Whose mistake is it?

Hola guys, I'm back. I had decided to take a break from DSDT seeing the way the storyline was progressing. So just caught up with a couple of recent episodes and I was like WTH are they showing. The once sensible show is made into an illogical mess. The 3 characters who attracted us to this show is no more. Their entire characterization is changed beyond recognition. I don't know which show I'm watching anymore.

All 3 Are Equally Responsible For It .

In the current situation it is Teni who is more at fault among the three. She is taking Parth's care for granted, she isn't bothered about Shorvori's feelings, despite Parth clearly telling her that he loves only Shorvori she still keeps fascinating about him, she is behaving too demanding, she isn't realizing that her too much closeness with Parth is disturbing Parth and Shorvori's life. The next person who is at fault is Parth. He unintentionally crossed a limit that should be there in friendship between a married man and a young unmarried girl and he isn't realizing that. He isn't realizing that by always being with Teni and giving in to every demand of her, he is fueling her feelings further. His first mistake was he didn't try to stay away from Teni even after knowing her feelings. And now it is beyond his control to stay away from her.

Shorvari has always been obsessed with the baby..she has done some extremely stupid thing because she wished the best for the baby(remember tat pooja sequence?) In this very forum there are many who have been annoyed with her (including myself) because she only cared about baby and not teni..in the past few episodes i see that she is doing her part of taking care of teni...but off late with the family getting to know teni's pregnancy everyone is taking care of her and suddenly shorvari has nothing much to do...she brought milk for teni the other day only to see dadi already giving her the milk..how can we say that she isnt concerned about the baby..she also made parth to talk to teni and feed her the food to break her bloody bhook hartal because of the baby...
But somewhere she has lost the connect now..the constant taunt from indhu tat the mother of the child is teni..snatching her rights as a wife to give it to teni has made her frustrated..its pretty natural..before parth used to acknowledge tat she is the child's mom but he has also stopped doing that..i rem
Shorvari's face when parth said baby kicked hearing his jokes and the way she asked the baby talks to you and teni a lot na..doesnt that mean tani and parth have forgotten to involve her in that joy? How can she get connected even of its her baby when people are being so insensitive to her? Her losing the connect is pretty obvious...
Teni is in fact not bothered about the baby..although she is the one who is supposed to be more connected to it...drinking the cool drinks mixed with photo ashes..going on bhook hartal to make parth feed her..where is her emotions and feelings for the baby?
The very existence of shorvari has become an hindrance for many people now..she has put her family and parth's wishes before hers..but she got back nothing but ignorance insult and loneliness..people are calling her a bitch for making her husband stay away from a third woman..telling she doesnt bother about teni and her kid..and parth is acting like her ghulam..like seriousl? whose husband is parth? Teni's or shorvari's? Doesnt she have any rights over him? Why should shorvari bother about teni when teni isnt bothered about her? Shorvari will have to bear the abuses once again when she outbursts on parth and teni and accuses them of having a illegal affair...she is definitely wrong..no doubt..she is assuming things by seeing things..but then how truthful have parth and teni been? They have hidden things from her and teni herself has made parth do things and asking him not to inform shorvari...so how does shorvari become a bigger bitch then teni! Teni seems to be behaving as parth's wife than shorvari..the only right which shorvari has is that of a wife on her husband right now...but sadly because teni is a orphan and love starved and pregnant, shorvari should give up on that right aslo and let teni become his wife..if she opposes she is a bitch...
Its saddening to see parth not seeing her pain at all..till date he oly feels tat indu's anger and family's anger has made shorvari tat way..he isnt able to see that she is more annoyed with his proximity with teni..the way he cried for teni yesterday i hated it...if he really has feelings for teni he shud accept it and let shorvari go..he is disrespecting shorvari's love by "adjusting" with her and considering her as an "obligation". If he really has developed feelinsg for teni then i have no respect for him..yeaterday he loved shorvari today teni and tomorrow it cud be someone else(sounds rude but tats how it looks)..he brought shorvari into his life..and was it to oly leave her for another woman who can give him a child...i hope this doesnt happen..but these cvs are planning on this oly i feel
I honestly want shorvari to leave parth and his family...she doesnt have to bear all these insults just because she cant conceive...she can live independently on her own and prove that woman dont always need to have husband and a child to prove their worth...and i have a feeling shorvari is doing all these deliberately...she is making herself grey in parth's eyes to walk away from his life..and let him live with teni..courtesy could be indhu..(when shorvari told indhu that she is the bahu and not and outsider..indhu was ready to give back..but we dint see that..i have a feeling she has asked shorvari to leave parth's life and that can be done only by making him hate her)

