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Sorry to say that but the real negativity is the one here in the forum, people ready to jump the gun!! Yaar let the CVs tell their story, let things unfold! I kind of dislike it when fans try to instruct CVs on how to tell their stories, I'd rather respect a writer who would stick to the original story they weaved instead of changing tracks as per fans whims!
No wonder Indian TV has not evolved yet and the content is highly compromised, CVs despite being called creatives are not allowed to show their creativity because people even before seeing things unfold they start attacking! A story has phases to it, there is build up, there is suspense, there is a way a story is being told, not everything can be revealed at once, and if you don't have all the pieces of a puzzle how can you see the whole picture, and if you don't see the whole picture, how can you pretend understanding it and more so judging it!
Yaar let's suppose he left the shaadi in the middle, which any woman can't accept, let's suppose the child is his, does that make him a bad person?!, does that make him unworthy of Avni's love?!, does that wipe all what he did for her in the past?!, does that destroy the good person he is?!, does that make what he feels for Avni unreal?!!! Well for me the anwser is No! He is very much Neil Khanna. Things are not white or black, we should see what he thinks, what he feels only then we can decide!
Mind you here I imagined the worst of scenarios and he is still the same for me, le droit a l'erreur, which means the right to error is something every human being has, I don't say what he does, if he does it, is right, but I still won't crucify him, let Avni decide what she wants, she knows better, what they share is unique, who are we to judge it?!, THEY DESERVE EACH OTHER BECAUSE THEY LOVE EACH OTHER!
We all want to see romantic, light hearted moments, but is it how things always happen?!, even in real life, do we control the course of events and happenings?! obviously not! and if we say this is entertainment and we want to watch exactly the things we want, then let's not be hypocrit and say we care about the story and the way it's built and the creativity... We are ordering a story as per our exact wishes! yeh kaha hota hai!!!
We call ourselves open minded, but are we really?!!! Does Neil having a child (real ya foster) make his love for Avni unpure or any less stronger! A love put to tests is the real love! Avni understanding that he has a past and accepting him with his past the way he accepted her with her past is the real love!
He gave her unconditional love and unconditional support during her tough moments, now it's her turn (and the girl has been doing it marvelously, helping him and understanding him and going to lengths no woman would go to for him), if he feels guilty or responsible or any thing on these lines and he behaves upon that even when it's really highlighted and is an overreaction, does he need to be crucified for it?!, it might be his weakness just the way Avni feels the urge to kill people who hurt her or her family, did he judge her?!, did he call her murderess?!, he understands her and loves her the way she is! And if there is an issue, or something bothering Avni, all she needs is to point it out and discuss it with him, their strength is their understanding and communication, if he makes a mistake, or is being oblivious to few important things in his current state to a point that hurts or harms Avni, she needs to voice it out! He will understand it and will make up for it!
A relationship is a continuous process, you work on it!
I feel appalled when I see people forgetting everything a person is and what they did just because they did something which isn't even clear enough at the moment, what if that child is in danger! I don't know!! It can be anything, while the whole situation seems unacceptable and very embarassing and highly unfair to a person who deserves nothing but happiness in her life after what she went through, I still would want to wait and see what really happened! Why spoil the present because of something that hasn't even happened, even in today's episode Neil talked about PRESENT neither did he talk about the past nor the future! All we have is our present, we can't change our past and we don't know what the future hides for us, so why regret the past and get worried about the future!! Many times we spoil the best moments of our lives because of that!
Be positive, if it doesn't help you it won't harm you but negativity will defintely do, why worry about something that hasn't even happened, we will deal with it at its time, why spoil the moods way way before and we might just get once again surprised and feel that yaar how were we thinking this way look, khama kha we spoiled out moods! Why contaminate people who are visiting the forum with negativity, they would really want to run away from the forum, even I find it more difficult to come here!
Anyways I'm not preaching here, nor am I telling anyone what they should do or not, it's a public forum afterall, nor am I sure of what will happen or what will not, I'm just saying that people should not blow things out of proportion (one of my friends used to call Indian forums as BOP/blowing out of proportion forum), take it easy, it would be beneficial for you and for others as well!
