A new definition for consummation

Fantasia.

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Posted: 7 years ago

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So yesterday #IshqSubhanAllah was beautiful on another level ! The eyelock, the hand entwining, the trust, the love .. and most importantly .. a husband and wife CAN consummate before being head over heels in love or without being drunk !!

You can want to consummate your marriage without being in love .. because your husband has won your heart .. ❤️

Since ages we have seen people consummate either because they are completely head over heels in love or either being drunk .. i have not seen two people submitting to thier physical attraction or taking levrage of the permission thier relationship to consummate. Physical realtionship is just a part of marriage, it doesnt always have to be the culmination of every emotion .. and ISA has managed to portray it SOOO beautifully .. real marriage is trusting each other, accepting each other .. not sleeping with each other .. consummation doesnt always have to be the last step ..

yeah i know they havent done it yet 😳 .. but the wish Zara had was soo beautiful .. I am awe with these two beautiful souls .. 😳 ..

Kabeer has my heart for that smile, he didnt step forward on her first signal .. he waited until she made another move and until his silence will embarrass her .. and he holds her hand .. rather locks it .. so much said in that silent emotion .. ❤️

*running to watch the episode again* ...

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awida

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Nice post.

I agree this is very beautiful and realistic. in our countries arranged marriages are more than love ones. ppl don't need to fall in love before getting married. and consumation is a way to show your partner that you want to spend your life with him/her, and that no one will come between you. you trust each other , and you want to be a family.

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Yes yes... This happens in real life and in arranged marriage. Couple consummate without being in love. They showed it beautifully. It looked natural, old fashioned and beautiful.

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MsChanadlerBong

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Posted: 7 years ago

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No they didn't do it.

But thats true, you don't usually go crazy in love before cosummating the marriage. Its just part of the marriage. But this is a show and well serial mein aisa hi hota hai. 😆

That scene was beautiful btw.

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Ammy

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Posted: 7 years ago

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In arranged marriages people don't wait to consummate till they crazily love each other but they don't do it on the first day of accepting each other too, yesterday it was their first touch of love. If the show is too conservative they can atleast show a forehead/cheek kiss and then dim off the lights, we ITV audience would understand.

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Let's mention the scene where Kabeer asks Zara Kya keh rahi thi Reema.. And she goes like "Tumhe batane Wali baat nahi hai!". And that goofy look on his face. Haha

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Fantasia.

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Originally posted by: awida
Nice post.
I agree this is very beautiful and realistic. in our countries arranged marriages are more than love ones. ppl don't need to fall in love before getting married. and consumation is a way to show your partner that you want to spend your life with him/her, and that no one will come between you. you trust each other , and you want to be a family.

Very nicely said, consummation is just a part of marriage which is MUCH MUCH more than just sleeping with each other , rather life is much more than just sex, but sadly everyone just revolves around this one phenonomana .. .. its just another gesture to show your partner you are in this ! 😳

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Fantasia.

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Originally posted by: crispsy
Yes yes... This happens in real life and in arranged marriage. Couple consummate without being in love. They showed it beautifully. It looked natural, old fashioned and beautiful.

yes so old school yet so natural .. our region has millions of arrange marriages and 90% of couples i guess go through the phases zabeer are going through ! ❤️

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Fantasia.

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Originally posted by: MsChanadlerBong
No they didn't do it.
But thats true, you don't usually go crazy in love before cosummating the marriage. Its just part of the marriage. But this is a show and well serial mein aisa hi hota hai. 😆
That scene was beautiful btw.

hahah yeah i know they didnt do it . but the fact that Zara wanted too was soo beautifully shown .. and yeah serials main tu ik hand holding ka month ka buildup hota hai 🤣 ..

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Fantasia.

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Originally posted by: --Amulya--
In arranged marriages people don't wait to consummate till they crazily love each other but they don't do it on the first day of accepting each other too, yesterday it was their first touch of love. If the show is too conservative they can atleast show a forehead/cheek kiss and then dim off the lights, we ITV audience would understand.

They havent shown a kiss bcz tey havent consummated yet .. they show a kiss when they consummate .. or a cheek kiss bfr that .. from zara to kabeer .. 😳 .. okay i will stop the imagination now 😳

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A new definition for consummation - THANK YOU ISA!!

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