Girls and nayi soch

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Anonyme

@Anonyme

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

I know many will jump at me that this is just a show etc, but this is a truth that TV has greatly influenced the teenagers and even adults a lot no matter in what country you are from, no matter what religion you are from!

IB has always been proud that their leads are nayi soch?

Does making annika wear jeans after marriage means nayi soch?

The CVs didn't even let her act as if she's working and is independent how!

The amount they degrade their female leads is something else!

When Daksh was openly challenging SSO to get annika in his bed, to SSO calling annika characterless, equaling her with a prostitute to making annika bow down and touch the feet of her stalker

While elsewhere, Gauri was literally traumatized into a wedding with 3 men( yep starting I did watch DBO too), Om also insulting gauri likewise!

And again CVs will give a track where Om thinks gauri is sleeping around with another man!

SSO can marry a girl, call another girl his wife, then even accept being father to Tia's unborn baby, then later accepting that he's married to annika, again proposing and marrying annika and again introducing a new girl as his wife!

But notice how fingers are never raised at men ever!

Om also made lots of mistakes, he wanted to bring ridhima as his live-in gf etc... His style of living was modern, yet he himself has judged gauri when he had no rights!

Tej is another insult to this whole family, yet everyone just accept all his mistakes!

Ru who has a sister and really respect his Annika bhabhi, he was a playboy but he never was so insensitive to raise fingers at a girl's reputation ever! That Ru has stooped so low and openly claimed that bhavya slept in his room for months!

Like seriously, the writer complained that people question her morality when she gave SSO-raagini hand holding scenes... But has she ever seen what image of woman she's currently portraying on TV! Has she realised how all the men are absolved of their mistakes everytime, while the women have to walk through fire!

See this is entertainment, and I get it! But the CVs should have the courage to say ' yes we give nonsense for trps, yes sometimes we degrade women for trps, yes this isn't what nayi soch should be'

But do we get it? Nope the CVs and even the writer is happy claiming her show is nayi soch everywhere!

Completely irrelevant and yet not considering what CVs have planned for gauri in coming days to justify her absence of 17 days now!

Disclaimer:

This is not a post against SSO or Om or even Ru here!

I'm just wondering what the CVs really think 'nayi soch' is because for me, despite I love Shivika and I'm addicted to them, I have no problems to say that 'nayi soch gaya tel lene' in annika's language in this show😊

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@Reeltoreal

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Posted: 8 years ago

Aashti 🤗 you said it all ... have thought about all this till it struck me that my head will explode if I do think anymore n then the realization hit me in the head n gut ... no point as you said am hooked to Shivika real bad too n as long as things go well in Shivika land I do not care about anything else but when things go south like they are now I seriously think all of them have gone crazy .

That said this TV n entertainment industry back home in India will never ever show the female as a complete achiever ... she is always subservient in all ways n means n To know how that makes sense n gives TRPs as well ... I need to grow up more ( or shrink mentally)to understand this irony but it is what it is .

Edited by yash2010 - 8 years ago

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samiksha1993

@samiksha1993

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Posted: 8 years ago

Bang On! don't have anything to add. You have said it all.

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kinnika

@kinnika

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Posted: 8 years ago

Nayi Soch, my foot! The number of times I've wished Annika would just walk away or even respond with anger at the insults she faces at regular intervals from her mom-in-law and husband. Makes my blood boil. I see no reason for Annika to be begging Shivaay for his recognition now, or for Gauri and Bhavya to come back to Om and Rudra. I can't think of any real women who would, that I know of.. and I feel terribly sad for any young girls watching who think this kind of treatment and double standards are what they should expect from relationships.

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Shopnila

@Shopnila

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Posted: 8 years ago

If I remember clearly, Gul had an radio interview before Bhavya's entry. She said it has Nayi Soch and again again saying same things like 'You see our FL cannot cook, the ML cooks, Our FL wear Jeans" etc etc. Does only this make it "nayi Soch"??

My chameli.

