Q for women; can you feel Kas’s horror

Hi Girls and Ladies......

Firstly I want to thank Mimi0295 for a very thoughtful and compassionate post titled "I Feel Bad for KC" 👏...very good job Mimi...👏

That post also made me think.....and think from a purely woman's merspective....Personally I feel Kasturi should get a taste of her own medicine...for she has done irreparable damage to Robbie and her own family and genuine.

But in all this have we not realised the worst horror Kasturi faced as a woman.

At the start of this serial, many people, including Kasturi spat on and riducled Robbie for being a casanova...But since he fell in love with her ....not once...not even once did Robbie thrust himself upon her or physically abuse her or exploit her....he was very dignified insofar as his physical need was concerned👏. Even after their marriage Robbie never imposed himself on her and even the fake consummation was making use of his drunk and inebriated state.

Even for the short time she was with Girish...never did Girish touch or abuse her physically.👏

But Raunak under the garb of being the bechara samajhdhar husband..got close to her and finally even did the 10 minute thingy on that rainy night with her🤢.....(Beagle, Anjali and Shara I hope, really hope you are reading this)....At that time we felt jaane do he is her husband so they are consummating.

But now that the truth is out.....I am horrified at what Kasturi must be going through as a woman😭.....is this not called deliberately sexually exploiting a person...Yuckkkkkk🤢

They showed some of these RaKa physical scenes yesterday and Kasturi's anguish at remembering them.

So now at least in this respect, as a woman, and one of you girls and ladies who cherishes the privacy and dignity of our physicality, I am really sorry and feel bad for Kasturi's horror at realising she was abused physically by Raunak.😭

Really feel bad for her in this respect.😭

Would love to have your views. Thanks

JW

hii! thanks so much for the credit :)
I'm so glad that somebody understood what I was trying to say.

It's digusting. Raunak has totally gone from my favourite character to just plain 🤢

I hope that something like this never happens to a human being in reality.

Cheers!

-- Mimi

@Mimi

Dear you receive every bit of the credit 👏 😳 ...In our usual trait of looking at the jodis and the male hunks we forgot the horror a woman faced in this show.

Thanks for drawing our attention....am proud of you. 😳

dear jw--
if i were in her place i would be mad with anger not crying like a baby whose heart hurt by teachers scoldings..i give a big slaps left, right and front..no matter howmuch strong he is but i defenately show my stenght of physic and must not forget to mention pull him out to court without giving useless bhashans.. 😡
i told in my one of posts yesterday...i felt bad for kasturi buddy ..i swear..even a few tears came from my eyes..they r on the name of kasturi for the first time..always my eyes fills with tears for Robby and his pain in love..first time i felt bad fo kastu state yesterday..as a woman i must need those secibilities in life..otherwise go and dip in water..
and coming to the physical abuse RA did..haaaaaaaa don't ask..as a woman and having some sentiments of life..i never forget those things in my life..no wonder if i remember then even after my death.. 🤢 ..
irritation numebr 1 😡

yeah..... iit was cringe worthy..after having pretty much hated kastu for the past few months, yesterday i felt i li bit sorry for her..
but a thought just came to me... does the fact the kast was a pawn( ppl may argue,an unwilling pawn..but i dont think so)absolve her ?even as a girl, i just dont think so..

@JW of course i can see as a wife that she has been abused both physically and mentally, her husband ronauk knowingly deliberately used her in the most crudest way possible..But does that absolve her of her sins that she partook in willingly? absolutely not.. and i think if anything kasturi has been taught the valuable lesson treat others as you'd have done to you...can i forget that after kasturi married ronauk that she flaunted her marriage in robbie's face day in and day out? fully knowing how robbie was dying inside?

