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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: SixteenAgain

Agreed.

And there was this look of sudden realisation on Sameer's face as he walked away... that she has made her choice and from now on - no expectations.


Yes looks like it was the final nail in the coffin right.

Sameer might never have expectations again from his mom ever.

I used to hope that Vishaka realises what she is losing due to her behavior

Now I just hope she stays away from Sameer as much as possible.

And I am not even interested to know anything about her husband or Rohan anymore.

Just leave Sameer alone
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: sweet_tehs

I haven't seen the episode yet...but what I get to understand about Sameer's mom is that firstly the show is based in the 90's...

Now in those days remarriages were definitely not very common...
We all know that this is her second marriage...
We don't know if she was a widow or a divorcee anyhow she re married a person of very high class and status...
Ab uss Time mein phirse aisa ghar milna would have been a very big thing...

Well we have all seen time and again tooo that be it high society or middle class men have been more dominant in the house.. the wife most of the times can't go against the husband.. and this being in the 90's definitely it would have been very difficult... (a few days ago I was watching K3G again after a long time and noticed this point now after so many years how dominant was Amitabh's character over his wife as well where she couldn't even tell him that she wanted to attend her caretaker's daughter's Nikaah... and he uttered his famous dialogue keh diya bas keh diya) this was just a reference to context..

We all know the step father is a perfect step father to Sameer...
And he is displaying two faces...one of the concerned father in front of his wife and the other one a cruel selfish and egoist man.

So in a way the wife is thinking that my husband thinks so much about my son but it is my son who is at fault and that compels her to shut up most of the times..
The truth we know but she is unaware of what is happening behind her..
and then there is direct comparison for her son in the form of step or second son ... we don't know..


So sameer is right in his place but mom I don't know she is right or wrong but definitely bound and blinded by some fake concerns...


Yes I agree with ur point but baat yahan apne bete ka hai, kitni bhi majboori kyon na ho that can't be more than her own son?
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Samaina_1990


I've been thinking on these lines too, but couldn't say it better than you have described- somehow I've always felt she is concerned for Sameer n trusts him, but is very much in control of her new husband- we don't know her limitations as well...n yes his step-father definitely is a hypocrite, n she believes he really cares for Sameer- infact he wants him to turn out a failure. Remember the cricket match of the headboy competetion- his mom wanted to wait till Sam hits his winning six, but her husband dragged her away saying Rohan is hurt n in the end nothing had happened to Rohan. Infact Sam was hurt too. N then even in paper cheating case- she says she doesn't believe Sam can do this- again that wretched man convinces her that Sam is a khota sikka. Maybe she is blinded by the concern her husband shows towards Sameer, n she reciprocates the same towards Rohan. But in reality, she fails to understand that her own son is being ignored.


Thank you..

Yes here her biggest mistake is that she has ignored her son high time...
A child needs love unconditional love from his parents
With only his mother around he expected all the love from her..which she failed t9 give him..
And that is where she went wrong...

Being delusional towards your own son,s needs and now abandoning him completely is a big mistake by any mother.. but again we haven't seen much of her so can't say much..


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Posted: 7 years ago
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Originally posted by: Dwipanita


Yes I agree with ur point but baat yahan apne bete ka hai, kitni bhi majboori kyon na ho that can't be more than her own son?


I just mentioned in a post above that by ignoring her son's need she has done the biggest mistake..
This is where she went wrong in being delusional about her husband's intentions...
Unfortunately the price is paid by sameer...

I think she has been ambitious from before and she got a boost more in the form of her present husband..

We don't know what is the back story as she has not been shown so much..
So we should just wait and watch
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Posted: 7 years ago
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Whatever Vishaka has done in the past is wrong...but for me...what she did today is unforgivable.
You'd expect a parent's love...especially a mother's love for her child to be the unconditional kind. But from what I've seen of Vishaka, she's something else. She remarried...which she is completely entitled to do...but where was it written that she had to give up on Sameer in the process?

She expects Sameer to accept her husband as his father, when the man clearly doesn't want to have anything to do with him. Even if she doesn't realize her husband's conniving tactics to keep the mother and son divided...is she blind to the hurt on Sameer's face every time she ignores him?

Why is it that she only calls him 2 times a year...that too to find out his results?

Why is it that he is shifted from one boarding school to the next?

Why does he get compared to his step-brother?

Why does she expect him to behave like member of a family he was never made to feel a part of?

Why does she set standards for him that he doesn't care to meet and then consider his rebellious nature nothing but insolence on his part?

Even today...when she saw Sameer fighting...didn't it even once cross her mind that there must be a reason for his behavior? Was he hurt? What could she do to help?

Instead, she remained silent as her husband refused to acknowledge that they even knew Sameer.

That's her son damn it! Even if she didn't say anything in front of the other guy...why didn't she follow up with Sameer later? There is just no excuse for her behavior.

She has made Sameer what he is...hurt, confused, lost, rebellious...and certainly one who would be unable to love or trust a woman.

The stark difference between Vishaka and Naina is the very thing that has jarred him into realizing that there can be someone out there that cares for him the way he deserves to be cared for.

Yeah...so...I'd definitely pass the best parent of the year award to someone else. 😡


Edited by Fatima_Q - 7 years ago

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