Zoya-terrible wife or not?

Zoya loved him, and in her heart, she knew that Yash loved her just as deeply. She was so caught up in the cute girlfriend/lover phase, that she never took on the role of a wife, although it was unintended. But Yash, he let her be that lover, for what reason no one knows.

Of course, this is how I interpret their relationship.

If she can believe Mahi, then he also could have fooled her. I see your pov. But I think if you cant share whats going on, dont expect spouse to read your mind. Cheating was no answer to any of his troubles, if thats what he did.

all this is firmly based on the fact that he did cheat. But even if he didn't, I strongly believe that *he* was at fault. Zoya only knew what he showed her, what he told her, and he hid the truth, or at least some important details of his life. Cheater or not, Yash wasn't a good husband, and he exploited Zoya's innocence.

That could be possible. But again I don't understand.

So one thing is that, may be Yash deliberately let her in live in her la-la land and never shared anything with her. He never told her anything about his work or choices. But I don't see why he would choose to do that especially since the marriage wasn't forced upon him. He fought for Zoya so much that he went against his family's wishes just to hide his life from her. Without even trying to fix his marriage, why would he go straight away for extramarital affair (If indeed it was an extramarital affair, may be it wasn't). Why would he waste so much time and money on Zoya and getting nothing in return ? Nobody was forcing him to stay in marriage, neither his family nor Zoya's family apart from Zoya ofcourse but since she is too naive, he could have easily gotten around her.😆 May be his concern was alimony. 😆 Don't know lol.

Besides, food choices generally do not remain hidden unless you are hell bent on living an artificial life. I mean, I know what my flatmate likes and dislikes for food 😆 and I see him 2-3 times a week lol. It is kinda hard to believe Zoya doesn't know anything after living with him for so many years under the same roof.

So this is what I can't wrap my head around.Not only has zoya not lived the difficult life of the outside world but her household life seems to have been really easy because of her unbelievably accomodating husband too.

Harshad does a good job with aditya, I haven't followed much of his past characters but seems like he hasn't done something like aditya before.Prem was the ideal son,ali was sweet and peaceful and while sahir too had layers and complexities and perhaps twistedness to him it wasn't supported by humour like it is in aditya's case.

From d flashbacks it looks like both Yash n Zoya loved each other a lot. Zoya almost told everythn to Yash, whereas Yash never shared much, Zoya shud hv asked, but thr r some ppl who don't like to share, may be Zoya thot so same abt him. It is not like if Yash wud hv told abt his likes dislikes n abt his present condition, Zoya wud hv ignored him. She wud hv definitely made effort, but koi bataye tho sahi.

Knowing cinevistas, on one side dy will give us beautiful flashbacks n on other side dy wud show he cheated n wudn't even give us proper answers as to why, it is left to our imagination.

I am just using that thing as an example, like I can understand if one doesn't know a particular dish. The point I think I am making is that she did not have anything to say to about his food choices. May be I am reading too much.

Even my closest friends here in US and in India would not know about some specific things I like because they don't care and even if i told them , they would forget them next day. But that's how friends are. May be I am wrong, but as a spouse I would expect greater consideration for these things.

Ofcourse this isn't a big deal but this combined with the fact that she had no idea about his company's financial condition, seems unbelievable to me. Unless ofcourse he deliberately hid everything but then why would he do that ?