My view on Mondays episode

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Amita10

@Amita10

Voyager

Posted: 7 years ago

Helloo, Friends

I saw spoiler pictures of Sameer smoking, playing cards, fighting etc. The way it looks like is that Sameer is having fun rather than bad habits. He feels lonely in that city and top off that his so-called family is not with him, including his own mother. So hope his actions opens vishaka's eyes soon. I hope she realizes her mistake and neglect toward Sameer. I believe that your child should be the priortiy. I am a single mother of two boys, and I am raising them alone but when it comes to my boys, they are my priority and will always be my priority. I would never neglect my childern for anything. I am also learning from this show that what kids go through as they grow up and what as a parent i have to look out for. My kids are still young but later they will be the age of Sameer so I am learnging to avoid this situations in real life.

To the viewers of this show, I think he will not go to jail and if he does then he will realize his mistake, hope his stepfather doesn't take it too far or kick him out of the house. Sameer has a better choice and that choice is that he can go to school then college and then take care of his Nanu's business.

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toshibelekar

@toshibelekar

Dazzler

+ 2

Posted: 7 years ago

Sameer needs a lesson this time. Self realization of his mistakes.

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WeRockTheWorld

@WeRockTheWorld

Sparkler

+ 6

Posted: 7 years ago

Agreed , Vishaka as mom should rise. A mother needn't hide her emotions for her child in fact she has to be open about it. One thing about Vishaka is her habit of loving Rohan openly and Sameer when no one is around. This is why when Rohan saw Sameer being fed he felt bad...When you have two or more kids you should handle them together make them understand that she loves all three of them not just with words but in action also.

Never compare your kids with each other because they will be different ...some are highly energetic in nature , then some will be absolute lazy couch potatoes.. 😆 and some will be moody...so accordingly you will have to handle them so that as they grow up they have a balanced behavior...here Rohan is a Machine, Sameer is highly energetic , where as Deepika is somewhere in between.

Kids like Sameer needs to be kept occupied and kids like Rohan should be pushed out into the world to interact with people and allow him to take decisions of his own...

What ever said and done there is one thing a mother has to do with all her kids...is to talk ...to spend time with all of them together...not separately...if you have one child its ok...but when you have more children...all should sit together and talk about the day...what they did at school..about their friends...their discussion..likes dislikes etc...During these discussion you will get a lot of insight into their life and needs...if there is something that needs to be correct ...tell them what you think is the right way ...but never be harsh or taunt them in front of all...if you think it has to be taken up separately, don't hesitate...do speak separately and have logical discussion about the topic...This group approach will help the younger ones to learn the dos and donts early...and the elder ones will feel responsible for the younger ones and their own behavior..

and to top it all ...once in a while allow your kids to invite their friends home...so that you know who they interact with ...and their friends( both girls and boys ) will also not go overboard with naughty acts as they know you and will be a lil hesitant to do nasty mischiefs...

You don't see this at Somani house...Vishaka has no place at Somani house , she is more like governess for the kids...rules are made by Dhadhi...and everyone wants to please her...I personally think Rohan does that to please Dhadhi , we will only know what Rohan is when he is left free with no one to monitor... 😉