Why Milsi could not forgive Ayesha

Statutory Warning: This is a very long post. Read it only if you are patient enough to do so.

Milsi has always been shown to forgive Ayesha no matter what she had done to him. Granted he was angry with her for marrying Neev. He even went to the extent of marrying Prachi (whom he hardly knew and whose family he despised) only to get back at her. But he soon forgot his revenge and treated her as his friend, allowing her to speak her mind to him, which most of the times was to try and poison him against Prachi.

Even after he fell in love with Prachi, he did not shun her. On the other hand, whenever she tried to harm Prachi like leaving her behind at the picnic spot or hitting her with the dandiya stick or accusing Prachi publicly of being Ritwik's mother, although he reproached her with his words or look, he was quick to point out that she will always be his friend. He even bore the humiliation of being slapped by her in public although he refrained her from lashing out at his wife.

While he never allowed her any privileges beyond that of a friend even when Prachi and he were going through marital strain because of the baby raaz and Ayesha tried her level best to take advantage of the situation, he always upheld their friendship. However, when he came to know her hand in the kidnapping of Ritwik, why did he react so strongly? Why did he go to the extent of telling her that he felt ashamed to have known her and had her as a friend? Why did he sever all ties with her?

This is my take.

Ritwik's kidnapping was a watershed in Michi relationship. Although their relationship was strained after Prachi's fateful admission to being Ritwik's mom, he could not bear to separate himself from her permanently. That is why although he had signed the divorce papers Ayesha brought to him, he later tore and threw them at Prachi's face apparently to punish her but really to keep her close to him. When his baba returned from his pilgrimage, there was an added reason to keep her home and pretend nothing happened for the sake of baba's health.

Now Ritwik's kidnapping changed all that. The kidnapping brought out the worst and the best side of him. The worst side being that he very nearly did not give the ransom money and the best being that he did and even went to the extent of ensuring Prachi's safety. In doing so he had seen Prachi's pain first hand but had not given much credence to it because he still believed her to be a liar and a betrayer. He was bashed up by the kidnappers but I don't think that really mattered much to him. The follow up of the kidnapping is what really mattered.

Ayesha had told him that Prachi admitted to baba that the baby was hers. He thought his baba's life was in danger because of Prachi and hence asked her to leave the house, something he had not done even when their misunderstanding was at its peak. When he realised even baba was willing to trust Prachi after knowing the 'truth', he was furious that Prachi can fool everybody. This triggered off the entire divorce case.

Although he had brought up the divorce issue quite a few times earlier, he really went ahead seriously with it after the kidnapping and its fall out. Whatever little sympathy for Prachi he had till then was wiped out after the kidnapping and all he could feel was rage at being used as a puppet by the one woman he loved more than this whole world. And he would have very nearly lost her if it had not been for the tape.

Yes, endangering Ritwik's life and his baba's life must have played up on his mind but what really bothered Milsi was because of Ayesha he very nearly lost his wife forever. He put her through so much pain and fear by nearly denying her the ransom money. He nearly sent her away from his home. He silently watched her as her dignity, her reputation and her family's honour took a severe beating at the courtroom during the divorce trial. The root cause of it all was the fall out of Ritwik's kidnapping. When he realised that this was staged by the one woman he trusted over anybody else in this world, the one woman he thought was his friend and confidant throughout, he was completely shattered and was unwilling to forgive such a gross wrong doing even though Prachi begged him to.

If ever he comes to know Ayesha actually tried to kill his woman, he would surely do much more than just shun her.

Opti..I do have the patience to read your posts.. 😳

I completely agree with you..i think the breaking point in their relationship was the kidnapping of rithwick kutty..

Ayesha, truly deserves what was meted out to her..She almost brought MICHI to the brink of divorce..I agree that Milind's trust in his friendship was lost when he found out that Ayesha was the one behind the whole thing..

If Milind ever finds out Ayesha was behind the accident he would probably never mmet her ever again..

I do have question though..when the accident happened prachi was not facing the car but milind was..Do you think Milind saw that it was Ayesha who was driving the car??!!

From the latest article on the future track it appears like they are going ahead with the amnesia track. so even if he did he will not remember. I only hope he did though. It may not make a difference immediately but as and when he regains his memory, that would be one memory he would not have easily forgotten.

Opti, as usual excellent post...agree 100% with you. Just hope, Milsi comes to know the whole truth in near future.

I used to have soft corner for Ayesha but now...her sins can't be forgiven.

Yes, Sana. Ayesha's sins are multplying by the day and are really hard to digest, let alone forgive. She is quickly progressing into a typical BT vamp which is pretty sad considering it will make her unidimensional but I guess is inevitable considering the past trends of other vamps. Only hope they show less of her and concentrate on developing other villains and vamps like Pranay, Mamaji, Alaap and Niharika. That will atleast leave our Michi together to face whatever problems these characters can throw at them.