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Thwisha617

@Thwisha617

Sparkler

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Posted: 8 years ago

I m glad u made this post.!⭐️👏

They say

Dont be a woman that needs a man

Be the woman a man needs.

our FLs have been through fire but our MLs are forgiven way too easily.There are no points to be considered as to how low thry have stooped for their wives.Anika shud have blasted him off yesterday for saying that to media or atleast played reverse psychology saying i m off u deal with yiur new wife...!

Yesterday shivaay should have taken Anika in confidence but no after the vowsthe writer taje him back to square one.

They have issues that fans create an.uproar before thd track, I mean have they thought for once why we do It.

Dont even remind me of Gauri marrying three men!Uff and Om helping her none.Abhi bhi DBO is not over he will again blamae her over god knows what.I feel like saying hun thak chuke aur pak chuke hai rikara ki MU ki dastaan se.

what was chubby doing yesterday!After huniliating bhavya chubby has the guts to click pics like these..I wonder how are tgey restarting Ruvya again.

All the MLs have SPLIT PERSONALITIES.they never evr trust their partners and all this under a garb of Nayi Soch.

IF ony gul listens to us 10 percent.the show wud have garnered some trp and been.stabalised.Sigh!So much kurbaan for nayi soch!

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Aparna

@Apu_915

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Posted: 8 years ago

Amazing Post. U truly said it all!

I'm not blaming SSO but then bringing a new girl every other day & introducing her as your 'fiance' or 'wife' seems somewhat rash & that too infront of your legally wedded wife.

And what is it with 'Anika should suffer' trending now, I suppose both have suffered enough!

I think there was no need to bring a new girl right now. There were various other dimensions of Shivika's relationship which the CVs could've focused on but *sigh*

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veens_11

@veens_11

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Posted: 8 years ago

Nayi Soch! My foot!

For this pH nayi Soch has always been superficial.

They touted Annika wearing jeans after marriage as nayi Soch!! Anyday give me a sari clad FL who is strong , independent and doesn't take any bullshit from anyone ( in-laws or husband) than a jeans clad FL who is forever humiliated and doesn't have any self respect! Annika not getting a job during the separation phase was total character assassination of Annika. The Annika we were introduced to , who shivaay couldn't break, would have found some means of earning money.

Oh and shivaay, he is a joke now... His vows just empty words and his tadi has no impact.

And Bhavya , yesterdays episode she is getting sentimental thinking of Rudy! After what Rudy did and said at her wedding, she should still be seething in anger.

Asti, much needed post ...

It was soothing to read the post and all the replies on this thread! I sincerely hope that majority thinks like us and it's only a small section that is rejoicing over the tadi and takkar being back!

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Anonyme

@Anonyme

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

Originally posted by: yash2010
Aashti 🤗 you said it all ... have thought about all this till it struck me that my head will explode if I do think anymore n then the realization hit me in the head n gut ... no point as you said am hooked to Shivika real bad too n as long as things go well in Shivika land I do not care about anything else but when things go south like they are now I seriously think all of them have gone crazy .

That said this TV n entertainment industry back home in India will never ever show the female as a complete achiever ... she is always subservient in all ways n means n To know how that makes sense n gives TRPs as well ... I need to grow up more ( or shrink mentally)to understand this irony but it is what it is .

lol i'm always angry at what the CVs are showing as Nayi Soch, but always control myself that this is just a TV show😆
but yesterday i got the feeling that Gauri would have to go through same thing, i mean cant the writer think beyond calling her female lead characterless as a twist in a show?🥱

i'm sorry but if this is nayi soch and what girls should behave in life😆, then i'm obviously not living on Earth, because no1 believes in such things in the place i live😆

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Anonyme

@Anonyme

Dazzler

Posted: 8 years ago

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Originally posted by: kinnika
Nayi Soch, my foot! The number of times I've wished Annika would just walk away or even respond with anger at the insults she faces at regular intervals from her mom-in-law and husband. Makes my blood boil. I see no reason for Annika to be begging Shivaay for his recognition now, or for Gauri and Bhavya to come back to Om and Rudra. I can't think of any real women who would, that I know of.. and I feel terribly sad for any young girls watching who think this kind of treatment and double standards are what they should expect from relationships.

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you have no idea how much teenagers really believe this things are normal in life and are conditioning themselves for such a love story😆