Originally posted by: _charu_
And those who don't agree with you and has a different perspective is a basher 🤢
I don't feel like coming here only but abuses such as these compel me
I am with dadi on this , it was a totally hilarious episode yesterday .8th jan...Someone who puts her marriageat stake, respect of sasural for her friend is a fool and what did she call suvarna ..Rofl..Moorkhon ki rani or something..Singhania fools, humari naira hai hi aisi..Ha ha..Jab pata hai hi aisi why did they not stop dadi ? ..After the dragging out drama and humiliation as called by fans , who is saying sorry to whom?Naira to dadi 😆
And what is kartik doing ? Singing praises of naira ..Jo ladki dost ke liye blah blah everyone telling each other sorry, you are so great, I am so foolish ! Can't he see his dadi pissed..if .He doesn't care , he should just leave ...Dadi is very right this is not the same old kartik..As you said , there should be a balance , at least with the leads we can expect...It's ok to support and understand but at least call a spade a spade..She could have lost her life and the humiliation she had to go through , it doesn't matter to anyone ..This track was Exaxtly like suvarna goenka shubham bakwas...There suvarna was being praised for her horrible deed and here naira .. . Perfect jodi..I like the message , yes husband should trust ..but the whole thing was executed horribly ..
After the great kaira vivah I can't find one instance where I liked both ..Yes they were much better before marriage ..i liked them so much back then😭..They dont fit any where in the goenka frame work. It's full of.rubbish post marriage ..Every track every moment ..This kinda husband and wife goals r unrealistic and exist only on screen .
i am sure by now the forum waasis have already labelled me regressive 😆
See if u watch diya bati season 1 suraj is what i call an ideal husband. He was always balancing between his mom whom he worships and his wife whom he adores. H3 empowered his wife by being proactive and getting her admission in graduation when she had lost hope on making a career. His mom.objects forst but when she realizes she is letting daughter study and not daughter in law she mends her ways.
Here kartik always keeps naira and her family a hundred levels above his own family. He could have been hating his dad but his studies, going abroad and all were funded by his dad including the hrishikesh trip before he took up job at singhaniyas despite him having zero regards for his dad. And right from his marriage till date he has not learnt to strike a balance.
Dadi goenka isn't vile and disgusting. If u have grandparents above 80years age at home u will understand what i mean .
She is just old school. I feel when a woman has seen everything in life, built an empire after her husband's death, brought her kids and grand kids up and is almost nearing the fag end of her life better to please her may be by compromising a bit.
Naira is totally wrong in her idea of making dadi someone sugary sweet like singhaniyas who btw were far worse than dadi goenka . Present generation girls are products of nuclear families or ultra modern joint families and always want others to change for them.naira to wants to change goenkas so do naira fans. Point is u don't change the perspectives or outlook of a family u marry into. U try to mingle with them by keeping your values with u and adjust with the new family simultaneously.
All the riches naira is enjoying in goenka house or having a sugary sweet husband like kartik who kind of uses up all goenka resources yet acts like slave of singhaniyas is because of the kind of upbringing dadi goenka gave him.
Edited by Meherya123 - 7 years ago
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