Posted:
I think Ratan's reaction to his marriage has 2 extremes. Considering his age, he doesn't know how to handle his marriage. Initially, he did everything to reject his marriage. When he realised how immaturely and insensitively he was acting and accepted his marriage, he's doing everything to be a perfect husband by following a manual, resulting in the somewhat insincere sindoor scene yesterday. I call it somewhat insincere due to the mixed feelings about his action. He did that to make Diya happy and be a perfect husband. But he did it without understanding what it meant to Diya and his marriage.
I think it's all about moderation. Prioritising your partner's likes, dislikes and wishes but not totally compromising your own. He'll learn that soon as his characterisation and marriage progresses and he becomes more mature. Ratan can't automatically become a 'perfect husband' from someone who doesn't fully understand what a marriage is and what it constitutes.
What do you all think?
Jhanak
Shiv Shakti
