Friendship in VDW?

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sheenu

@sheenu32

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Posted: 7 years ago

So I watched the movie last night,.. and I have a concern.. I honestly did not think that all four of them were BEST FRIENDS. All throughout the promotions they tried to sell their the movie that its based on friendship and bond and so on.

Firstly, I don't know about you guys but my best friends know EACH AND EVERYTHING thats going on in my life and so do I. but with them, none of them were aware of issues in each others lives and infact they were scared to tell each other everything fear of being judged😕 I thought being best friends is above all that.

And I mean who leaves their friend ALONE on her wedding... especially when she's not even emotionally stable herself.

To me they were just "friends" who happened play catch up just because they had to meet up for a mutual friend's wedding..

What are your thoughts?

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Posted: 7 years ago

nah they were not friends. they were former school/ youth friends meeting again as adults.

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Erika

@roni_berna

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Posted: 7 years ago

They were friends who were school mates and not best friends. They showed how they came together for Kalandi's wedding and were contacting each other via a video conference call so they were not aware of what's going on in each other's life. For that reason they took a vacation off and shared their love life with each other. When people get married, have kids or start working, it becomes difficult to meet up with friends and have time for such discussions unlike school/college days.

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Kaoridz

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Posted: 7 years ago

I for one totally relate to their friendship dynamic : my best friends are my school friends but life happened and we are now all scattered around the world ...

Whenever we got to see each others we catch up ... Telling your life face to face isn't the same as telling them on the phone ...

Some things it's easier to tell them on the phone but for other things no ...

Whenever we text each others, it's always like : can't wait to see you, I've some many things to share with you ...

And another thing, although I love my friends, but there are things I rather not tell them to anyone : it's not a matter of trust it's just that each one of us has his own secret garden !

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springkissed

@springkissed

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Posted: 7 years ago

Honestly speaking, that's how friendships are as an adult. Sometimes, certain friend groups are all separated and doing their own thing, busy in their own lives and then gather when something special is happening and pick up right where they left off last time. And personally speaking, I'm very much afraid of sharing certain things with even my closest friends b/c of the fear of being judged. It's a very normal human thing. Some people don't have that certain distance between their friends and them, yet others are more reserved and private. It really differs from person to person.

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return_to_hades

@return_to_hades

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Posted: 7 years ago

It is very similar to adult friendships. One time school/college BFFs drift apart due to life and work. They come together for special occasions and bond.

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