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Posted: 8 years ago
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What Sameer tried to do was unexpected, even I was shocked! Arey yeh keya! The narrator said "yeh un dino ki baat hai jab kiss was wrong"...wrong...even now that is not accepted. Sp school kids don't do this. Bf/gf , lovers may do that after a long relationship. Kiss is not accepted till they call themselves "couple". 2 din ki friendship mein toh kabhi nehi. That was an idiotic thing from Sameer. The slap he got was well deserved. Today's girls would do that too. But today/90s girls would not also accept "medicare" from a boy who is not considered as a lover, they will never demand from a friend not to kiss another girl. If Naina's friendship is so pure...why she is doing this hypocrisy? This is absolutely not 90s behavior. This is her and her family's( Naina+Rakesh+Arjun) problem. Their behavior is funny. "Give everything to us, but don't expect anything from us. We can insult you, demand loyalty from you too no matter what we are. But you can't. ...because we are sanskari." Neither Naina is sanskari, nor her Dad or Arjun. They are just hypocrites.
If this was purely friendship then she shouldn't hide this, she shouldn't take "Medicare" from a friend( who takes that from a friend sp when the friend is a boy?"), she shouldn't call him to Mandir and make him hide behind the cow. She should tell everyone that they are friend. No this is not 90s problem. Still now there are girls like her and families too. So can't accept this as 90s behavior.
Sameer has mannerism problem...in fact that was completely gawar type for him trying to kiss like that. As I've mentioned I was shocked!!! But Naina also gave him chance, she provoked him..."I don't want you to kiss Swati"...then she wanted to work as Juliet in that drama-------any stupid boy will think she wants a kiss in her hand. So it was her problem too. No one is innocent.
And this is not 90s problem or 2017s problems. Idiots live in all era. With that I strongly disagree with the narrator...they have no idea about 2017 ...no girls will allow that till now, and only uncultured/idiots/gawars will try to kiss that way to a girl...with whom he has just become friends. Slap was right but Naina was a hypocrite.
Edited by jhalak7 - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
#12
thats why the voiceover said that present day kids won't understand her behaviour will think its an exaggeration. That was what she was taught at home, school everywhere. Thats how she is. Even before she used to get disgusted at shefali's talks about dates, boyfriend such stuff.
Both were justified in their POV. But I would have sympathy for him if he was genuinely doing. For him kissing hand is not a big thing and he is doing it just for a bet.

I would take over these two being angry than naina letting him kiss her hand and him telling all his friends about it and ruining naina's reputation in school. I dont think if he kissed her hand it would only be between him and his friends, the gossip will spread like fire.
Edited by Paytonlee - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Loved your post and agree to some points too..
But haven't seen the episode yet so I will be back after watching it..
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Posted: 8 years ago
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As a 90s era kid i totally understand the whole matter but i hv question if Holding hand or kissing is big thing so calling someone in day or night and playing song for him when he was totally unaware of this... isko kya bolte h 90s sanskar... hmmm hypocrisy much...forget abt 90s era if in present time if u call someone and plays song for him/her...so kaisa lagta h? Kya bologe..yes bologe.. iska to chatr hi asia hoga..asie kon karta h? Sab pe line marte hoga/hogi.

Naina's Sanskar uske situation k hisab s change hote h..yes Sameer did mistake..but Naina is one who badly wants to play infect she ws aware abt kissing scene and giving order to Sameer..she don't want he kiss swati ...bhayyy samne wala kya samjhega ?? Aaram s bhi mana kar sakte thi... but no She pointing His sanskar and parvrish... "mere sanskar and parvrish asie nhi h..tumare parvrish asie hoge" .🤢 Naina is same like her father... m aur mere sanskar and parvrish ismahan only baki sab good fr nthing. and in precap - she blaming sameer for paper stealing...like srslly ...still ???? I wish someone asked her ..what abt Arjun madam.. he stole the paper... blamed others fr this and u still hiding whole truth and blame others for this...yes we saw your mahan sanskar and parvrish.

