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Posted: 7 years ago
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Now my apologies for the title but this is an issue that needs to be addressed!
Firstly I loved this whole Abortion track for the following reason:
KARTHIK GOENKA!

Not because he didn't question or trusted Naira through out but because it didn't matter to him, it simply did not matter to him. I loved the fact that he told his conservative family that it didn't matter to him that there might have been an abortion and it wouldn't change anything for him.

But I also didn't like today's episode because the whole man-handling part of Naira was just not addressed at all and completely overlooked (This is not Karthik's fault but I wanted Naira to address it or take a stand).
But I am excited about the precap "joru ka gulam" accusation is much needed and has to be addressed on the show! Why is it that a supportive, trusting and open minded husband always have to be name called as "Joru ka gulam" (show as well as sadly a larger part of the society) or as "Naira's lap dog or bitch " etc by online trolls?
I am not going to be apologetic for raising this point! Why can't a guy be all this and more? If your only counter is that
it's not realistic then let me tell you men like that exist they may be in minority but they most definitely do!.


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Posted: 7 years ago
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100% agree. If a man is a supporting and caring husband who trusts his wife and is sensitive of her feelings, he is called a slave of his wife by others, and the wife is taunted by in-laws. It's merely jealousy by other people that the man doesn't listen to them in favour of trusting/ listening to/ caring for wife. 🤢
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Posted: 7 years ago
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I agree with you about being upset about the man handling part not being referred too but then again this is Kaira for them their family means a lot, plus it is not really the end of the track, I heard Vishal joined shooting so Naitik will make an entry soon, possible that they want to get Naitik involved to so I want to give some time but yes wasn't a fan of that part.

I do wish they teach people through this phase that a guy standing for his wife is by no means Joru Ka Ghulam.

I small request if you don't mind could you make your title a bit more friendly, the title sounded like a bashing post to me and I didn't feel like opening but I saw your name and have read your post before and know very well you are not some who bashes so I opened to see what it is actually about.
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Posted: 7 years ago
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For this post 👍🏼 can we write to CVs regarding the same?...manhandling by KD should be addressed specifically by Naira she never bent infront of KD and ways now what?...Karthik was the best part of entire track...you know what the MAN is the one who beat his wife...the man is the one who demands proof of v*rginity from his wife...the man must manhandle and mentally torture woman...man must verbally abuse his wife with his family...Sadly even in 21st century a few section of viewers for most obvious reasons are using these words of hatred for a progressive character and most of all for progressive thinking which was needed...this progression is needed in today's serials...
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: sammy17

100% agree. If a man is a supporting and caring husband who trusts his wife and is sensitive of her feelings, he is called a slave of his wife by others, and the wife is taunted by in-laws. It's merely jealousy by other people that the man doesn't listen to them in favour of trusting/ listening to/ caring for wife. 🤢


Exactly! I am so glad many of us are in sync with this one :)
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: janvi0513

I agree with you about being upset about the man handling part not being referred too but then again this is Kaira for them their family means a lot, plus it is not really the end of the track, I heard Vishal joined shooting so Naitik will make an entry soon, possible that they want to get Naitik involved to so I want to give some time but yes wasn't a fan of that part.

I do wish they teach people through this phase that a guy standing for his wife is by no means Joru Ka Ghulam.

I small request if you don't mind could you make your title a bit more friendly, the title sounded like a bashing post to me and I didn't feel like opening but I saw your name and have read your post before and know very well you are not some who bashes so I opened to see what it is actually about.


Haha...sorry about the title Jaanvi (rest assured I'll never make a bashing post) I just wanted it to be a click Bait title for the bashers😆 but if you still think changing it is a good idea then I'll do it :)
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: CaptiveFreedom

For this post 👍🏼 can we write to CVs regarding the same?...manhandling by KD should be addressed specifically by Naira she never bent infront of KD and ways now what?...Karthik was the best part of entire track...you know what the MAN is the one who beat his wife...the man is the one who demands proof of v*rginity from his wife...the man must manhandle and mentally torture woman...man must verbally abuse his wife with his family...Sadly even in 21st century a few section of viewers for most obvious reasons are using these words of hatred for a progressive character and most of all for progressive thinking which was needed...this progression is needed in today's serials...


