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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: libsrocks

You are thinking too logically whereas Shorvori is going for the usual orthodox rule of match-making. Even in real life we see people marry someone they know to be a good person just for the sake of child. They do not really think about compatibility. At least, in this case, Parth and Teni do share a close bond. I am, in no way, supporting Shorvori's choice but can understand as to why she chose Teni for Parth.


I am accepting this much logic from Shorvori because I have seen Parth and Shorvori's relationship in the past, what they meant to each other and how they knew everything about each other. It is only in this track that Shorvori is behaving like a fool.
Sorry, but I don't agree to the statement that Parth and Teni share a close bond whatsoever. From Teni's side he may mean a lot to her, but for Parth she is just a surrogate cum friend. They have given dialogues to him like you are my good friend, but frankly I don't see any friendly vibes in them. Parth is more like a benefactor for her. But yeah, Shorvori might have looked at it the way you are saying.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Good topic, but I disagree on this, Even though teni is uneducated and wants money. Shes ambitious and is street smart. she actually has other good quality. If parth thought of her like how you see her, than he wouldn't even be close to her, he wouldn't be teni close friend. Parth isn't the type to judge ones character. Shovori is close with teni, she's seen her quality, she knows she can trust teni with parth, even though teni has those fault. In a way they also bonded, they help one another when the situation calls for it sort of like sisters. Regardless of teni background and behavior, I think she feels more content knowing its someone she knows than a complete stranger. That's what I think anyway , some may not agree depending on how you look at it and whose sides your viewing it from.
Second, I agree with your other point. She could have talked with parth, instead removing her self from the equation to ease his pain. Couples should communicate when its stuff like that. And spend the remaining days by each other, creating good memories. Like the leading guy from the Barfi movie, who played another movie where the girl had cancer , and he refuse to leave her when he found out. They ended up getting married and make beautiful memories until she died.

Thats what it should be like. Yes, she's thinking about parth , but she should also think about the cons, for one...he founds out and goes into depression, (2) blames himself for not being there ( 3) refuse to live happy because he never got a closure with her (4) blames the third party for not telling him, these are possibility.

Lastly, I never knew to be qualify to be a wife , and a match you have to be educated , and have a job and etc. I always thought it was about the character and upbringing. theirs a saying I heard before " be a wife first, and a boss later" something along those lines. Even though I heard this saying, I wonder how many man agree to this. With This point I think theirs also pros and con's to it depending on the culture, and where you live.

I have an example about the teni not being qualify because of those fault, but this one is about a man. Theirs a Korean drama about baking. The young boy live in the street , going places with no money, uneducated , and he ended up being a thug while searching for his mom. The only thing he had was his determination and ambition. He found a shop that led to a clue about who kidnap his mom. Their he staid with the owner. he later on became fascinated with baking and told the owner he will be a chef.

They laughed at him and degraded him saying his a thug and uneducated. He proved them wrong when he started baking. Which soon led to him making bread people would want, baste on his experience in the street. He ended up being a famous chef, while his step brother, who was educated and had a good job lost that privilege because he wasnt qualify .

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Posted: 8 years ago
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This story isnt based on some grimm's fairy tales where a poor girl who just is pretty suddenly lands up marrying a prince and where the prince doesnt question the status of the girl but jus falls for the looks of her
Unfortunately in reality..every girl and guy definitely has some expectations from their respective spouses...yes..for a educated guy...he will definitely look for someone who is educated and who can match up his stature...or atleast find something compatible in the other person
If you say that i wudnt see if the guy is married is educated or lacks some sort of an identity or doesnt have a background then you are not only fooling others you are fooling yourself
In real life there are many people with whom we bond well...but getting married...its something everyone wont be ready to do...its the same with parth
And relationship these days..both the spouses crave for their space...which they wont want the other to intervene...with parth and teni's case...parth should forget that aspect forver
For people who say parth and teni share special bond and stuff...where is that bond now? Knowingly unknowingly parth did remind teni her aukaath that at the end of the day her relationship ends with surrogacy deal as it started with it...all this bonding from parth side was visible an strong only because he had his wife's undeterred love and trust...the day it started to shake...parth's bonding with teni gradually reduced...and the recent episodes clearly showed taht watever he did for teni or is doing because of the baby and the gratitude for her..and nothing more..and even if he is gonna marry her it will be because of the baby and not because of this bonding with teni...without shorvari...teni has no meaning in his life...yes he is gonna be responsible towards her till child birth because at the end of the day its the child shorvari wished for and HE chose teni..and child birth is something that involves life and death...so parth will be do his responsibilities towards teni and nothing more

