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I am in a relationship for the past 10 months. It was all peace and love until i realised about an issue that would happen if we get married. The issue seems to be my parents being along with me getting kicked out of the entire family because of old people's beliefs and customs. I am cool about myself being kicked out, but, i don't want my parents to suffer. They been through a hell lot and my dad's only hope is the relation between him and his family. My mom doesn't have any family members because of several issues. Her dad and mom are already dead and therefore she don't have any family support.
Only support is from my dad's family and that too is not proper. Family issues mainly. But whatever happens my dad tries his level best to keep the relations linked.
So now if i marry the girl i love, my parents will be kicked out of the family. If it was me who's being kicked out, i don't mind... But now certain events have happened and it became clear that my parents will also be mentally tortured and kicked out from my dad's family. All his efforts would go wrong. I was sure i will be sent out. And i was fine with it.. But i can't close my eyes on my parents as i have seen them suffering so much...
I wanted to discuss with my girl about this, because she must know everything as we don't hide things. But now she is like, she doesn't care what happens to my parents, she wants to marry me. She was like harassing me by talking about suicides.
I realise it's her love that's making her say all this. But how will i sent my parents to misfortune for her. What happiness am i gonna get from that. She harasses me by speaking about the physical relation we had. It was neither forced nor planned. Now all of a sudden everything's my mistake she says.
I was pretty sure i would marry her, even if i get kicked out. I am ready to handle that.. But my parents are not and never will be ready to me mentally and emotionally tortured by dad's family members. I tried to convince the family members,but they are so adamant.
I myself don't find happiness in this relation where all she wants is to marry me regardless what ever happens to my parents. As an elder son, i cannot throw my parents into shit hole of emotional torture and pressure.
What should i do? How will i get rid of this relation in this situation where she is trying to lock me from every side using suicidal conversations. It really bugs me.. I want both my parents and her to be happy.
Only support is from my dad's family and that too is not proper. Family issues mainly. But whatever happens my dad tries his level best to keep the relations linked.
So now if i marry the girl i love, my parents will be kicked out of the family. If it was me who's being kicked out, i don't mind... But now certain events have happened and it became clear that my parents will also be mentally tortured and kicked out from my dad's family. All his efforts would go wrong. I was sure i will be sent out. And i was fine with it.. But i can't close my eyes on my parents as i have seen them suffering so much...
I wanted to discuss with my girl about this, because she must know everything as we don't hide things. But now she is like, she doesn't care what happens to my parents, she wants to marry me. She was like harassing me by talking about suicides.
I realise it's her love that's making her say all this. But how will i sent my parents to misfortune for her. What happiness am i gonna get from that. She harasses me by speaking about the physical relation we had. It was neither forced nor planned. Now all of a sudden everything's my mistake she says.
I was pretty sure i would marry her, even if i get kicked out. I am ready to handle that.. But my parents are not and never will be ready to me mentally and emotionally tortured by dad's family members. I tried to convince the family members,but they are so adamant.
I myself don't find happiness in this relation where all she wants is to marry me regardless what ever happens to my parents. As an elder son, i cannot throw my parents into shit hole of emotional torture and pressure.
What should i do? How will i get rid of this relation in this situation where she is trying to lock me from every side using suicidal conversations. It really bugs me.. I want both my parents and her to be happy.
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