So true! If only Karthik pushed and pulled Naira leaving finger prints on her skin, threw her around like a toy and tried to black mail or find new ways to torment her mentally and physically ! He would be ideal romantic hero!😛
Edited by FortunaMajor - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Jhoru ka ghulam refers to those husbands who support wives even whej they are wrong n kartik exactly does that.
Jhoru ka ghulam refers to those husbands who don't know how to strike a balance between their own family and their wife's family and always side with wife's family and that's exactly what kartik does on and off. The only time he stood up for his family was keerthi's wedding but then even that time instead of being by his sister's side he went to grind haldi at singhaniyas. So that makes him a joru ka ghulam.

If a husband is merely supporting his wife he is doing his duty but when he doesn't know how to balance between his family ajd wife's family it's not duty but slavery. Same with naira. She never balance between maayaka and sasural. She is always trying hard to change goenkas and her focus is on being in good books of goenkas in this she ignores singhaniyas completely.

These two were realistic before kaira vivah.
Real life couples always balance between two families and kaira are just not that.
Edited by Meherya123 - 7 years ago
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Meherya123

Jhoru ka ghulam refers to those husbands who support wives even whej they are wrong n kartik exactly does that.

Jhoru ka ghulam refers to those husbands who don't know how to strike a balance between their own family and their wife's family and always side with wife's family and that's exactly what kartik does on and off. The only time he stood up for his family was keerthi's wedding but then even that time instead of being by his sister's side he went to grind haldi at singhaniyas. So that makes him a joru ka ghulam.

If a husband is merely supporting his wife he is doing his duty but when he doesn't know how to balance between his family ajd wife's family it's not duty but slavery. Same with naira. She never balance between maayaka and sasural. She is always trying hard to change goenkas and her focus is on being in good books of goenkas in this she ignores singhaniyas completely.

These two were realistic before kaira vivah.
Real life couples always balance between two families and kaira are just not that.


And those who don't agree with you and has a different perspective is a basher 🤢

I don't feel like coming here only but abuses such as these compel me


I am with dadi on this , it was a totally hilarious episode yesterday .8th jan...Someone who puts her marriageat stake, respect of sasural for her friend is a fool and what did she call suvarna ..Rofl..Moorkhon ki rani or something..Singhania fools, humari naira hai hi aisi..Ha ha..Jab pata hai hi aisi why did they not stop dadi ? ..After the dragging out drama and humiliation as called by fans , who is saying sorry to whom?Naira to dadi 😆


And what is kartik doing ? Singing praises of naira ..Jo ladki dost ke liye blah blah everyone telling each other sorry, you are so great, I am so foolish ! Can't he see his dadi pissed..if .He doesn't care , he should just leave ...Dadi is very right this is not the same old kartik..As you said , there should be a balance , at least with the leads we can expect...It's ok to support and understand but at least call a spade a spade..She could have lost her life and the humiliation she had to go through , it doesn't matter to anyone ..This track was Exaxtly like suvarna goenka shubham bakwas...There suvarna was being praised for her horrible deed and here naira .. . Perfect jodi..I like the message , yes husband should trust ..but the whole thing was executed horribly ..


After the great kaira vivah I can't find one instance where I liked both ..Yes they were much better before marriage ..i liked them so much back then😭..They dont fit any where in the goenka frame work. It's full of.rubbish post marriage ..Every track every moment ..This kinda husband and wife goals r unrealistic and exist only on screen .


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: CaptiveFreedom

For this post 👍🏼 can we write to CVs regarding the same?...manhandling by KD should be addressed specifically by Naira she never bent infront of KD and ways now what?...Karthik was the best part of entire track...you know what the MAN is the one who beat his wife...the man is the one who demands proof of v*rginity from his wife...the man must manhandle and mentally torture woman...man must verbally abuse his wife with his family...Sadly even in 21st century a few section of viewers for most obvious reasons are using these words of hatred for a progressive character and most of all for progressive thinking which was needed...this progression is needed in today's serials...


Excuse me ..Progressive thinking imo is NOT trying to please the person n telling sorry to them who manhandled you...


Progressive thinking YEs..They could have truly showed it if naira did have a past , affair , abortion, whatever ...And her husband made his family understand .,specially when he knew his lovely wife was under a threat from her supposed ex...Here her family is happy dekhaaa humari bachi aisa nai kar sakti..N watch her being humiliated by her in laws..Generally a parent will stand by their children even if they are wrong ...Yeah I am proud of kartik to say those words to dadi and stand by naira but I dont like him taking pride in calling out her foolishness as whatever


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