You Can Lie, not Loyal with her frends, hiding truth for her personal benifit, u can gives order to other..yeh karo aur yeh mat karo ..becoz mujhe nhi pasnd...infect as a lover she is not loyal (hiding truth). ...still M aur mere parvrish Mahan...

She did Same mistake jis ki wajah s Yeh Bet Ki starting hue thi... questioning Sameer's parvrish... and Now she proved whatever sameer thinks Abt her he is right" bahut ghamand h na baap beti ko apane parvrish par"

I m happy forget abt the bet Sameer take a stand fr himself..he is not like "maine bet lagayi h to maine kuch bola to bet kya hoag" ..No plan ...Simple action ka reaction. ..

Just becoz yeh show Naina k pov s hai..each n every damn time she is Right and Sameer is wrng...he become villain..🤢

Btw She did't want to slapped him it was mistake.

@TM totally agree with your point
Edited by --Royal-- - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Yr..
To be true
I would agreee
But kiss
It was too early n dats y she reacted dat way..
N it was just like in the flow
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Touching is extreme for any gurl..so Naina's anger was justified
N for The Sameer Maheshwari..it was rilli dumb to go n try to kiss Naina..usne kabhi kisI ladki ko samjha nhi kya, jo Munna aur Pandit ki baat man kr Chala gya usko kiss krne

Gussa dono ka justified h..I'm not blaming anyone
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: nuckts

"Agar koi tumsey alag ho to wo galat nahi hota"

I loved that line, sounds too non judgmental for 90s zamana
Fine! He is playing with her feelings and this too fast paced kiss attempt without confession was wrong - Agreed before people put daggers on this post as it's not totally pro naina post
But after seeing today's episode' last part I feel Naina is also going on Rakesh's path now...
If she calls him by stealing his no., if she complains about swati's homework, manipulates swati by showing its wrong for your family reputation whereas inside she had those intentions of not having Sameer kissing swati in all these things she is considered right as everything is fair in love and war
Where are her sanskaars now? Where are her sanskaars who loves the truth, is she revealing about Arjun's reality of paper stealing?
On top of it she is telling her friends in precap that Sameer stole papers and all, bringing up that topic after knowing the truth

Well if that is the case he case it is a war from Sameer's side too so even that should be fair (although I still don't like him playing with her)
But here if she does all mentioned stuffs she is in live whereas if someone else does anything then it's sanskaar bhashan!
She should understand that she should stop being judgemental about him like her father
She could have refused with petty lines like abhi nahi, ye sab nahi,
I mean he was not imposing on her like a bad guy
Nowadays I feel swati and other girls are better at least they accept their feelings for him and are open about it

Sorry guys No offense to anyone, I have not turned some anti naina because I love their love story but I think now cvs should show that she is not talking from both sides
Swati ko bhi kiss na kare, mujhe bhi na kare.
As the post suggests my point of view is different but just because of that I have not turned anti naina 😊
P. S - I really like the way they are growing Sameer's character, he took a stand for himself rather than a mind game and straight forwardly said - yeh kya tum aur tumhare papa baar mujhe mere sanskaaro pe judge karte rehte ho?
That had guts rather than playing with someone's feelings. 😊

Agar koi tumsey alag ho to wo galat nahi hota'
I think for once we all could relate to Sameer on this statement.
Naina should not have talked about his sanskar. This was below the belt remark.
Even though he was wrong in assuming Naina wanted to be kissed, For once my heart went out for Sameer just because of this comment.


Edited by madhuri_mr - 8 years ago
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Posted: 8 years ago
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I agree with your line!
I definitely think that Sameer was crossing a huge line there - you can't just force a girl to be kissed by you...she was trying to pull her hand away from him for quite a while but he insisted on pulling on it. He needs to ask her if she's okay with it first.

But! That doesn't mean he is entirely wrong also. She called him late at night and tried every way and means to snatch her friend's role - it's definitely a strong reaction from a girl like her. Sameer doesn't often do the right thing but Naina needs to stop judging him every time she wants. Especially since she knows he didn't steal but hasn't told anyone the truth yet?!? Not everyone who is different is wrong - I think is a very wise statement indeed!

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