Originally posted by: Shambavishivam

Shorvari has always been obsessed with the baby..she has done some extremely stupid thing because she wished the best for the baby(remember tat pooja sequence?) In this very forum there are many who have been annoyed with her (including myself) because she only cared about baby and not teni..in the past few episodes i see that she is doing her part of taking care of teni...but off late with the family getting to know teni's pregnancy everyone is taking care of her and suddenly shorvari has nothing much to do...she brought milk for teni the other day only to see dadi already giving her the milk..how can we say that she isnt concerned about the baby..she also made parth to talk to teni and feed her the food to break her bloody bhook hartal because of the baby...
But somewhere she has lost the connect now..the constant taunt from indhu tat the mother of the child is teni..snatching her rights as a wife to give it to teni has made her frustrated..its pretty natural..before parth used to acknowledge tat she is the child's mom but he has also stopped doing that..i rem
Shorvari's face when parth said baby kicked hearing his jokes and the way she asked the baby talks to you and teni a lot na..doesnt that mean tani and parth have forgotten to involve her in that joy? How can she get connected even of its her baby when people are being so insensitive to her? Her losing the connect is pretty obvious...
Teni is in fact not bothered about the baby..although she is the one who is supposed to be more connected to it...drinking the cool drinks mixed with photo ashes..going on bhook hartal to make parth feed her..where is her emotions and feelings for the baby?
The very existence of shorvari has become an hindrance for many people now..she has put her family and parth's wishes before hers..but she got back nothing but ignorance insult and loneliness..people are calling her a bitch for making her husband stay away from a third woman..telling she doesnt bother about teni and her kid..and parth is acting like her ghulam..like seriousl? whose husband is parth? Teni's or shorvari's? Doesnt she have any rights over him? Why should shorvari bother about teni when teni isnt bothered about her? Shorvari will have to bear the abuses once again when she outbursts on parth and teni and accuses them of having a illegal affair...she is definitely wrong..no doubt..she is assuming things by seeing things..but then how truthful have parth and teni been? They have hidden things from her and teni herself has made parth do things and asking him not to inform shorvari...so how does shorvari become a bigger bitch then teni! Teni seems to be behaving as parth's wife than shorvari..the only right which shorvari has is that of a wife on her husband right now...but sadly because teni is a orphan and love starved and pregnant, shorvari should give up on that right aslo and let teni become his wife..if she opposes she is a bitch...
Its saddening to see parth not seeing her pain at all..till date he oly feels tat indu's anger and family's anger has made shorvari tat way..he isnt able to see that she is more annoyed with his proximity with teni..the way he cried for teni yesterday i hated it...if he really has feelings for teni he shud accept it and let shorvari go..he is disrespecting shorvari's love by "adjusting" with her and considering her as an "obligation". If he really has developed feelinsg for teni then i have no respect for him..yeaterday he loved shorvari today teni and tomorrow it cud be someone else(sounds rude but tats how it looks)..he brought shorvari into his life..and was it to oly leave her for another woman who can give him a child...i hope this doesnt happen..but these cvs are planning on this oly i feel
I honestly want shorvari to leave parth and his family...she doesnt have to bear all these insults just because she cant conceive...she can live independently on her own and prove that woman dont always need to have husband and a child to prove their worth...and i have a feeling shorvari is doing all these deliberately...she is making herself grey in parth's eyes to walk away from his life..and let him live with teni..courtesy could be indhu..(when shorvari told indhu that she is the bahu and not and outsider..indhu was ready to give back..but we dint see that..i have a feeling she has asked shorvari to leave parth's life and that can be done only by making him hate her)

Secondo me quello che arriva a vedere la prossima settimana , dove Shorvori trova abbracciare Parth , e un piano fatto di Parth e Shorvori per fare vedere a Teni che lei se continua con questa ossessione per Parth sar cacciata fuori di casa...