PEACE!
No wonder Indian TV has not evolved yet and the content is highly compromised, CVs despite being called creatives are not allowed to show their creativity because people even before seeing things unfold they start attacking! A story has phases to it, there is build up, there is suspense, there is a way a story is being told, not everything can be revealed at once, and if you don't have all the pieces of a puzzle how can you see the whole picture, and if you don't see the whole picture, how can you pretend understanding it and more so judging it!
Yaar let's suppose he left the shaadi in the middle, which any woman can't accept, let's suppose the child is his, does that make him a bad person?!, does that make him unworthy of Avni's love?!, does that wipe all what he did for her in the past?!, does that destroy the good person he is?!, does that make what he feels for Avni unreal?!!! Well for me the anwser is No! He is very much Neil Khanna. Things are not white or black, we should see what he thinks, what he feels only then we can decide!
Mind you here I imagined the worst of scenarios and he is still the same for me, le droit a l'erreur, which means the right to error is something every human being has, I don't say what he does, if he does it, is right, but I still won't crucify him, let Avni decide what she wants, she knows better, what they share is unique, who are we to judge it?!, THEY DESERVE EACH OTHER BECAUSE THEY LOVE EACH OTHER!
We all want to see romantic, light hearted moments, but is it how things always happen?!, even in real life, do we control the course of events and happenings?! obviously not! and if we say this is entertainment and we want to watch exactly the things we want, then let's not be hypocrit and say we care about the story and the way it's built and the creativity... We are ordering a story as per our exact wishes! yeh kaha hota hai!!!
We call ourselves open minded, but are we really?!!! Does Neil having a child (real ya foster) make his love for Avni unpure or any less stronger! A love put to tests is the real love! Avni understanding that he has a past and accepting him with his past the way he accepted her with her past is the real love!
He gave her unconditional love and unconditional support during her tough moments, now it's her turn (and the girl has been doing it marvelously, helping him and understanding him and going to lengths no woman would go to for him), if he feels guilty or responsible or any thing on these lines and he behaves upon that even when it's really highlighted and is an overreaction, does he need to be crucified for it?!, it might be his weakness just the way Avni feels the urge to kill people who hurt her or her family, did he judge her?!, did he call her murderess?!, he understands her and loves her the way she is! And if there is an issue, or something bothering Avni, all she needs is to point it out and discuss it with him, their strength is their understanding and communication, if he makes a mistake, or is being oblivious to few important things in his current state to a point that hurts or harms Avni, she needs to voice it out! He will understand it and will make up for it!
A relationship is a continuous process, you work on it!
I feel appalled when I see people forgetting everything a person is and what they did just because they did something which isn't even clear enough at the moment, what if that child is in danger! I don't know!! It can be anything, while the whole situation seems unacceptable and very embarassing and highly unfair to a person who deserves nothing but happiness in her life after what she went through, I still would want to wait and see what really happened! Why spoil the present because of something that hasn't even happened, even in today's episode Neil talked about PRESENT neither did he talk about the past nor the future! All we have is our present, we can't change our past and we don't know what the future hides for us, so why regret the past and get worried about the future!! Many times we spoil the best moments of our lives because of that!
Be positive, if it doesn't help you it won't harm you but negativity will defintely do, why worry about something that hasn't even happened, we will deal with it at its time, why spoil the moods way way before and we might just get once again surprised and feel that yaar how were we thinking this way look, khama kha we spoiled out moods! Why contaminate people who are visiting the forum with negativity, they would really want to run away from the forum, even I find it more difficult to come here!
Anyways I'm not preaching here, nor am I telling anyone what they should do or not, it's a public forum afterall, nor am I sure of what will happen or what will not, I'm just saying that people should not blow things out of proportion (one of my friends used to call Indian forums as BOP/blowing out of proportion forum), take it easy, it would be beneficial for you and for others as well!
PEACE!
Cricket
