Hiten is balanced and secure...

Originally posted by: nehlove

Hiten is truly the most balanced and secure in this madhouse. He is the only one who seems to realize this is just a stupid game show that will be over in 3 months. Four instances from just today's episode that prove why he should win.

1. Philospohical: Right after Priyank came, he was talking to Vikas about Ben. Sau takey ki baat kahi... "Bhul chuk maaf karo, aage badho zindagi mein." No wonder he gets along with everyone. Calm and composed in all situations.

2. Secure: Even though he voiced his opinion about his displeasure of the line he was given, he was sporty about it instead of creating a big ruckus. If at all, he was the only one who should've truly been upset because he has a wife and two kids who would be watching this. It could create problems for him and his family to portray him as a adulterer on national television. Him not insisting shows his secure behavior and the fact that he trusts his wife/family to not take this wrongly.

3. Unhypocritical: He rightly advises Arshi that if anyone asks her or blames her, she should not be afraid and bindaas claim, "Haan, likha hai maine." Inspite of the fact that "hiten-arshi ka dikhta pyaar" was the most damaging, he understands this is a stupid game and this video really means nothing in the grand scheme of things. Clearly, he believes in moving on as per his advise to Vikas.

4. Presence of mind: When Sapna came to fight with Arshi a minute later, yelling Pune and Goa, he took Sapna aside asking her to stop. Later, when Sapna and Arshi were fighting again, he quickly took Sapna outside and literally pushed Vikas towards Arshi to make a wall so that the fight doesn't escalate. This probably just comes naturally to him as a parent to stop fights amongst kids from escalating.

In some of the other episodes he has shown a sense of humor, patience, and ability to calm down a situation (ex. Akash water fight). And let's not forget he is eye candy for many girls even if he is older and married... (for those wanting to dispute this, please go check out the hot/handsome male poll on this forum).

Originally posted by: Ranbirrocks

Agree with most of your points but Hiten has to come out of Hina and Vikas' shadow . Its high time he becomes the leader that Gauri wanted him to become.

Originally posted by: bff.c

I want to like Hiten, considering Kutumb was my first every Indian soap that I watched and i LOVED Hiten and Gauri (and possibly also remember crying when I found out they got married in real life, just because I thought that was so cute and magical) but during this show he has either been nonexisient, or just hasnt been the centre of anything.

Despite the fact that he went to appease Arshi, I didnt like the fact that he was in with the bullies after the fact when they all went towards Sapna. Not cool for me

I'm honestly hoping that he is the one that actually breaks down the "celebrity versus commoner" barrier, and masters the group in a level headed manner.

Unfortunately he still seems like he is following the group and isn't coming across as a leader just yet

Originally posted by: nehlove

Hiten is truly the most balanced and secure in this madhouse. He is the only one who seems to realize this is just a stupid game show that will be over in 3 months. Five instances from just today's episode that prove his amazing qualities and why he should win:

1. Philospohical: Right after Priyank came, he was talking to Vikas about Ben. Sau takey ki baat kahi... "Bhul chuk maaf karo, aage badho zindagi mein." No wonder he gets along with everyone. Calm and composed in all situations.

2. Humility: After Vikas had a row with Shilpa, he left the directing task. It was Hiten who convinced Vikas to go back and finish helping. Then, after watching the video everyone was discussing that Pooja will take credit. Vikas even mentioned that direction karne wale ko credit nahi mila. But he conveniently forgot the earlier incident when he left. Just because Hiten doesn't shout screaming "maine kiya maine kiya" he seems like a follower. But it's actually his humility that he doesn't crave for credit or attention.

3. Secure: Even though he voiced his opinion about his displeasure of the line he was given, he was sporty about it instead of creating a big ruckus. If at all, he was the only one who should've truly been upset because he has a wife and two kids who would be watching this. It could create problems for him and his family to portray him as a adulterer on national television. Him not insisting shows his secure behavior and the fact that he trusts his wife/family to not take this wrongly.

4. Unhypocritical: He rightly advises Arshi that if anyone asks her or blames her, she should not be afraid and bindaas claim, "Haan, likha hai maine." Inspite of the fact that "hiten-arshi ka dikhta pyaar" was the most damaging, he understands this is a stupid game and this video really means nothing in the grand scheme of things. Clearly, he believes in moving on as per his advise to Vikas.

5. Presence of mind: When Sapna came to fight with Arshi a minute later, yelling Pune and Goa, he took Sapna aside asking her to stop. Later, when Sapna and Arshi were fighting again, he quickly took Sapna outside and literally pushed Vikas towards Arshi to make a wall so that she doesn't come out towards Sapna and escalate the fight. This probably just comes naturally to him as a parent to stop fights amongst kids from escalating.

In some of the other episodes he has shown a sense of humor, patience, and ability to calm down a situation (ex. Akash water fight). And let's not forget he is eye candy for many girls even if he is older and married... (for those wanting to dispute this, please go check out the hot/handsome male poll on this forum).