Can i forget how kasturi said woh diyaa joi sub keliyha jaaltah hain baanah bohut mushkil hain. can i forget that she said she didnt want a rockstar's luv but a normal mans luv... what was all that? oooh and my fav. was when she said that robbie sooncha to phir sirf aapne baareh main sooncha...well now since the shoe fits kasturi wear it and suffer... sorry JW if i'm coming across as harsh but kasturi isnt getting any sympathy from me..

and why do i say kasturi wasnt abused by ronauk cause her consummation was consensual and btw two adults and she enjoyed it, hell she ran straight to robbie to rub it in his face after wards. i was soo disgusted with her that day, that she used her consumations with ronuak as a bloody show off medal of their declaration of luv..

okay i think i've said too much sorry...

robziii

Originally posted by: nrasheed

@JW of course i can see as a wife that she has been abused both physically and mentally, her husband ronauk knowingly deliberately used her in the most crudest way possible..But does that absolve her of her sins that she partook in willingly? absolutely not.. and i think if anything kasturi has been taught the valuable lesson treat others as you'd have done to you...can i forget that after kasturi married ronauk that she flaunted her marriage in robbie's face day in and day out? fully knowing how robbie was dying inside?

Can i forget how kasturi said woh diyaa joi sub keliyha jaaltah hain baanah bohut mushkil hain. can i forget that she said she didnt want a rockstar's luv but a normal mans luv... what was all that? oooh and my fav. was when she said that robbie sooncha to phir sirf aapne baareh main sooncha...well now since the shoe fits kasturi wear it and suffer... sorry JW if i'm coming across as harsh but kasturi isnt getting any sympathy from me..

and why do i say kasturi wasnt abused by ronauk cause her consummation was consensual and btw two adults and she enjoyed it, hell she ran straight to robbie to rub it in his face after wards. i was soo disgusted with her that day, that she used her consumations with ronuak as a bloody show off medal of their declaration of luv..

okay i think i've said too much sorry...

robziii

no way!!u have said the exact things i was thinking but couldnt write(im not very eloquent)...well said...👏

i really REALLY feel bad for her...i know that shes in the wrong for hurting robbie and what not...well, actually i have mixed thoughts about that b'cuz he didnt leave kasturi alsone when she was married but thats another story...anyway, i feel bad for her b'cuz she felt that she could trust raunak...and now, that trust is gone and her faith in marriage, etc is all gone. as a woman, i think that must be the hardest thing a girl can face.

i think that kasturi is a victim of circumstance. wherever she does, bad things follow. while she was w/ raunak, robbie didnt leave her alone. and now that everything is gone, her past has come back to haunt her. we shouldnt be slinging mud at her and being happy that she got what was coming to her and all that...we should be empathizing with her...

Originally posted by: brownbutt

i really REALLY feel bad for her...i know that shes in the wrong for hurting robbie and what not...well, actually i have mixed thoughts about that b'cuz he didnt leave kasturi alsone when she was married but thats another story...anyway, i feel bad for her b'cuz she felt that she could trust raunak...and now, that trust is gone and her faith in marriage, etc is all gone. as a woman, i think that must be the hardest thing a girl can face.

i think that kasturi is a victim of circumstance. wherever she does, bad things follow. while she was w/ raunak, robbie didnt leave her alone. and now that everything is gone, her past has come back to haunt her. we shouldnt be slinging mud at her and being happy that she got what was coming to her and all that...we should be empathizing with her...

sorry i'm not slinging mud on her i stated facts.. if i just said that ohh kasturi is a bimbo and she got what she deserved then yes i agree that would be slinging mud at her...

furthermore i think that when one holds themselve up in such a holier then thou attitude then you better be as pure as the undriven snow. and kasturi was never that, but she always goes around with this attitude that what she does is right never wrong....

and seriously why do you feel sorry for her? she was happy being married to ronauk, she luved rescuing him and taking charge...luved telling robbie off at the drop of a hat, (yes robbie deserved what he got too) so for me everyone should learn that life has a rude way of biting you in the butt when you least expect it...and thats exactly what happened here😆

just my pov..sorry if i upseted anyone..

robina

@jw: Great post, as a woman yes i am disgusted that she had to go thro this.
I do feel bad for her, but then i read robina's post and have to agree with her.

Yes i do feel sad for her, no body deserved that but did raunak force himself on her, till that point NO. Which was one thing i have to give it to raunak, he never demanded or made her guilty but may be like a cunning fox bid his time. Maybe he did fool her in the end but like robina said it was consensual, so there.

Shwetha