Originally posted by: AreYaar
@bold: haha that bit...there was SO much he was babbling that day...where does one begin to parse out what he was even saying😆...but yeah I did notice this bit and I remember being surprised by it...it's like he was just so hadbadaaoed ki kuch bhi bole jaa raha tha...he was calling Chubby Bubbly or something too😕😆...in Punjabi there's a word for it...he was CHAAMLEYA hua😆...meaning way too hyper...and I laughed at the way he corrected the "tu" to a "tum" like he was suddenly scared of Anika😆😆...I didn't think there was more to it than that...did you feel there was? Do share your perspective too :)
I have seen a couple of movies where the transition between couples happen from 'aap to tum to tu'.I am only talking from the man's perspective. The woman on the other hand would go from 'tum to aap' post love confession/marriage. I am talking wrt to some movies which had stressed on the words with dialogues like...
woman to man: ab se aap mujhe "aap" nahi kahoge, "tum" kahoge or viceversa.
And hence was wondering if that was a reason.
Anyhow from my perspective I feel tum is something that is still used among equals with respect intact. Like with siblings tu-tu happens as you grow up together. Tum for unknown people may suggest it as being disrespectful but as the relationship deepens with comfort, tu replaces tum.
Coming to shows, in hindi, the trend still continues where the woman yet addresses the husband with "aap" unless its a college lovestory.
So was just wondering of the repeat and correction was deliberate and conscious on Shivay's side.
But you never know with Shivay/NM. I was just watching the scene where Anika first addresses him as Shivay. At one point Anika asks him how he knew she needed him. There he goes with..
Tumne raat ko phone kiya toh mujhe laga ki tumhe meri zaroorat hai.
After that he pauses and says tumhe meri zaroorat hai. At first go you feel he is just repeating it. But on rewatch I felt he is just ending it like a question with 'Tumher meri zaroorat hai?? because at that point nothing was verbalized between them. Whether it was a repeated statement or a subtle question I am not sure. But what continues is what I felt as Shivay sort of confirming and answering hhis own doubt even before she'd answer ...HAI..isiliye mei..yahan aaya..
Cant say if its Shivay fumbling/repeating there as usual and it was the same with tu-tum too.
Yet Tum/Tu/Aap whichever all good as long there is mutual love and respect.
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