Attachment Issues of Mishti

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TSharan

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Posted: 7 years ago

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Mishti was raised in a terrorizing environment. She has probably never seen love or affection. She has had all the comforts but no one cared for her. Her father punished her for things which a normal child of her age does all the time. She has never had a normal childhood and was reprimanded for asking about her mother! You cannot expect such a child to be normal. Those terrible memories need to be slowly wiped away from her psyche.

Avni was probably the first one to give her genuine love and affection. Moreover, she was the first who was not terrified of Sir and answered back to him. She always kept the promises she made (remember the 20 times poem thingy). Avni gave her reassurance that she won't be scolded, protected her, took care of her like a real mom and above all took her out of the hell hole she lived in. It is very natural for Mishti to get attached to Avni.

I have not seen the OLVs where Juhi is shown upset with Avni. But Juhi cannot expect Mishti to respond to her so easily. The only way possible is if Juhi uses Avni as a sounding board, wins Mishti's confidence so she starts responding to her. Patience is the key here which obviously she lacks. Blaming Avni is so easy. But I am not surprised that Juhi is upset. Somewhere she is jealous of Avni and because of that she fails to realize that only Avni can help Mishti get attached to Juhi.

Running away is not a solution and I think that not the reason for running away. Juhi hears Neil's rehearsing for Avni, gets upset n is probably sulking in a corner or just decides to go out forgetting her promise!!

my other concern is Mishti cannot stay in Khanna house unless adopted (which I hope does not happen) because her parents are alive and her father can come anytime to claim his right over her. That is why it is imperative the truth comes out fast. Neil should know by the end of next week that Mishti is not his daughter. CVs should not show play with Mishti's emotions n confuse her more. It will be heart breaking for Mishti to leave Khanna house if she gets too comfortable and that will impact her more. Hopefully CVs will keep the logic alive here.

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Mandy

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Posted: 7 years ago

#12

^ In the new OLV Juhi brings Mishti a doll after her previous doll broke what she didn't know is that Avni fixed Mishti's doll and brought it for her, Mishti throws away Juhi's doll and takes Avni's. I understand it is hard on Juhi but she is failing to see Mishti's POV here. It is going to take more than a day's effort to win over Mishti's heart, just look at Neil. Neil is a charmer, anyone would love him but with Mishti it took him more than a day to win her trust. Mishti is a child, with children you need patience and Juhi just does not see that.

I think you may be onto something because before these scenes there is one Juhi witnesses between Avni and Neil so I feel she is reaching her boiling point seeing Avni's closeness to Neil and Mishti, the jealousy is starting to show through. It kills her to see Avni in Neil's life and now with her child but she really needs to get it together, this is not about her. Juhi's actions are only going to push Mishti closer to Avni and another thing she is putting all the efforts Neil and Avni made to get Mishti at risk because she just goes off without telling anyone.

ETA: I totally agree with you that is my fear too, I do not want Mishti to get attached to anyone because it will be make it more difficult for her to leave. I am hoping with the promo on air that means the truth is out by next week. The promo was dated Nov 7 but I don't believe the reveal will happen that early given the OLVs I have seen. Hoping by the end of the week Neil knows the truth, the blood reports must be back by then. I feel after Ragini and Vidyut's arrest, Neil will think the coast is clear for Juhi and Mishti to leave for good but then he will learn the truth and that will blow his plans up in a huge way!

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TSharan

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Posted: 7 years ago

#13

^^ Avni is Mishti's angel and a person she trusts the most at this time so anything Avni does for her or gives her means the world to her. Next comes trainer uncle. He is the first MAN to show her love and who gave her a doll unlike Sir who broke them every time. I think the doll that broke is the one Neil gave her. Correct me if wrong. That doll is naturally very precious for Mishti. It's just like how we get attached to certain things becoz of special circumstances. I am not surprised Mishti preferred her old doll that Avni repaired over Juhi's doll.

Juhi wants everything in a jiffy!! Not possible woman!!!

Somehow I feel, Juhi expected Avni to leave Neil after the baby revelation which to her surprise did not happen. Instead Avni helped Neil and managed to get her child back. Everyone appreciated n praised Avni even DD. The baby is here and yet Neil is giving more importance to his wife than the mother of his child!! Somewhere Juhi expected AvNeil relation to fall apart but it did not happen and now even her daughter is not accepting her. Juhi is totally frustrated as nothing is working in her favor.

Regarding Mishti, I hope CVs don't use too much creative liberty becoz trivializing a child's emotions and feelings is not fair!

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Mandy

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Posted: 7 years ago

#14

Juhi was definitely not expecting to see Avni and Neil's marriage be so solid after such huge reveals. The fact learning Juhi was alive and now believing he has a child with her has done nothing to shake his relationship with Avni must sting more for Juhi. I am sure before knowing about Avni Juhi was still under the belief she was the love of Neil's life but now she knows she is not. Despite Juhi's efforts Neil is still standing by his wife and this is not out of obligation or Neil being a stand up guy, she is actually seeing his love for Avni.

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