Why are we so reactive?

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Sonal

@vamanali

Explorer

Posted: 7 years ago

Hello friends,

For the last couple of days there have been so many highs and lows on the forum. What I noticed when reading the posts was that as audience we are so reactive!

At first, when Aditya took the phone, everybody wondered if he will use it to trouble zoya more, though there was genuine concern on his face when he got to know how she had been saved just few minutes.. It turned out to be a different case, in fact the exact opposite happened

Later, when there came a promo of the garlands, forum wasis speculated that marriage is on cards, and a lot of posts of how this is good/not so good came in.. Again the scene turned out to be different in the actual serial..

And today's spoiler of Arjun and Pooja having an affair.. Which I am sure will not be true..

I personally feel that the story is moving at a good pace and the cv's have been pretty logical in how it is progressing..

I just feel that we should give them time to answer all the different questions that have been Stratificatory placed and let unanswered.. Let's have some faith in them that they will tie up the lose knots : oversized ring of Zoya, the dent is her father's car, Mr. Hoodas interest in Pooja's diary and the nurses incomplete statement..

I am sure that we can do that much for the writers who have written a gripping story and the amazingly talented actors who are portraying their characters so well

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Tejabepannah

@Tejabepannah

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Posted: 7 years ago

U r right and harshad will save the show anyways.

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geet0910

@geet0910

Rocker

Posted: 7 years ago

watever its good to b reactive for increasing forum activity.. atleast we r topping in IF ranking😆 so its good if we r super reactive..

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farnaz22

@farnaz22

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Posted: 7 years ago

Exactly my thoughts.very impatient forumwasis😭.

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Sonya

@Ianoconic

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Posted: 7 years ago

That's why we are here on this forum to connect, react and discuss our views. If we would have just wanted to wait for story to unfold no one would have bothered coming on forum.

And no one is killing anyone here. With posts we share our views and understand others' view as well. Its a form of healthy discussion as no harm is coming to anyone with it, right?

We love the show so its quite natural that we will scrutinize it closely and may reach to hurried conclusions which may turn wrong may be most of the times but then what's the harm in that? No one is sending mails containing death threats to actors or CVs are we are lot better than those folks.

Like with your post you shared your view with this post I am sharing my views, everyone here do the same thing. Everyone is free to feel and say whatever they want to till the time no actual harm is being done.

P.s-I guess you are realizing with your post you also reacted to all the reactions.

Edited by Ianoconic. - 7 years ago

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Vidu

@V4o9

Voyager

Posted: 7 years ago

You know what? I agree with you on the reactive posts and the numerous I don't like this, I don't like that, this sucks, that stinks comments. I get that everybody is entitled to their opinions (I gave mine as well) but I realized that reading and reacting to negativity is making me not enjoy the show.

The show started off with an extremely promising note. We really enjoyed the first week mainly because there was so much positivity around it. Even though Week 3 was way better than Week 1, I did not enjoy it as much as I did in Week 1. If you look at Week 2 and 3, we have been jumping to conclusions, and then doing blame game on what's going wrong which leads to a lot of negativity. It drains a lot of energy to have to explain why my POV is different as well.

There are far less good shows that I have enjoyed in the past few years because I remained away with all the reviews and speculations on if it is terrible/good etc. This being such a strong script and the best lead pair I know on TV, I should give them more than a chance to entertain us the way I know they can.

I do love to write though. So I am going to stick with just fun posts, updates/news on the show to keep my sanity and to enjoy the show like I did in Week 1. No responses or counter comments from my end on anyone's opinion from now on. Not even going to open posts on opinions/reviews. Damn the TRPs and any other shit! I am going to be one happy viewer!

Edited by V4o9 - 7 years ago

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Sonya

@Ianoconic

Stunner

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Posted: 7 years ago

Originally posted by: V4o9
You know what? I agree with you on the reactive posts and the numerous I don't like this, I don't like that, this sucks, that stinks comments. I get that everybody is entitled to their opinions (I gave mine as well) but I realized that reading and reacting to negativity is making me not enjoy the show.

The show started off with an extremely promising note. We really enjoyed the first week mainly because there was so much positivity around it. Even though Week 3 was way better than Week 1, I did not enjoy it as much as I did in Week 1. If you look at Week 2 and 3, we have been jumping to conclusions, and then doing blame game on what's going wrong which leads to a lot of negativity. It drains a lot of energy to have to explain why my POV is different as well.