All 3 r at fault.firstly teni n parth ka jo bhi rishta h wo itna aage badna he nhi chahiye tha. Shorvari ko wo jo ab kar rhi h wo starting me he clear kar dena chahiye tha usne ab ja ke awaaz uthai but ab kya faida parth n teni ki bonding itni zada strong ho chuki h ki ab haal ye h ki dono ek dusre ke bina rahe nhi sakte. One more thing parth ko lagta h teni n uske beech h wo sirf dosti h but usko abtk feel nhi ho raha ya fir wo samhaj na he nhi chahata ki wo bhi teni se pyaar karne laga h.wo jab bhi teni ke saath hota h wo boht khush hota h infact shor se zada wo teni ke saath khush hota h usko apne dil ki har baat batata h dono ek dusre ko boht acche se samhajte h ek dusre ki parwah karte h.n last 2-3 epis se maine note kia h ki parth ko teni se duri boht hurt kar rhi h.n wo jo kuch bhi teni ko wo surrogacy n 10lakh wali baat bol raha tha wo bol kar teni se zada usse pain ho raha tha.to fir ye pyaar nhi to kya h. N I willnt surprised next upcoming epis me makers parth ko teni se pyaar h aisa bataye. N im feeling bad for shorwari koi bhi wife aisa kuch deserve nhi karti n uska ghussa bhi sahi h but jo words usne teni ke liye use kia wo dono ko confront karte waqt wo boht zada galat the.agar aap acche family me paida huve n apko kabhi khane pee ne ki kami nhi huvi to sabhi aap ki tarah lucky nhi hote logo ko aapna pet bharne ke liye boht mehenat karni padti h.shorwari ko wo sab nhi bolna chahiye tha itna he teni ki past se problem tha to pahle he bol deti. Anyways current situation me koi galat nhi n 3 no ek dusre ke bina nhi rahe sakte to raho ab saath me

All three are at fault, when you look at the story from the beginning. But right now I feel Parth is more at fault. He is been like a mediator between Shorvari and Teni. Being a husband he must have realised Shorvari's growing insecurities not just over Teni but also the complex she's been feeling due to her inability of bearing a child. He should have noticed that Shorvari is upset and feeling insecure due to two basic things, one is her inability and second one is that her place and rights as a wife have been given away to Teni, which he didn't do anything to solve either during situations like the bangle instance.

He also came to know what Teni had started feeling for him. He neither kept his distance from her before nor after this knowledge of her feelings for him, which is very wrong. He should've realised that deep down teni's feelings won't subside easy, and he should try his best not to fan her suppressed emotions by doing things for her whenever and whatever she demands. He must have made himself clear that she can't take him for granted like this and he loves only Shorvari and whatever she feels or does they can never be together.

Second most fault is Teni's. she has been butchered so badly from her original character. The girl who used to be so righteous has started to take everyone and everything for granted. She experienced love and care for the first time with PaRi, but she never should have crossed her limits with them especially with Parth. She loves Parth as he was the first ever guy who showered her with real care and concern. But doesn't she have common sense that he's a married guy, and had to control her feelings and stay in a limit with him as he's having loving wife like Shorvari? Making him feed her, biting his finger while doing that, relying on him for every thing, is this all a joke to her? This behaviour can't be excused as pregnancy mood swings or hormonal imbalances. why can't she understand that he has a life of his own with Shorvari and she shouldn't barge into their personal space every now and then. And also that she can't make dance to her tunes just coz she's having his kid in her womb. She never thought about what Shorvari will feel if she sees them getting physically closer every time... so the second main fault is hers.

Third is Shorvari herself. She wanted a baby and suggested surrogacy. But fate played a game that she ended up with Teni as her surrogate. And since it was Parth's choice she could do nothing but trust him and his choice after a few initial hiccups. But when parth and Teni started to get more closer than that was needed in respect to their relationship , she should have condemned it then and there. If not Teni she must have asked Parth to keep distance from Teni, coz as a wife she can ask anything from her husband and he's obliged to obey her words.

But she was fine with them as she trusted Parth too much. But as her pregnancy truth came out, and her family started preferring Teni, her insecurities grew further. What she could have done was have a heart to hear talk with Parth the moment the bangle or Aarti instances happened. She just kept fuming to herself never let Parth get an inkling until she had lost her sanity and trust in him completely. Communication gap and imagining things is the only problem with Shorvari , otherwise I find her behaviour understandable.