NAINA'S FEAR OF BECOMING THE NEXT MEGHABEN !

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Posted: 8 years ago
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Let us get down to the point.

Other than being hurt in love by Sameer, what is the most prominent fear Naina has?

It is the fear of being like Meghaben.

SHE DOES NOT WANT TO END UP LIKE MEGHABEN.
(Being mocked, ridiculed, her parents and family being insulted in the community)


Now, for her to trust Sameer in love once more (again taking a risk to trust him at the possible cost of her and her family's reputation), is a huge task.

As I said, she does not want to be another Meghaben.

Therefore, are Sameer's sorry enough? Are they enough for Naina to let go her fear. I assume NO. It will be difficult for any girl.

Therefore, Sameer's needs to quickly get over the Guilt mode and start feeling Love Wala Love for Naina. Right now its profoundly confusing what he wants as the lines of guilt and love are intermixed. In fact, guilt is overburdening.

First, Sameer should be clear, what he feels. Maybe once he gets his SORRY (after Naina forgives him understanding why he did what he did but not giving Sameer any feeling of previous love she showered on him), he will still not be at peace and maybe then Sameer will know he is in real LOVE with every angle and aspect of Naina.

But is his delayed realization a strong enough reason for Naina to put her emotions/reputation at risk again by trusting him?

For this, the character of Sameer needs to show having clearcut emotions, so that Naina can understand and not be in double mind or confused like many viewers.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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For Sameer right now his guilt emotions is above everything else and that he hurt a nice girl like Naina...so yes it will take some time here to pacify Naina but even if there comes a day when she forgives him shewill not trust him as a lover again. That is most likely when his love realisation will start but the hints have been dropped already...he is getting frustrated that she is not responding to him like before nor behaving like a girl in heartbreak at least on his face..so I don't think the makers will show his realisation anytime soon...there is a lot more action to take place before this and I am really enjoying it and AM IN NO HURRY really as I don't want their story to end so soon...I don't think the makers are unnecessarily stretching the guilt part at least so far...so sit back, relax and enjoy the ride.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Hi Dr. Don
You have very well articulated my similar thoughts.

If I put myself in the place of Naina, here are my or Naina's thought

"Whatever Sameer is doing is not enough to remove my fears. Ok! Maybe he is guilty and he is asking for forgiveness. I might even forgive him but can I trust him again?

If all the emotions, talks, love and gestures he can fake for a bet, then what a sorry changes in that regard. The point is he did not love me. He acted. So, I better accept his sorry and stop all these he is doing.

Yes, somewhere in my heart I want all this he is doing to be true. I wish he also loves me like I loved him ... like I love him also now.

But the truth is, he does not love me.

He might be a good person or not ... I am not sure anymore. The bet thing, maybe the situation was as such that he did what he did. But the truth is that he DID it.

So, how can I put myself at risk again? And for what?

I don't want his sorry or pity. I don't want Sameer to pity me and my love.

If he doesn't recognize and value my love, how I can take a risk and put my family's reputation at stake?

I do not want to be another Meghaben."

I am 100 % sure, for Naina or any real-life girl in this situation, her thoughts will exactly be like above.

Hence, in the context of the show, it is high time that any underlying love Sameer night behaving gets highlighted. No need to go strong on the highlight of love.

At least a tinge.

Otherwise, Naina (or in that case any girl) can never take a risk or get over the fear of facing family/society for some boy who is not sure nor can he prove his love for her.

Edited by Riyana.Runu - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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@ n_1234
Well defined points by you.

The realization by Sameer, whenever it eventually comes has to be strong enough so that he can be dedicated enough to make Naina trust him again and believe him and in his love to possibly go against the entire Agarwal clan.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Apt post DD
Naina dreads seeing herself in Megha Ben's condition!!
She cannot easily trust Sameer after all that happened..it'll take a lot to trust him again n put her n her family's reputation at stake for him

Sameer needs to prove his feelings n his love..without having proved his love, it's completely pointless for Naina to trust him or take-up any risk for him
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Anjali33

Apt post DD

Naina dreads seeing herself in Megha Ben's condition!!
She cannot easily trust Sameer after all that happened..it'll take a lot to trust him again n put her n her family's reputation at stake for him

Sameer needs to prove his feelings n his love..without having proved his love, it's completely pointless for Naina to trust him or take-up any risk for him



Hi Anjali,

You said it correctly.

Naina might forgive just to put a stop to all his attempts at getting her sorry. However, these sorries are not enough to convince Naina.

Secondly, let's say Naina forgives Sameer. Will that be a forgive from her in real sense or just a forgiveness given in irritation. And then she stops any further interaction with Sameer.

As many are saying, once he gets his Sorry then Sameer will start feeling Love for Naina . (Love for every aspect of her and most importantly her care for him).

Whatever, it may be ... Sameer's Love aspect should be strong enough so that:
1. Naina can get out of her fear to what happened with Meghaben (Social Insults & Boycott)
2. Naina can feel that Sameer is actually worth it. (Going against her family)
3. Naina can a actually trust him again.
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