Shilpa Shinde, My winner.

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Posted: 7 years ago
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This is a post where I'm going to share my views on Shilpa and also why I really want her to win.

Firstly, I didn't know her before at all. Just heard from my friends about BGPH controversies but never cared much about that. When she entered the house, at first I didn't like this ShiKas drama.. Uff it was so annoying until the day she got nominated by most of the HMs. She gained my love when she didn't nominate VG. Those weeks were the days where Shilpa was tortured a lot. I don't see a problem in that and I'm not going to talk about it.


No one is perfect! She has her flaws and yes, she had done many things which made us to criticise her. But, she never hesitated to beg apology. I can't ignore when she passed personal, homophobic remarks but for that didn't she apologise? She didn't repeat it constantly. We are humans, we make mistakes. I repeat, no one is perfect. Even Vikas has age shamed her, that's not a problem?

I didn't like when she also tortured Vikas but then later she stopped all that and changed. She forgave him and apologised at that moment itself. Past is past. Can't a human change for good? Shilpa didn't do anything like that nowadays apart from what she's telling Puneesh. Come'on even Vikas and Hina talks about Shilpa most of the time. She has changed manh!


It's difficult to believe ShiKas fiasco but even Vikas agreed about it so it wasn't a lie, right? Acting was her passion but she was thrown out and made her jobless for 2 years (not talking about Vikas, all those channel head, Ekta but he might be involved in this) Still, for this Shilpa didn't play a victim card. She didn't go and sit infront of a camera and cry regarding this. All that was in initial weeks.


She never made friends? Bandgi, Pun, Mehz, Sabya, Ben, the people I mentioned here shared a good rapport with her. She was so attached with Arshi and Akash then later they degraded her. They've been torturing a lot still she didn't give a damn. But she clearly said at first that she came here not to make friends. Yes, she did have a good time with many of them including Vikas.


Kitchen card, cooking card, mother card.. Really? Tbh, in our country we can see that women are the ones who do the kitchen work (sighh) aren't they empowered? Why aren't they? I, as a feminist (not feminazi) thinks that Shilpa isn't a misogynist if she is then why is she an independent unmarried woman? She never brought other girls down (except Arshi because of her endless torturing) Honestly, if Shilpa doesn't make food then who'll make for everyone at that time? I've seen Vikas a no. of times but Hina always is on bed and comments on others.. She even said cooking is Shilpa's duty! Oh yes, she does clean toilets.. Great.
Atleast Shilpa never whined like, 'I'm making food for you so respect me'

Now coming to performing tasks, who said she can't perform tasks or let me rephrase, doesn't she participate on tasks? She has given her best in every tasks she has performed. In most of the captaincy tasks, HMs had to choose and Shilpa never got the chance, yes she did but those ccircumstances didn't make her a one. Talking about the torture task, everyone was tortured but who were the contenders? Those who weren't tortured (ie. Vikas and Priyank) She didn't become a captain but was it her fault? She badly wanted to become a captain contender and Arshi didn't allow her for that. She was the last one standing with Hina until BB warned them both. Hina would never step out so, yes Shilpa had to get down or else the task would be cancelled. Shilpa isn't at the fault, she did give her best everytime.


She's entertaining, just seeing her journey yesterday made me realise how cute she was. Love her witty replies and one liners. She has been sarcastic in most of the times. Always in positive spirit not caring about whenever someone says anything unpleasant regarding her. If she plays a game then it's not right, she's a contestant too, what's wrong if she plays a mind game?


There are a lot of things again too but can say only this as of now. :v


And yes, Shilpa Shinde For The Win. ❤️







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Posted: 7 years ago
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This is why I wish(Not that i see any possibility but still one can wish for the sky) to not Shilpa Shinde as a winner- Homophobia and Regressive mentality. I'd hate to see someone who has such shoddy thought process to get that trophy which will further encourage her that people resonate with her and hence Homophobia(Very Apparent one there) and that Discriminatory regressive mentality is fine.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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That's so very true 😳
Shilpa Shinde is My Winner since the day she got nominated by all very ruthlessly. She was bullied and troubled by the entire house. Even my parents used to dislike her in the beginning but I knew she had gained a big fan 😳
Nobody is perfect. If there are problems with her thought process 🤢 we are not different. There r many loop holes in our thought processes as well. As we go ahead in life, meet new people, our thoughts change. Our own elders had really conservative mentality regarding Girls, homo, etc. Do we abuse them? Aren't we sure that if they had the proper education and knowledge which we have now they wouldn't have done it either?

If Shilpa has any conservative thoughts then I'm sure that she is a mature and samajhdhaar woman who will soon correct herself.(she's not like some overconfident hypocrite egoist woman who doesn't accept her mistake and never tried to correct them.)
That's what she has earned. Our Trust. That's what our families do with us. Shilpa is like a family for her fans.

Even when the voting lines were closed, her crazy fans tweeted for her for more than 12 hours crossing 3M tweets. Even if people claim it was just a "bunch" of fans...look at the love and dedication that "bunch" has for Shilpa!
Shilpa Shinde has earned my Respect and My Trust!

Edited by ..RiMi.. - 7 years ago
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QUOTE=StinsonIsHere]This is why I wish(Not that i see any possibility but still one can wish for the sky) to not Shilpa Shinde as a winner- Homophobia and Regressive mentality. I'd hate to see someone who has such shoddy thought process to get that trophy which will further encourage her that people resonate with her and hence Homophobia(Very Apparent one there) and that Discriminatory regressive mentality is fine.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: BreezyBoo.

