Distance--Fonder or Riskier?

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TereLiyeMINU

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Posted: 7 years ago

#21

Originally posted by: sanfan

Congratulations Rekha for turning GOLDIE.👏👏 Thanks for the in depth analysis.Yeah I dread at the open field of two trajectories.If separation is on way let them confess and sort it out before destiny divides them.😊

Edited by TereLiyeMINU - 7 years ago

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TereLiyeMINU

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Posted: 7 years ago

#22

Originally posted by: BlueJayFire
Amazing post Minu and the rest of you all...love reading your analysis.
I am 200% aligned in saying forgiving isnt accepting love. I have forgiven people but never totally were in the same circle again.

Thank you dear 😃 Forgiving most of the times; for me atleast ;is an act to be in peace of mind.Forgiving is a story and trusting the same person again is a totally different story altogether.

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TereLiyeMINU

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Posted: 7 years ago

#23

Originally posted by: DevPK
I don't know why I feel Sameer may go back to Nainital for few days. Accidentally I saw news of Color's show Dil Se Dil Tak where a long shoot is on in Nainital. DSDT is from same production house. You never know what happens.

I don't think he will go back to Nainital though your reason is quite logical and probable.They have a sorted track until shaadi so let's hope for best and be prepared to see the worst.😊

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TereLiyeMINU

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Posted: 7 years ago

#24

Originally posted by: BlueJayFire
Think Sam going to Nainital or Delhi is needed for some realization. But unlike these days, they dont have multiple ways of contact..Only phone call..I do remember where Sameer picks up the phone ..calls out Naina and cries..
Dont know if its my dream or I have seen it. LOL

Thats what I dread..The physical loss at this stage without sorting out is going to screw up everything.Without nil communication there is bound to be emptiness and loneliness.

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dixie123

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Posted: 7 years ago

#25

Lovely post Minu

I agree Sameer should not hover her all the time. Ever since he has realized his love he has not allowed her to have her own space. Everyday he has been doing something or the other. But, from his POV, he wants to make her happy from all the hurt he has given her. He won't stop till she is back to normal. I don't find him wrong at all. It is only now that Naina is in dilemma seeing all his efforts and this dilemma is all because of Sameer being around her all the time. Maybe now is the time for giving her some time to understand her feelings.

Actually, I would have liked forgiveness and then confession. Although Naina has forgiven him in her heart, she has still not forgiven him explictly. Forgive him explicitly and then take time to accept him back. Naina confessing and forgiving together is confusing. I guess for Naina's character it is hard, she won't forgive if she can't trust him.

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TereLiyeMINU

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Posted: 7 years ago

#26

Originally posted by: SammP
Lovely Post Minu!

I completely agree with you that future track is going to be separation which is hinted time and again.
But for me this distance is required. Though I believe should not come as punishment but should come from Sameer for Naina as he wants to see her happy and if his going away can make her happy then let this BE.
Distance can work as fonder only when both of them are equally in LOVE. If, for any chance one of them is falling short then it may result in forgetting.
In this scenario, we can very well see that both are equally in LOVE with each other so this small time separation should work for their relationship to be strong.

Separation is for sure is coming ahead but should not last for long like they need LEAP. Should be only & only for few days to Realize Naina that she can't live without loving & seeing him.

Thanks Savy 😃 Yeah the CVs would definitely show the ''space-time ''thing by back packing Sam to Delhi.@Bold:That's my point.👍🏼

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TereLiyeMINU

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Posted: 7 years ago

#27

Originally posted by: dixie123
Lovely post Minu
I agree Sameer should not hover her all the time. Ever since he has realized his love he has not allowed her to have her own space. Everyday he has been doing something or the other. But, from his POV, he wants to make her happy from all the hurt he has given her. He won't stop till she is back to normal. I don't find him wrong at all. It is only now that Naina is in dilemma seeing all his efforts and this dilemma is all because of Sameer being around her all the time. Maybe now is the time for giving her some time to understand her feelings.

Actually, I would have liked forgiveness and then confession. Although Naina has forgiven him in her heart, she has still not forgiven him explictly. Forgive him explicitly and then take time to accept him back. Naina confessing and forgiving together is confusing. I guess for Naina's character it is hard, she won't forgive if she can't trust him.

Thanks Nivi.😃 Completely agree with your views on Sameer's relentless pursuing of her.@Bold: Perfect.👍🏼

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KashafZaroon30

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Posted: 7 years ago

#28

Beautiful Post Minu...Wanted to do a long comment on this post..but couldn't find some free time earlier...

Distance is a scary word. Distance can make 2 people complete strangers or it can start a new chapter in their love-life...

But if you ask me on a personal note, I'm always pretty scared with the fact of two people distancing themselves and not seeing physically...to put it in better words Long-Distance Relations scare me...As explained by you, the person is not in front of us...we don't know whether he is missing us or getting along with his life...Same can happen to us...we can miss them, but there are chances we can forget them and get along with other people...

But what about the distance generated between two people who are right in front of each other everyday...they see each other everyday but still they are distanced from each other...

In any case for Sameer-Naina, as they are in the tender age of teens, distance of any form is scary...whether be it a long-distance (like two different cities) or whether seeing each other but still maintaining a distance from each other...both can be painful...

But a long-distance one, it might make them forget each other after few days of pining...then what will happen? They will get along with other people as they will move ahead...and moving ahead usually is a bit easier in teens than in adulthood (though not always).

But right now maintaining some distance from Naina, for some days might give her a chance to clear her head...Currently Sameer is kind of in front of her all day and also kind of being a bit pushy also...May be she needs distance in the form of time to think about her state of mind...Too much of proximity and closeness can also be harmful for a relationship in the long run...

Edited by KashafZaroon30 - 7 years ago