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Hello ladies.
I have a question: If your man asked you for help, and support, and was comfortable enough to show his vulnerabilities to you, would you think any less of him? Or would you love him even more for it?
For me personally, I would think of him as even MORE of a man, for being so secure in his masculinity, that he was comfortable enough to show me (his life partner) his vulnerabilities and ask for my support. Because he values and cherishes my presence in his life.
Contrary to what the ML in our show insinuated today, a man taking help from his woman isn't something shameful. It is beautiful and lovely and a testament of a true, equal relationship built on respect and valuing the other person.
This is one of the major changes I am waiting to see in our ML.
And I know a lot of people are saying well there's so many men like him etc. But I would like to take a moment to appreciate and acknowledge the population of men who are NOT like Kabeer. But instead are those who put value to their life partner, share their dreams and aspirations with their life partner, encourage them to reach for the stars. There are men like this, biggest example for me has been my father. So cheers to the good 'uns out there! 😃
Shiv Shakti
