Originally posted by: coolgal270
Hi Suzanne! Welcome to the forum!!
Its great to have a person from different culture watching the show...you might pick up on nuances which we could miss! Loved your post and you described the essence beautifully!!👏
@bold: had me in splits...our Indian shows tend to get a bit dramatic😆 you will surely see more of these mysterious happenings as you go along!!
I am Sumi, btw!!
PS: if you any problem in understanding any parts of the epi because of hindi, you are most welcome to ping me...will tell you if I know it😆
Hi Sumi, so sorry for the delay in my response as I've been swamped with work. Thanks for your future help!
Another thing I've noticed is the amount of affection and respect the characters have for each other. Part of your culture (or at least on these shows) is to address those who are older as aunty or uncle, and you touch their feet seeking blessings which is respectful and it gives a sense of treating everyone like family.
It's more common for females to show affection to each other even in North American shows and in real life but I found the males in these shows are very demonstrative with each other, especially if they portray brothers. When they hug each other, they hold their hugs longer as they're talking to each other or the sides of their heads touch each other when they hug, or they touch each other's faces etc. all things that are not that prevalent in North American shows. Even in real life here, if two guys are going to hug each other it's more of a quick motion, bump each other's chests and a hard slap on the back and break away.
I saw it as well on a Zee TV awards night where some of the actors were showing that same touchy affection with each other, which showed that they were like this in real life too! They genuinely care for each other. It's just refreshing to see.
I was in a department store the other day and a group of five Indian guys, probably 19-21 yrs old, came in to the make-up dept. Two of the guys walked with the sales clerk and the other three stood next to me and one of them said, "What are we doing in the cosmetics department, anyway?" The other friend told him that their buddy needed some kind of pencil to fill in his beard better! Oh my word, I had to laugh which drew the attention of these 3 guys who then started laughing as well and started nudging each other! Again, the affection is endearing. 😊