Haters please stay away.. Forgot to mention that in the post. :)


I am sorry! I had no idea you wanted an AT. A discussion generally has two sides.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Hats off dear. So beautifully explained her journey. Same here. I did not know her before BB not even heard about her controversy. She touched the right cord on me and I became her latoo. She is so simple human being very down to earth. Can't believe she is such a big celebrity who loves life so simple. She bought three pairs of footwear with her for three months whereas I have seen people carry three footwear for even three days trip.

I still don't know why her task controversy started as as far as I have seen she performed all the task and made them entertaining. It was just to demean her her rivals in the show started.

One more important thing about her is she lacks proper communication which her rivals took advantage of all the time. But being her fans we know how well she is expressive and we all love her no matter what

Tomorrow is D day. Fingers crossed. Shilpa for the win. Very happy for her 3 million trend. She is true winner for me
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: BreezyBoo.

This is a post where I'm going to share my views on Shilpa and also why I really want her to win.

Firstly, I didn't know her before at all. Just heard from my friends about BGPH controversies but never cared much about that. When she entered the house, at first I didn't like this ShiKas drama.. Uff it was so annoying until the day she got nominated by most of the HMs. She gained my love when she didn't nominate VG. Those weeks were the days where Shilpa was tortured a lot. I don't see a problem in that and I'm not going to talk about it.


No one is perfect! She has her flaws and yes, she had done many things which made us to criticise her. But, she never hesitated to beg apology. I can't ignore when she passed personal, homophobic remarks but for that didn't she apologise? She didn't repeat it constantly. We are humans, we make mistakes. I repeat, no one is perfect. Even Vikas has age shamed her, that's not a problem?

I didn't like when she also tortured Vikas but then later she stopped all that and changed. She forgave him and apologised at that moment itself. Past is past. Can't a human change for good? Shilpa didn't do anything like that nowadays apart from what she's telling Puneesh. Come'on even Vikas and Hina talks about Shilpa most of the time. She has changed manh!


It's difficult to believe ShiKas fiasco but even Vikas agreed about it so it wasn't a lie, right? Acting was her passion but she was thrown out and made her jobless for 2 years (not talking about Vikas, all those channel head, Ekta but he might be involved in this) Still, for this Shilpa didn't play a victim card. She didn't go and sit infront of a camera and cry regarding this. All that was in initial weeks.


She never made friends? Bandgi, Pun, Mehz, Sabya, Ben, the people I mentioned here shared a good rapport with her. She was so attached with Arshi and Akash then later they degraded her. They've been torturing a lot still she didn't give a damn. But she clearly said at first that she came here not to make friends. Yes, she did have a good time with many of them including Vikas.


Kitchen card, cooking card, mother card.. Really? Tbh, in our country we can see that women are the ones who do the kitchen work (sighh) aren't they empowered? Why aren't they? I, as a feminist (not feminazi) thinks that Shilpa isn't a misogynist if she is then why is she an independent unmarried woman? She never brought other girls down (except Arshi because of her endless torturing) Honestly, if Shilpa doesn't make food then who'll make for everyone at that time? I've seen Vikas a no. of times but Hina always is on bed and comments on others.. She even said cooking is Shilpa's duty! Oh yes, she does clean toilets.. Great.
Atleast Shilpa never whined like, 'I'm making food for you so respect me'

Now coming to performing tasks, who said she can't perform tasks or let me rephrase, doesn't she participate on tasks? She has given her best in every tasks she has performed. In most of the captaincy tasks, HMs had to choose and Shilpa never got the chance, yes she did but those ccircumstances didn't make her a one. Talking about the torture task, everyone was tortured but who were the contenders? Those who weren't tortured (ie. Vikas and Priyank) She didn't become a captain but was it her fault? She badly wanted to become a captain contender and Arshi didn't allow her for that. She was the last one standing with Hina until BB warned them both. Hina would never step out so, yes Shilpa had to get down or else the task would be cancelled. Shilpa isn't at the fault, she did give her best everytime.


She's entertaining, just seeing her journey yesterday made me realise how cute she was. Love her witty replies and one liners. She has been sarcastic in most of the times. Always in positive spirit not caring about whenever someone says anything unpleasant regarding her. If she plays a game then it's not right, she's a contestant too, what's wrong if she plays a mind game?


There are a lot of things again too but can say only this as of now. :v


And yes, Shilpa Shinde For The Win. ❤️









+1 👏 Great post 👍🏼
Edited by mahiya - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: StinsonIsHere


I am sorry! I had no idea you wanted an AT. A discussion generally has two sides.


Come'on I just don't want to see any hate here. Did I tell specifically that this is an AT?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: maximaq



No one deserve to change, right? Faansi pe latka do use..Vikas and Hina age shamed her too...so the dont deserve to change? I disgust on your level of thinking🤢


Age shaming is bad too.
I already said I don't see anyone worthy of winning but Shilpa has a regressive thought-process and innate Homophobia while Hina and Vikas seem more impulsive coz they were cheap comebacks. Age shaming is always stupid coz everybody's going to be the age one day they are shaming the other for. Severity and Gravity of the situation has to be seen.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: BreezyBoo.



Come'on I just don't want to see any hate here. Did I tell specifically that this is an AT?


Like I said, this is a civil discussion as long as nobody is attacking each other(like a particular person is attacking me but not you). Else it wil be an Appreciation thread and not a Discussion thread.

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