Question for you ladies out there! :)

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ghissapitta

@ghissapitta

Voyager

Posted: 7 years ago

Hello ladies.

I have a question: If your man asked you for help, and support, and was comfortable enough to show his vulnerabilities to you, would you think any less of him? Or would you love him even more for it?

For me personally, I would think of him as even MORE of a man, for being so secure in his masculinity, that he was comfortable enough to show me (his life partner) his vulnerabilities and ask for my support. Because he values and cherishes my presence in his life.

Contrary to what the ML in our show insinuated today, a man taking help from his woman isn't something shameful. It is beautiful and lovely and a testament of a true, equal relationship built on respect and valuing the other person.

This is one of the major changes I am waiting to see in our ML.

And I know a lot of people are saying well there's so many men like him etc. But I would like to take a moment to appreciate and acknowledge the population of men who are NOT like Kabeer. But instead are those who put value to their life partner, share their dreams and aspirations with their life partner, encourage them to reach for the stars. There are men like this, biggest example for me has been my father. So cheers to the good 'uns out there! 😃

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Anjali

@AnjuRish

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 7 years ago

It is demeaning when people think women are the lesser sex. I contribute to the family income, respect and take care of both set of parents. I have a mind upbringing and education to take informed decisions.

Infact my husband is the emotional one and i am. The rational one in our relationship. I am more often the one who is able to look at the bigger pic.

Coming to ISA i am thinking of wu till this stupid track is over

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Sudha

@Sudharies

Stunner

+ 8

Posted: 7 years ago

No woman or wife or partner will think less of a man if he shows his weakness and vulnerablity in front of her and asks her to help him. It's a different thing that not all men are open enough to show their vulnerable side, their male ego stops them from it, I guess!
And no wonder Kabir is one among them!
Haven't watched the episodes for three days but following only with Written updates.

Can anyone say if it's watchable without Kabir getting on our nerves 😕

Edited by Luv_PaRiAnSh - 7 years ago

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1134270

Hibernated

Posted: 7 years ago

Fragile male ego i tell you. Even some highly educated man thinks liie that.

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MsChanadlerBong

@MsChanadlerBong

Rocker

+ 5

Posted: 7 years ago

There are many men like Kabir but there men who aren't either. There are thankfully some people who understand the worth of women and respect them. The proverb "behind every successful man lies a women" wasn't just made like that, it's said and repeated so many times cause its true.

Coming back to Kabir, he was acting like a typical chauvinist, it's was very unlike him. But again looking at these episodes, do we really know him?

If Kabir can not respect his wife, he can not respect himself.

I would never want to marry a guy with opinions like Kabir.