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Is Naina jealous on Sameer's victory. My answer is NO. She was sad that she was not able to get that title. Because in her mind she associated Fresher's title to their marriage. Already Naina and Preethi got ultimatum from their tauji to be married off if they do anything wrong against family beliefs. And Naina very well know how much her family is against love marriages. So when she didn't win the title she thought it as God's sign that there will be problems in their marriage and in worst case may not even happen. We all know how much Naina believes in these kind of signs. The problems can be anything from financial difference between the two families to the petty issue between Pooja and Bittu. This doesn't mean that she don't trust Sameer or his love towards her. But at that moment when she heard the result she got lost.
When her friends brought the winner's sash it was really surprising for her and when she saw her love, her Sameer standing there at door with the trophy, she started getting the courage. She started believing that whatever it may happen in future she and Sameer will be able to overcome it with the help of these friends. This brought the smile back on her face.
Now we may think why she needs to feel insecure like that. She is confident at school then what happened when she came to college. She is always confident about her studies and when it comes to relations she is insecure. For any person, we feel secure when we have a loving mother and a caring father at home. She doesn't have both. If she is not having such a supportive Chacha then she may not be studying at all and may have become someone's wife already. That insecurity is throughout there in her life and it is not that easy to come out of it. That was clearly shown when there was a quarrel between Rakesh and Bela regarding Naina's bicycle. If Chachaji was not taking a position against his own wife then that may be the end of Naina's life. This insecurity will go away only after her marriage with Sameer. Then Sameer can take a stand against her father if he misbehaves. She knows very well that she can be herself with Sameer and unlike her father Sameer will never bring his ego in between she and her happiness. Actually she trusts Sameer more than her own father.
For today's generation, it may be bit difficult to understand why girls are not allowed to take a stand for themselves. Even Ashi was not able to understand that situation of Naina. But it is a fact. Girls of my generation were not allowed to say anything against elders. Now only I am getting some courage to talk bit harsh and strict to my father when he refuses to take care of his health.
So be patient with the progression of story. Most of the situations that they are showing regarding people's mentality is real only.
Wishing all of you a very happy weekend.
Seema
When her friends brought the winner's sash it was really surprising for her and when she saw her love, her Sameer standing there at door with the trophy, she started getting the courage. She started believing that whatever it may happen in future she and Sameer will be able to overcome it with the help of these friends. This brought the smile back on her face.
Now we may think why she needs to feel insecure like that. She is confident at school then what happened when she came to college. She is always confident about her studies and when it comes to relations she is insecure. For any person, we feel secure when we have a loving mother and a caring father at home. She doesn't have both. If she is not having such a supportive Chacha then she may not be studying at all and may have become someone's wife already. That insecurity is throughout there in her life and it is not that easy to come out of it. That was clearly shown when there was a quarrel between Rakesh and Bela regarding Naina's bicycle. If Chachaji was not taking a position against his own wife then that may be the end of Naina's life. This insecurity will go away only after her marriage with Sameer. Then Sameer can take a stand against her father if he misbehaves. She knows very well that she can be herself with Sameer and unlike her father Sameer will never bring his ego in between she and her happiness. Actually she trusts Sameer more than her own father.
For today's generation, it may be bit difficult to understand why girls are not allowed to take a stand for themselves. Even Ashi was not able to understand that situation of Naina. But it is a fact. Girls of my generation were not allowed to say anything against elders. Now only I am getting some courage to talk bit harsh and strict to my father when he refuses to take care of his health.
So be patient with the progression of story. Most of the situations that they are showing regarding people's mentality is real only.
Wishing all of you a very happy weekend.
Seema
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