Ambica, I see you and I are agonizing over the same things🤗. Both of us got burned over the same things and can't get past. Please keep it coming my friend, I find some solace knowing that most of us couldn't stomach what was done and uttered by Abhi and it is better to express sometimes what is it that is making us feel so angered, pained, saddened or disgusted😊. At the very least, we understand ourselves better, we may never get any answers from the crazed writers though.
Why are you watching it again and again, my friend? Are you trying to desensitize? I haven't watched any of that nonsense for last 3-4 weeks other than last Thursday and this Friday. I find it that once it is burned on my retina and brain, it is very hard for me to move past. Let me give you my advice, whether you take it or not, please don't kill yourself by putting yourself through that agony❤️. I still can't watch those MMS episodes without getting my heart rate faster and am afraid that I would pop one or two brain aneurysms.
But I do agree, it is called the pot calling the kettle black. That is why I opined that he might be looking at himself in the mirror as he said that God awful thing about Pragya. Him and the 🤬are glaring examples of " bewafa" and boom he projects that onto the one person who remained fiercely loyal to him at all times, thick or thin. How he had forgotten how she fought with the whole world and even his beliefs when he was embroiled in the Simonica murder and illicit affair controversy is beyond me. I guess it is one of those things where you just don't care to burn the bridge once you cross it😭
I wonder if we would ever get him truly repenting for all the things he had said or done to her, I wish there is at least one episode where Pragya puts him on the spot and asks for an explanation💔After 3 years, she at least asked Daadi certain things during the ML time. But the person who should be answerable and held accountable is Abhi and Abhi alone. Sadly, he gets put on a pedestal without any explanation of his behavior. Which couple works this way? We can't put Abhi and accountability in the same sentence anymore💔. Why do I feel he will fall even further in our eyes if and when he will let the vultures devour the little girl, just like he did with Pragya? I can't believe he doesn't know how Daadi detested the 🤬 or Daadi's love for Pragya or vice versa or the 🤬attitude towards daadi and yet he committed the unthinkable sin. So did he not fail his so called love and relationship towards daadi too? And just what did he think Pragya's motive was in "killing" daadi?
You know what Ambica, I want at the very least one 5-10 min interlude of Abhi going the Hamsafar''s Fawad Khan way where he gets nauseated and throws up when he understands the gravity of the atrocity he had committed. I am sorry, I won't bring this reference again, but just saying that this might redeem him in my eyes by about 5%. But we know that they won't let Abhi go down that path ever, it will be focused more on Pragya and her new found troubles yet again, her fresh heart-break, her having to answer him, her having to prove her so called " wafadaari" to him😡💔
I know I have been advised in the past that the actors/producers and directors don't have to subject themselves to a thing called " social responsibility" and they are in this for business and making money and supporting hundreds of people working for them and that if we don't find something palatable, we can just flip the channel and move on. I unequivocally reject this from my perspective. When content like this is being shown with flair, where a woman's ( or even a man's for that matter ) modesty is being attacked, which can affect tens of thousands of people, some sensitive, some naive, some unscrupulous, I feel it is absolutely a responsibility of every individual involved to condemn this. I also do not believe in the notion that this is taken as interference in direction or story telling or that there will always be others that will take up the job if we reject. It has to start somewhere. Please don't tell me that it is up the audience only whether to reject or accept content like this. I don't have to look further than myself in order to make this point. There are many people that come to see me, at least 80% trust me completely with their health and are very vulnerable when they come to see me. If my institution tells me to do something that is not evidence based which might increase their bottom line, should I comply? I would never cross that line as it just kills my integrity, the trust placed in me and me as a person. The hapless people may never know, but what about me? The same way when I am giving my opinions in how certain things are done in the working of my institution, I am not interfering, I am contributing my ideas to how to do it better because I AM THE FACE OF THAT INSTITUTION. I am so sad that our actors never put their foot down. If such regression, or idea of being vile and getting away with anything and living comfortably, being fair and kind is a weakness that gets beaten down incessantly is taken to heart by even one naive mind or one unscrupulous mind and acts on it, that is just one too many😭
I am sorry, Ambica, I got carried away and went into something else. I don't think my heartburn is going away anytime soon😭 Like you, this time around, I want the choice of moving on /walking out on him is hers and not his wish, his decision, his fancy😡💔👎🏼. I know I will never get this, but the makers would earn a lot of respect from me if they do this.
Edited by mili9 - 7 years ago