Why is Ratan acting like a jerk?

Originally posted by: partner

I have no idea why is Ratan acting like a real jerk after marriage, its as if Diya had forced him to get married to her. He is behaving like his world, freedom all ended, but never once thought what is Diya feeling after being through such a dramatic day. He is worried that his space his being shared in his room, but what the hell he was thinking that was going to happen after he got married? He made promise that he will fulfill his responsibilities of being Diya's husband all his life, but the same night fail in keeping his promise.

Moreover, Diya is acting like a fool, like an idiot, just lowering her eyes and nodding at whatever other's say, where is the tigress Diya.

In the precap, Ratan was being so rude and inconsiderate, he lost his basic manners, im contemplating whether to watch today's episode.

I mean someone really needs to put some senses in him, i thought Yash banna will do that when he met Ratan after the grahapravesh, but Yash banna was busy crying over spilled milk.

I hope Diya just give him some piece of mind, and walks off, then let Ratan think about his behaviour and run after Diya to apologise.

Originally posted by: partner

I have no idea why is Ratan acting like a real jerk after marriage, its as if Diya had forced him to get married to her. He is behaving like his world, freedom all ended, but never once thought what is Diya feeling after being through such a dramatic day. He is worried that his space his being shared in his room, but what the hell he was thinking that was going to happen after he got married? He made promise that he will fulfill his responsibilities of being Diya's husband all his life, but the same night fail in keeping his promise.

Moreover, Diya is acting like a fool, like an idiot, just lowering her eyes and nodding at whatever other's say, where is the tigress Diya.

In the precap, Ratan was being so rude and inconsiderate, he lost his basic manners, im contemplating whether to watch today's episode.

I mean someone really needs to put some senses in him, i thought Yash banna will do that when he met Ratan after the grahapravesh, but Yash banna was busy crying over spilled milk.

I hope Diya just give him some piece of mind, and walks off, then let Ratan think about his behaviour and run after Diya to apologise.

When we watch a serial, I have seen this thing especially in hindi serials that we always want the main leads to be perfect and act maturely. Here people are doing the same. They are wanting Ratan to act with Diya as his best friend and Diya to act like as Ratan's pehredar after marriage. But will it look realistic?

When you are watching Ratan throwing Diya's bangles away or talking with her rudely and Diya saying no word you will definetly put your finger in Ratan's immaturity or say "where is our tigress Diya?". But why are they showing it? Why all of a sudden two best friends are completely strangers?

The story and character. They are narrating a story with their own creativity and they also designed the character in that way. What ever the situation is the character would act what they are. When someone is jerk or someone is quiet in nature you can not they can not be changed in a moment.

Ratan is a jerk from the beginning because he married Diya just to save her and doesn't know what marriage means he is doing like that. He is also doing this to Diya because its Diya his friend, subconsciously he knows she will not say anything to him so he is venting his all anger to her. Director or makers proved Ratan a complete jerk by showing him irresponsible and taking heat of the moment decision, regretting it after in Diya-Abhay wedding episodes. This is how Ratan is. I have said it earlier if he is not immature he will be more like Yash.

Now Diya (do not trow chappal but criticize me if whatever I am saying doesn't make sense to you) Everyone has seen the tigress Diya but I have seen a frustrated Diya, who spent her 12 years as warrior. Remember the seen when Diya was dying and Ratan saying "please Diya don't leave me", Diya replied to Ratan"Ham bohot thak chuke hai Datahukum, ab or nahi". And Diya always wanted to be a house wife(Yash said that once to Yash ) but when she is married with the person she never wanted to still she is trying to be a housewife for her parents and because she accepted Ratan as her husband. If Diya had married to Abhay I think she would be this type of silent bahu, its in her norms she will never go against it but still there is a boundary. Sometimes this type of things happens when a girl is married she becomes clam and quiet, reasons can be many- don't know what is happening, don't know why it is happening. It happens more often when it is arranged marriage. DiRa marriage is not less than arrange/sudden marriage.

But I think there is a solution which will make both of them back to the normal state. Diya became warrior to fulfill her promise not for herself, like people learn karate for own safety. Diya did everything only for her best friend Ratan. If something happens to Ratan (hamla type) Diya will again be a warrior to save her Datahukum, and our Datahukum will hug her and say,

"Meina apko bohot miss kiya"

"Meine bhi apko bohot yad kiya" 😊

Originally posted by: nancy505

When we watch a serial, I have seen this thing especially in hindi serials that we always want the main leads to be perfect and act maturely. Here people are doing the same. They are wanting Ratan to act with Diya as his best friend and Diya to act like as Ratan's pehredar after marriage. But will it look realistic?

When you are watching Ratan throwing Diya's bangles away or talking with her rudely and Diya saying no word you will definetly put your finger in Ratan's immaturity or say "where is our tigress Diya?". But why are they showing it? Why all of a sudden two best friends are completely strangers?

The story and character. They are narrating a story with their own creativity and they also designed the character in that way. What ever the situation is the character would act what they are. When someone is jerk or someone is quiet in nature you can not they can not be changed in a moment.

Ratan is a jerk from the beginning because he married Diya just to save her and doesn't know what marriage means he is doing like that. He is also doing this to Diya because its Diya his friend, subconsciously he knows she will not say anything to him so he is venting his all anger to her. Director or makers proved Ratan a complete jerk by showing him irresponsible and taking heat of the moment decision, regretting it after in Diya-Abhay wedding episodes. This is how Ratan is. I have said it earlier if he is not immature he will be more like Yash.

Now Diya (do not trow chappal but criticize me if whatever I am saying doesn't make sense to you) Everyone has seen the tigress Diya but I have seen a frustrated Diya, who spent her 12 years as warrior. Remember the seen when Diya was dying and Ratan saying "please Diya don't leave me", Diya replied to Ratan"Ham bohot thak chuke hai Datahukum, ab or nahi". And Diya always wanted to be a house wife(Yash said that once to Yash ) but when she is married with the person she never wanted to still she is trying to be a housewife for her parents and because she accepted Ratan as her husband. If Diya had married to Abhay I think she would be this type of silent bahu, its in her norms she will never go against it but still there is a boundary. Sometimes this type of things happens when a girl is married she becomes clam and quiet, reasons can be many- don't know what is happening, don't know why it is happening. It happens more often when it is arranged marriage. DiRa marriage is not less than arrange/sudden marriage.

But I think there is a solution which will make both of them back to the normal state. Diya became warrior to fulfill her promise not for herself, like people learn karate for own safety. Diya did everything only for her best friend Ratan. If something happens to Ratan (hamla type) Diya will again be a warrior to save her Datahukum, and our Datahukum will hug her and say,

"Meina apko bohot miss kiya"

"Meine bhi apko bohot yad kiya" 😊

Originally posted by: pranurosid

Yes Nancy I accept with few of your thoughts..I know Diya is a calm person if not for her pehredaari for Ratan..Am not expecting her to behave rudely or give harsh answers to DH .As she would never behave like that with her husband (If she has married Abhay ) But my concern is about Ratan..We all knew that Ratan is immature, hasty in taking decisions and regrets later..Despite all these qualities he never hurted or spoke rudely with Diya except during the traitor track and there was a strong reason for his rude behavior at that time..But now why is he loosing his cool over Diya and making her feel guilty all the time for his mistakes??This is what makes me feel angry at Rataan

Originally posted by: nancy505

Because he wants Diya's attention, he will push her to the end until she speaks. Child psychology, our Ratan is no less than child 😆

Originally posted by: nancy505

Because he wants Diya's attention, he will push her to the end until she speaks. Child psychology, our Ratan is no less than child 😆