Kabeer - The abla Nari?

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Posted: 7 years ago
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I can see there is a huge debate already on, re: Kabeers inconsistent behaviour, but I couldn't stop myself from postin this...
His expressions are so constipated during the whole night scene and next morning, it is hilarious and disgusting...at the same time

Is someone forcing themselves on him?
Why does he have to behave like he is performing a puke-worthy action in the name of FARZ?

Just living by the rule book would be escapism, does he have no conscience at all?isnt that a crime, to go against your consciousness and tall treat the other half totall insensitively?
Is he in 3rd standard where one has to take permission from the teacher to take pee break?

Many people are justifying his behaviour saying that Zara is interfering with his work - so she deserves to be treated like this?????

And heights of hypocrisy from Kabeer - he is ready to accept Ruksaars help with his project - she can bring him investor - a paraya Mard...

But not Zara???
She was only trying to talk to sharia board about his project and he made a scene!!!

Yes, it's true Zara is immature, I don't like the fact that she is poking Ruksaar now and again, but Kabeer has no right to treat anyone, a human being, his wife like that...

SOrry,but this is conveying wrong message that if you follow the rulebook,you can treat another human however you like???

There, the rant is over.
This is not about supporting Zara or Kabeerbut just really about what should be allowed for a male lead portrayal...




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Posted: 7 years ago
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Thats the whole point .. the utter disguisting puke worthy stranger treatment of kabeer to zara is what should NOT happen .. and thats what exactly does happens nd thats what is shown .. he did for the second time putting his own feelngs behind his farz .. his wife made an advance and despite being honest that he needs time he fulfills it as a duty and thus his cold stone reactions because he has none of those love - related feelings yet .. he didnt have them in kashmir .. and to add to that .. he is now also mad at her .. his reason right or wrong is another debate .. but he is mad and revolted from her ..

And secondly .. i dont think anyone has said zara deserves to be treated this way .. kabeer's actions are wrong by every rule of the book .. but yes zara's actions have stemmed these resistive feelings in him .. they are wrong but they ar shown where they come from ..

And lastly .. if a male lead can be shown throwing off a FL from a balcony in the name of romance and his behaviour justified with a crap load of past and its shown and appreciated .. i guess a male lead who believes fulfilling duty like a robot is important than falling in love should definetely be shown .. atleast we dont have a stupid reason given to symptahise with him for the trash he treats zara like .. he is shown wrong and not for once have i seeen any attempt from the makers to justify his behaviour ..

Also i cannot support zara what she did in shria board .. he is the naib qazi u cannot go into a formal meeting without his consultation whereas rksaar is his ideology of woman .. she takes him into confidence without exposing his incapbility to the world which sadly zara did both times .. at mehr in front of family and sharia board in front of his offce.. thus ruksaar gets his levarage .. wrong it is .. but it shows where it comes from !
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Posted: 7 years ago
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It was puke worthy watching the episode. Both Kabir n Zara are wrong in consummating in the name of farz(Kabir) and to overcome the misunderstandings(Zara). Kabir's expression in the morning are horrible. But cv's are showing the reality as these things happen in real life too. It takes time in arrange marriages to fall in love. I hope Zara tones down her attraction and Kabir to start showing some respect towards Zara at least as a human if not wife.

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