What you are saying is your point of you but I just need to bring 2 scenes. Do you remember what those bet boys said on bet revelation day- Naina hume tumse ye umeed nahi thi.
Do you rememer what these boys said to Arjun- aree hum Tao Naina ko achi ladki samjhate thee lekin wo aise ladki nikal.Do we realize here what does Aise ladki means, it cleary means that she is character less.We women, girls work so hard to maintain our good character.Many of us don' indulge in any love affair just because logo ko pata chalega Tao Kya sochenge and here Naina's character is at stake.Imagine group of people standing and Now imagine Sameer passing from there. What they are going to say about him is- aree ye Tao chor hai, issane school ke pappers churaye thee. Now imagine Naina passing from there. What are they going to say about her- aree ye Tao aise ladki hai. Iska Tao ek Amir ladke ne dhoka Diya.I know which situation is worse for you but for me it is always and always situation where your character is stack.