There are far less good shows that I have enjoyed in the past few years because I remained away with all the reviews and speculations on if it is terrible/good etc. This being such a strong script and the best lead pair I know on TV, I should give them more than a chance to entertain us the way I know they can.

I do love to write though. So I am going to stick with just fun posts, updates/news on the show to keep my sanity and to enjoy the show like I did in Week 1. No responses or counter comments form my end.

I don't see how the negativity around you effects when you are firm in your views and beliefs. It can impact you only when you are trying to make others accept and believe what you think and that's not happening.

May be the way you find other's view spreading negativity someone else might feel the same way for your views. If people who make fuss out of small things are wrong than making fuss about how people react is also wrong.

If you have problem you always have option to state your views and move on. What other's think can only impact you when you are not sure what you are thinking. You like the way show is moving good for you but may be there are people out there who are not happy with current track so they are sharing their views I don't see any harm here. Even most famous and good shows have audience who doesn't like everything about it. Bepanaah is not really the perfect show so no one expect it to be. But being the viewer everyone have right to share their views and this is a open forum. I have been active on many forums and so far I have not seen any kind of negativity that most of the forums have.

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Sonal

@vamanali

Explorer

Posted: 7 years ago

Its nice that there are so many people who want to discuss what is happening and how the show is progressing.. These discussions definitely contribute to the forum being active.. And yes, just the way, I put across my view everyone has the right to put across theirs..😊

Let me try to expain what I wanted to say.

The show is a love story with a lot of mystery to it. What we see today has already been shot last week. We can have our guesses as to how the story might go from the point. Eg. Looking at today's spoiler about Arjun being the person in Pooja's life.. There is a healthy discussion happening around this topic.. Which is good, but then the negative discussion that happens on the promos eg. The one where Aditya stood close to Zoya in the lift, or the discussion on his line of I Own you dialogue.. That kind of negative discussion could be the result of the show losing its viewers.. Now this is not the fault only of the audience, the team showing the promos also is responsible. However, as we know that the promos don't show the background story, we need to be patient before jumping into conclusions..

It takes longer for a positive thought to spread and negative thoughts spread like fire.

I don't know if this is true, but if the creative are really going through these different posts, our jumping to conclusions might make them change their story tracks to appeal the audience..

Hushh.. I have never spoken so much regarding a serial!! This is my first ever serial that I am hooked on to just because of the actors and the story.. The last serial that I watched with dedication was Dekha ek Khwab, for the character of Udayveer and years before that Kahin toh Hoga for character of Sujal ( I was much younger then, but Rajiv Khandelwal was my idol at that time.. I stopped watching both the serial's the day the tracks changed to crap mode..

This serial so close to bring the best ever and it would be heart wrenching to see it ruined..

So I would like to see what the creatives have in store and enjoy discussing the different possibilities, in a light way..

And of course drool over the handsomest (if that is even a word)Harshad!!

Edited by vamanali - 7 years ago

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Joy

@_Joy_

Rocker

+ 2

Posted: 7 years ago

Agreee... thats wht... n some reviews tend to influence us too!... n our pov of watching the show. Lets just not expect anythng n watch the show n give them a chance rather than pressurizing them.

N forum shd be filled with POSSITIVE reactions, discussions n views whch r good for both viewers n the show rather thn criticisms!!

The thng is... healthy discussions r good... but ovr reacting so much is not... till now I m enjoying being here.. interacting n its good... afterall our forum is at position 2... just that... ppl including me... shd be less judgemental n thats when we can truly enjoy the show!

Edited by luvurishbala - 7 years ago

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Tani

@Tani91

Stunner

+ 6

Posted: 7 years ago

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I think it's because we have so much expectations from the show. They have two really great actors and performers who happen to have amazing chemistry within them, and they're not being utilized properly due to poor characterizations. Also the onslaught of fake spoilers and irritation at Yash is causing a lot of the frustration too. However I do have to admit that a lot of the spoilers and assumptions turned out to be false which is quite good and I hope they maintain that.

As for the new spoiler - I still think it's a red herring spoiler, Bepannah came into the top 5 in its first week which is quite unheard of. But after that people really hides the show for being the typical office type stuff, Adi being a typical Gul hero and Zo being a total naieve bechari. I think that hampered a lot of people's initial excitement which also translated into declining ratings. And now the ratings have dropped to 1! From channel leader to now only in top 20, I think the CVs are probably panicking and with no media on sets they're putting out these random fake spoilers to have viewer interest in the show, even the cast has been going on their social media pages and asking the fans to watch the show on TV rather than online or Voot.

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