kabhi alvida na kehna v/s bepannaah

dev had luv marriage with ria( priety) but after getting a leg injury he turned bitter towards ria or jealous of ria's sucess which do effected their martial life but still ria never opt 4 an EMA coz after hearing all d taunts of dev & tolerating his bitterness , ria still luved dev , did try 2 work on her marriage . this called a unconditional luv no matter what ria was there 4 dev & never left him but it was dev who went 4 ema.

rishi 2 had luv marriage with maya , infact it was he who was working 4 his marriages , rishi had reasons 2 go 4 ema but he never went 4 ema why coz he unconditionally luved maya when maya cant be a mother still rishi never let it effect it to their marriage, both were childhood besties but it was maya who went 4 an ema.

dev & maya never discuseed their problems with ria & rishi infact kept on finding fault in them.

in one of old interview regarding KANK when karan johar was asked why he dint justify dev maya's CHEATING in his film as both were not bad or negative persons , karan said i deliberately dint justify cheating in film coz in reality cheating can never be justified no matter how much u try 2 justify it.

after seeing pooja justification 4 cheating that adi was only her best friend & coz of adi she dont get asthma attack i mean 2 say her breathes dont get fasten , adi dont act as pace maker 2 pooja matlab with adi pooja ke dil ki dhadkne tej nhi hoti, adi is not like baarish in desert & blah blah she said. i mean she founded yash suddenly she found no adi is only my frnd with whom she was spend almost half of her life . pooja knew adi from childhood , she dated him , she knew him in & out , she saw something in adi that why she married him or i can say it was pooja who never luved adi never accepted or respected his individuality.

as i also assume that divorce papers may be fake but if they r real , as per sakshi she is pointing that pooja may had given a second thought 2 her marriage thats why she dint signed. so i will say pooja is d most delusional character of d show who dont know what she want in life yash , adi & zoya r clear what they want in life but pooja dont .

as acc 2 me pooja has a very delusional approach towards luv. d kind of luv pooja decribed only happened in yashraj films not in real life .

if u see in KANK dev maya never justified their ema not they ever said 2 rishi & ria that we were just frnds coz they dev maya knew they cant justify their act, infact dev maya never pretended that they r were happy in marriage or they r hving perfect marriage .

pooja says she feel guilty but never fails to create an false image of perfect marriage & being a perfect wife, she call herself adi's bf but was worst than an enemy who knowingly hurted adi on his weakest point.

i m sure adiya will forgive poosh not coz they deserve forgiveness but not point of holding grudges

i dont accept d justification of pooja by makers that adi pooja were only frnds , luv can happen many times in life , on d name of justifying an EMA u canrt term it as frndship.

i hope makers dont say yash was only infatuated with zoya

after seeing pooja's theory i feel maya was a way better character than her , she was guilty 4 cheating rishi but she never created an image of perfect wife

cheating can't be justified

In fact I didnt even like Pooja's justifications of cheating...

Maya less said the better. She had an accomodative husband and she was always bitter with him and then suddenly Mitwa happened and she decided to go for another man.

I was happy that movie ended with rishi's marriage and ria was thinking of a new life with Arjun Rampal's character. I didnt care what happened for dev and maya. When Maya was running for Dev, we were also running from the theatre after tolerating the bore story for 3+hours.

Coming to Pooja, you are right Maya was far better than Pooja as she never gave a false feeling everything was perfect in her marriage with rishi.But here pooja had kept adhi in a bubble. That's why I was telling when this woman was writing Yash made her breathe fast, rain falls drop on her she was still sleeping with her husband and allow him to make love to her.

When the man was giving it all, the woman was giving just her body as a ritual. The thought itself is sickeneing. Same is with Yash. Even for 15 days he was with Zoya and would have had conjugal relation with her when he was deciding to divorce her.

I can take divorce papers as fake. What about the ring. It was with Yash only.

EMA cannot be justified when the spouses are normal humans. Every marriage the couple has to put some effort to make it work and the so called saree flying, breathe getting faster and too much of mush happens either in movies or Mills and Boons romance books. Not in real life.