SAMEER does not DESERVE Naina after today's episode

Originally posted by: truptishree

Hi

I completely disagree with you.

Why he doesn't deserve her?

Just because we saw him with those magazines and on bike with those boys who were Eve teasing.

But for once have you seen him doing that?

No ,first time he completely opposed them,I know now he is just being mute spectator of teasing which is bad. I am myself not able to digest this fact how can he keep quiet about it?

Sameer is not like this,he never was. He always respected girls no matter what.

Whatever he is doing now I know it's bad but for one thing I am glad that he himself is not teasing those girls.

About magazines,can you please clarify is it really bad to read those magazines?

Then what about mature men who watch adult movies,does it mean they don't love their wives?

One thing is sure men will be men we can't change that.

Despite all these things how they behave with women that matters the most.

I have seen some of my male friends also did those things when they were in their adolescence years,

but now if you see them you will not even believe that they did those things.

Basically it's a part of growing process,you make mistakes,you learn from those and take a better hold of your life that matters the most in the end.

Today I can proudly say that they are my friends whom I love and respect which they also have for me.

As for Sameer he is also in his adolescence years going through emotional,physical and hormonal changes and boys do have these kind of curiosity when it comes to opposite gender.

Why only boys we girls also have this curiosity right?

Remember when Pooja came back how Naina and Preeti asked her about first night?

It's natural for all.

Just by those magazines and being with those boys doesn't define his character.

He is much more than that it's just right now he is blinded by all those things which he thinks it's cool but it's not. I do want him to repent big time,he totally deserves that but you can't say that he doesn't deserve Naina,he loves her so much that's the reason he is not sharing his pain and sufferings with her.

If you look from earlier time he is like that ,he never shared his problems with anyone,he just keeps everything in him and that's his biggest problem. Now Nanu is also not there to guide him ,no friends,no Naina no wonder he is falling in pits.

But if you really ask me I don't want Naina to guide him this time,she can be his support system through letters and phone calls. I want Vishakha to take rein of his life in her hands and guide him through this bad phase of his life I don't even mind if Somani also joins her. Poor kid desperately needs help. This is the high time for Vishakha to take that responsibility of being a parent and set him straight by hook or by crook. So she can fulfill the promise she made to Nanu and make him Sameer Jaiprakash Maheshwari,the way her father wanted.

This is just my POV.

Sorry if I offended you.

Originally posted by: Samainadeewani

I completely agree with your each and every word ..

Almost every teenager goes through from such a phase and here Sameer is a lost and lonely kid who don't have anybody to share his feelings and guide him ...

This is just a phase of life ..he'll learn from it and surely will again become the innocent full of love Sameer Maheshwari who will have a better approach towards life ..

Regarding that magazine thing ..guys he is a teenager ...

In that phase of life people have certain kind of curiosity ..

Don't we all have few things in mind ...

Don't we all get fascinated towards these things ..and read which is actually not appropriate for our age !!

He still loves Naina like anything but the only difference is he is lost ...he needs that hold , support and a realty check to get back to his older self

Have patience and trust on CVS and samaina's shadi vala pyar