After making Milsi find out the true colours of Ayesha, they have dragged us to the starting line again. All of Milsi's discovery have now gone waste and Milsi will blissfully assume that his girlfriend is his angel and his wife is the witch, that is if he is told that she is his wife. This amnesia track just makes me wish I had amnesia and forgot I ever watched a show called KYM.

wonderful post opti 😊 and i swear yaar wish even i have amnesia and forget KYM...am so mad reading the future track in the article 😡

optimist ji.....ur post makes perfect sense!!!

and why was i not surprised that milind lost his yaadash!!! jeezz.....as sooon as that episode ended where milind falls off the cliff.....i said to my sister..........."di ...i don't think he'll die, but he'll lose his memory or sumfin"!!! and duhhhhhhhhhh...that's exactly wat happened....although i don't wat kinda amnesia is this??? forgetting only the most recent yr of his life.!!!
and now....he'll try getting back with ayesha, because maybe he doesn't know that she's married to neev!! and ayesha will take advantage of this. and finally, when prachi will be just about leaving him, he'll start remembering their "cute and precious" moments...and i can bet on it!!lol

Opti it's not that long! Yes maybe you're right though I don't know what's happening inside the duffer's head. I don't like his outburst to Ayesha especially the comparing part which was not necessary and basically mean.

For me the main reason why Milind could not forgive Ayesha was because he was still very upset. Give him time and he'll forgive her (for kidnapping Ritwik) because after all he's not that good dealing with negative emotions for too long. That of course if he's not aware that she had thrown him off the cliff in order to kill Prachi. After that he would need double the time to forgive her.

As for Milind seeing Ayesha in the car before he was hit I doubt it because he was smiling so happily. Granted that he smiled happily because he could save Prachi, but I think if he saw Ayesha he would at least frown a bit. Wouldn't be surprised though if later they show that he indeed saw Ayesha.

Talking about Ayesha claiming to be his wife, I think we forgot one thing. Kayamath has shown that these people are something like celebrities, what happened in their lives are public consumption including their marriages. So creative better think again if they want to make Ayesha claims as his wife, even if the family stays silent if Milind reads newspapers or watches TV he would know that she's lying.

And btw Creative, I don't mean to insult you or anything, but with the amnesia track I'm rather sure you will slip here and there, meaning Milind would remember things he shouldn't have remembered, some previous happenings would be altered because you don't remember them anymore, more butchery to timeline etc etc and our Kayamath will have even more bloopers than ever. So please do watch out.

Magno, so the post was'nt long? Maybe not for you but I am sure many would have been scared away seeing its length. Always better to warn in advance rather than be cursed at the end.

I doubt Milind would have forgiven Ayesha this time. He would not have taken any revenge against her as he did when she married Neev. To do that one needs to care. Remember Ayesha telling him that she does not mind even if he hates her but she cannot bear it if he ignores her? I think he would have totally ignored her, would have been indifferent to her. That was a greater punishment to her than his showing his anger.

The magnitude of what she had done hit him very hard. Her betrayal earlier (of marrying Neev) hurt him alone (or atleast that is what it appeared to him. Neev's and Prachi's hurt even if he had known of it may not have counted since he did not care for them).

On the other hand kidnapping Ritwik had a much wider ramification. Apart from putting his father's and Ritwik's life at risk, he ended up hurting the person he loved the most in the cruelest way possible. I am not saying he never hurt Prachi before this incident. Yes, he did. He tortured her both physically and emotionally and the cause for it lay elsewhere.

But the fall out of the kidnapping resulted in his pressing for the divorce which itself turned very ugly in the end when the lawyer dragged her reputation and that of her father's into it. I cant forget the way he looked at Prachi when she finally caved in and agreed to the divorce. There was so much pain in his eyes as they welled up. But he did'nt do anything because by then he had hardened himself. Why? Because of the fallout of the kidnapping which made him believe without any doubt that Prachi was an ace actress who would go to any extent to get her way. He did not even go in search of her when she went missing (which by the way was totally not in character with him). He could have well lost her forever. This was the breaking point.

This whole amnesia track has been thrust at us because of one simple reason. The main theme of all BT shows so far is to keep splitting the lead couple. With the solution of the baby raaz, Milsi faith in Prachi had become unshakable. If a woman can suffer the humiliation and pain Prachi suffered to protect his sister's secret, Milsi could not but believe in the depth of her love for him. With the solution of who the kidnapper of Ritwik was, Milsi's faith in Ayesha was destroyed. So the main person who came between them was no longer going to be a problem in future. This effectively closes all doors for Michi parting which snakeman wants at all costs. Yes, there could still be some scope for misunderstandings in the form of Prachi suspecting Milsi this time for the ONS. But they have been showing Prachi as this supremely sacrificing wife and her implicit faith in her husband has always been emphasised. So that would not have been possible. Hence this stupid PM track. I agree with you Magno, this track is going to be full of bloopers.

Remember how we were hopeful that the retarded PIM track cannot really take off because it is just not possible for Milsi to believe that Prachi could have been pregnant with Ritwik? They proved us wrong. So too I cannot put anything past these creatives. They will come up with the most ridiculous things to show the most illogical twists just to further their motive to seperating Michi and torturing us for another 2-3 months.   ;