And yeap talking about the comparison to some korean show...that person was determined and he worked towards his goal unlike teni who has no aims of becoming some big shot here...this comparison also doesnt make sense 😆
What aim does teni hav? Apart from attaining parth by hook or crook? All she thinks is what i shud eat..when i shud eat..where i shud eat...or its more of what parth will want..what he will do and how i can be with him...how i can make him feed me etc etc...if she had shown so much zest and determination in her America dreams or something else like being independant or getting educated or something than she landing up being successful can happen and all of us will be happy as well...but the oly achievement i see her going to achieve is becoming someone's second wife and living a loveless life ...
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: Shambavishivam

This story isnt based on some grimm's fairy tales where a poor girl who just is pretty suddenly lands up marrying a prince and where the prince doesnt question the status of the girl but jus falls for the looks of her
Unfortunately in reality..every girl and guy definitely has some expectations from their respective spouses...yes..for a educated guy...he will definitely look for someone who is educated and who can match up his stature...or atleast find something compatible in the other person
If you say that i wudnt see if the guy is married is educated or lacks some sort of an identity or doesnt have a background then you are not only fooling others you are fooling yourself
In real life there are many people with whom we bond well...but getting married...its something everyone wont be ready to do...its the same with parth
And relationship these days..both the spouses crave for their space...which they wont want the other to intervene...with parth and teni's case...parth should forget that aspect forver
For people who say parth and teni share special bond and stuff...where is that bond now? Knowingly unknowingly parth did remind teni her aukaath that at the end of the day her relationship ends with surrogacy deal as it started with it...all this bonding from parth side was visible an strong only because he had his wife's undeterred love and trust...the day it started to shake...parth's bonding with teni gradually reduced...and the recent episodes clearly showed taht watever he did for teni or is doing because of the baby and the gratitude for her..and nothing more..and even if he is gonna marry her it will be because of the baby and not because of this bonding with teni...without shorvari...teni has no meaning in his life...yes he is gonna be responsible towards her till child birth because at the end of the day its the child shorvari wished for and HE chose teni..and child birth is something that involves life and death...so parth will be do his responsibilities towards teni and nothing more

And yeap talking about the comparison to some korean show...that person was determined and he worked towards his goal unlike teni who has no aims of becoming some big shot here...this comparison also doesnt make sense 😆
What aim does teni hav? Apart from attaining parth by hook or crook? All she thinks is what i shud eat..when i shud eat..where i shud eat...or its more of what parth will want..what he will do and how i can be with him...how i can make him feed me etc etc...if she had shown so much zest and determination in her America dreams or something else like being independant or getting educated or something than she landing up being successful can happen and all of us will be happy as well...but the oly achievement i see her going to achieve is becoming someone's second wife and living a loveless life ...





I see where your coming from with your point. But the show is not over yet, the parni situation I won't comment until further eps. Depend on how they want to go about things.
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Posted: 8 years ago
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Originally posted by: libsrocks

If given a choice to Parth's family, they would have accepted neither of the two women in Parth's life. Shorvori isn't bothered about the source of acceptance since she, herself, knows well that Parth''s child will always remain the key to his family's acceptance. If the child was enough to make his family accept Shorvori then it would be enough for them to accept Teni (who has better track record in impressing them than Shorvori).


I have never claimed that the family accepted Shorvori wholeheartedly. In fact I am saying the same thing has the family had accepted Teni as surrogate only because of the child and now they are not ready to let her go only because they don't want to loose the child. And for that, they are ready to even get her married to their son without bothering for his feelings. My question is, if tomorrow they come to know that Teni has cheated them by supporting Shorvori is her stupidity, will they be able to accept that? If anything like that happens, Teni will have status of nothing more than mother of the family heir in the house.

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