it goes.😳

Originally posted by: LoveSharad

thanks....

and yeps i really love him and i m pretty sure about it. i had many crushes....but this time it's totally different. mmh, the problem is that i just see him for some minutes a week...it's terrible. and i m not the girl who is ready to make the first step...when it comes to a guy... 😳 😕 ...
he really doesn't know everyone he added, he has my sis' friend too in there...
oh well...in august the whole 11th standard will get new classes...and they'll mix all ppl...
pls pray that i've some lessons with him 😳 ...
actually i have everything in life.....just the love is missing...from a guy 😔

ohh

no rpobs

but u sed hez ur sis' frnd

gud den y dont u ask her 4 sum help if possible?