'Enabler Over Protector'

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Posted: 7 years ago
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"They say a known enemy is better than an unknown friend. "

Zoya never really knew Yash, not the way she knows and understands adi...even though she shares far different relationships with both guys. Yash never allowed himself to be known, to be seen. He stayed in the shadows for whatever reasons. For someone who is claimed to be the best thing that ever happened to Zoya , he sure kept a lot of secrets and no it cannot be all to protect her.

Then there is Adi, he was exact opposite of what Yash was. he kept nothing hidden. he kept no secrets, and expected that Pooja does the same. Even today with Zoya he won't coddle her , he won't tell her he will protect her, he won't act holier than thou under any circumstances...

But look at how Zoya can get under his skin. Zoya can see the goodness in him that even he can't see.



There is this thing about protection, it reduces the credibility of one being protected to nothing.

Zoya with Yash was a doll, a pretty pampered doll...with Adi she will be human...Flawed, capable, independent human


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Though I feel there is simply no comparison between Adi and that yash... I prefer him as a lowly moron who is no match to Adi's class... Just that this was needed just to shut the mouth of few who are raging over aditya after yesterday's epi...

Feel free to post ur views...bashes😆
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Agree Vandy. I will take Adi over Yash any day. The fighting and angst adds spice to a relationship. Imagine once they fall in love in future, the make up scene after a fight would be so sexy!
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: romancefan

Agree Vandy. I will take Adi over Yash any day. The fighting and angst adds spice to a relationship. Imagine once they fall in love in future, the make up scene after a fight would be so sexy!


its not just about adding spice... its abt having that trust and faith in each other
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Posted: 7 years ago
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All respect to your views , coz we can always learn from one another and everyone has a different opinion
Nobody is raging over Aditya just like that, becoz we want to...NO !!!
I for one will choose Aditya any time over Yash, not becoz he has cheated Zoya, becoz that is NOT proven yet by anyone, but simply becoz Aditya is open...he does not like to keep secrets and he expects the same from others. And I like ppl who are straight forward...at least with such ppl you know where you stand and there won't be backstabbing.

The only reason for getting mad at Aditya is the way he behaves with Zoya...and I am talking abt his physical actions here.
He wants to destroy Zoya...FOR WHAT REASON ????
Ok his actions are to destroy whatever reminds him of Yash...fine, but why should he get physical with Zoya or why does he invade her personal space all the time ????
Tht is NOT right !!!

Even if Aditya is going through so much pain and hurt, it does NOT give him the right to push and pull Zoya whenever it pleases him
That is the problem I at least have with Aditya

Ok lets say the theory of both cheating is true than :

1)If Aditya is hurting, Zoya is too
2) If Aditya lost his wife, Zoya lost her husband
3) If YASH had an affair, POOJA had too
4)If Zoya could not keep Yash happy, Aditya could not keep Pooja happy either

The ONLY difference in this situation is :
Aditya prefers to believe his wife cheated , Zoya prefers to believe her husband did not

So wanting to destroy Zoya, becoz she reminds him of Yash which reminds him of him having an affair with Pooja...I cannot quite understand

So maybe when it turns out tht Yash indeed cheated, maybe we should get a role reversal of Zoya wanting revenge from Aditya, becoz Aditya reminds her of Pooja who had an affair with her husband Yash


PS This long post is in reply to your PS 😆😆
For the rest above I agree with you more or less 😆😆
Edited by eshasrk - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree more with your p.s ;)

Theres no comparision between adi and yash and its not just because one is hc while other is...


Its because the two cant be put in a same sentence together let alone imagine one for other. Still pissed at zoya about it

On one hand there is a guy who loves his wife so much that he gives her 5 crore without question. On other hand there is this guy who is living god knows how many lives without his wifes knowledge.

Id rather know and be with my hubby in his troubles than have a hubby who coddles me so much that i dont know anything about him. Ill buy a life size teddy bear if i wanna cuddle and see something smile at me. Will be much more pleasant to look at than yash. Cause i dont see him good for anything other than that
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I don't know what n how Yash was, but from Zoya's flashbacks he does look like a good person or as in everybody Zo saw only good things in him.
Either way the love Zoya has for Yash is so supreme dt even after his death, she gathers strength merely by thinking abt him. Such love is unfindable which makes Zoya immensely lovable to me. I donno how d cv's r gonna make Zoya fall in love with Adi, it looks so difficult.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Thank you! People were getting under MY SKIN yesterday because they cannot take a fictional character manhandle the lead female. Even though all agreed it was wrong violent behavior, the rant went on and on how they cannot understand a misplaced anger and how he should not be hurting her. Phir story kaise banegi? What would they prefer? A vanilla love story? Nooo way!!!

The story is ALL about flaws and how they realize that! So if they are showing characters as flawed is that even a big deal? She shouldnt cry, he shouldn't get angry and Yash jaap is acceptable because she has the right etc etc and no one should talk about her IQ level. Geez!!

No one is perfect! And you overcome your imperfections by learning from your mistakes. In the end, the universe does give you what you really need.

This is the story, like it or not! Bas!

Once she realizes Yash's real worth, I would love for Adi to do Yash jaap to tease her and see how she likes it. Free world hai. Kuch bhi ho sakta hai 😆

Totally on board with you! Loved the post!
Edited by V4o9 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I guess one more month we need to go through this torture Di
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Posted: 7 years ago
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This is such a beautiful post, omg. And yes, I have to agree that Zoya and Adi's dynamic gives them a lot more room to develop an understanding. With Yash, it seemd like infatuation. That rush of love that you have for someone, the one that dies eventually. With Adi, she's going through all these experiences that she never had with Yash. From what we have seen, their relationship wasn't layered enough. It was one person dependant on the other.
Here, Zoya and Aditya are not only finding themselves and maturing, their also accepting one another slowly. And I live for this kind of angsty, slow burn romance. I love AdiYa ❤️
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: -vandy-



Zoya with Yash was a doll, a pretty pampered doll...with Adi she will be human...Flawed, capable, independent human



THIS! 👏

Zoya as Yash's wife was naive, coddled and pampered in a world that wasn't meant for her. She was hidden away in the mountains, far from his reality in Mumbai. She was given gifts and tokens of affection to keep her thriving, but she never walked in life matching every one of Yash's movements. She was not his equal.

Zoya on her own, Zoya in the presence of Aditya, is a spitfire. She is naive yes, at times ridiculously so, but she can be resourceful. She is honest and transparent. She does not allow the world to take her for granted and she bites when she needs too. With Aditya she is wholly more human. She feels and she fights and she moves forward. She is not hidden away, she's now right in the centre of the storm. With Yash she was a sidekick to his story, but now she's the starring role of her own and slowly of Aditya's.

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